whhhhhhhhhhhaaat uppppppppppppp people!!
holy its been a long while since ive been
here.
the whole idea of PE slipped out of my
mind, the problem was that I spent so much
time worrying that it kinda took up all my
time and was always on my mind. well screw
that, i dont want to spend all my time
worrying about pe, i want to enjoy having
sex and thats what i do now, Pe or not
if i cum in 2 minute well then so be it, i
just wait a bit, eat the girl out while
she gives me head, thats gets me really
horny, and i get a wooddy again and then i
can go for alot longer
there is some good info on these boards
though
basically ive stopped caring about Pe and
that helps in the battle against it
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toofast
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2008 Posts: 3
Stud Posted: 03-03-08 08:49am
Hello Sharpshooter, yes you can spray it
directly on the head; at least that is
what I do and I haven't had any problems.
I just used it this morning and it was
some of the best sex to date; I got in
three positions which I have never done
before (unless it was the second time
around).
I find that it gives me much more control;
if I bang away at full speed I can last
about 5 minutes but if I vary the speed
even a littl I can last pretty much as
long as I want.
I only use two sprays and I do both to the
head, then I try to rub it around a little
for even coverage (all on the head). I
think if I did more than that I wouldn't
be able to finish.
Good luck
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jackon
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2008 Posts: 2 Location: ,
super stud Posted: 03-04-08 16:28pm
Hey guys!
Alittle bit about myself: before I used
stud... I could prob get 3-5 mins of oral
(if she didn't touch the head or tip of
the penis) and 1 min of intercourse.
I tried the stop/start technique but it
ruins the moment and I didn't find it
helped all that much (helped prolong sex
for another min at most). Kegal technique
made me want to orgasm FASTER:(
So before moving onto systemic drugs (SSRI
etc..) I decided to try out a topical
spray or cream first.
I just tested out STUD and it works
beautifully! I sprayed 3 times (enough to
cover the entire head and some of the
shaft) and waited about 10 mins... then I
sprayed it again on the head (might be
overkill but the head sensitivity is the
main reason why I don't last that long).
The spray can get a little messy, so be
careful where you aim it, and be sure to
push it down as quickly as possible to get
a fine mist. I find there's a slight
burning sensation when I first used it...
but it goes away after a min or 2. Try not
to get any into the urethra (pee hole) it
will sting lol.
So I had sex about 15-20 mins after the
2nd set of spraying. A few mins of
foreplay, I slap on a condom and off I go.
So I started off slowly... 1 thrust every
3 sec for the first few mins (even with
stud+condom I could still get tons of
pleasure from her vagina)... then increase
the rate...and if i ever felt the "urge" I
just changed positions (least sensitive
position for me was missionary) or go more
slowly. By the end of it I had to thrust
about 3 times per sec in doggy, for a good
5 mins just to get an orgasm but it felt
GOOD even with a condom on! Whole thing
lasted about 20-25 mins. I'm sure if I
wanted to I could have gone on for another
10-15 mins...
but I felt bad for my gf, she was probably
exhausted after the first 15 mins lol
In summary: STUD (3-5 sprays on head and a
little on the shaft)+Condom (Ultra
thin)+Technique (instead of start/stop i
decided to use a speed up/slow down
technique) + positions (missionary to
start and finish with doggy) equals,
everyone, you should check out this
video.I'm starting Yoga tonight...
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something12
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Mar 2008 Posts: 1
Posted: 03-05-08 22:22pm
Hey guys,
Reading all your posts; I can certainly
relate to all of you. I have many if not
all the same problems. I have tried
relaxation techniques, creams, SSRI's, I
have even gone for two sessions with a sex
therapist.
Nothing has helped my situation. I am 24
yrs old and I am afraid that the best
sexual part of my life is passing me by.
Not sure what to do at this point....
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MandM
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2006 Posts: 50
Posted: 03-05-08 22:33pm
POM - Welcome back, I think some people
were beginning to think that you found a
cure and ran away, lol. Well I'm glad that
you're more relaxed about the situation.
As long as you are happy, and I'm sure you
are making your partner's happy. I'm
reminded of something I heard recently, I
can't remember where, or when, but it went
something along the lines of, women, in
many cases, are more satisfied with men
with smaller penises and/or premature
ejaculation because they generally try
harder to please their partner. I mean, if
we were half hour men, then we would
probably be more focused on ourselves, and
when we were going to get off and not so
much getting our partner off. Well good
luck with all, and keep us updated with
anything new.
Han8745 - Thanks for all the information.
I think that will be very handy for people
who have problems with control. A lot of
that information coincides with the PE
book. You see, I can tell the sensations
that precede ejaculation, but nothing will
stop it. So if I were masturbating, I can
tell exactly where the point of no return
is, and stop before ejaculating. The
problem is that as soon as I start
masterbating again after the stop, I am
immediately back at the point right before
the point of no return. I cannot get past
this point, my body will not learn. After
the first time I get to that point, the
gun is cocked sort to say, and any
stimulation thereafter, even after a
period of rest, will set off the gun. In
some instances, even if I stop until I go
flacid, and then start up again, I am back
at the right near the point of no return.
This has been going on for years.
Toofast - I'm glad that you liked the
Stud; it is any awful good feeling not to
have to worry about ejaculating. It makes
sex so much more interesting, because you
actually relax a bit and enjoy everything.
Jackon- I'm also glad you liked the Stud.
This still seems the most effective
bandaid out there. I feel that the Stud
does a good job to numb the sensations.
Catsgomeow - I watched the video, but it
didn't give any techniques. Does that mean
that any and all yoga shall work? I would
say I'm skeptical that it would make men
last 3X longer. Plus, I really don't have
an hour to invest in it every day for like
12 weeks.
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catsgomeow
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2007 Posts: 9
Posted: 03-06-08 01:51am
about yoga, its more of learning your
breathing techniques. I did it tonight for
the first time and i really feel that its
going work out.
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sharpshooter153
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Mar 2008 Posts: 10
I'm hearing ya Posted: 03-14-08 17:34pm
Hey guys I can totally empathise with you
chaps, the whole PE thing is driving me
insane. Check out my blog
prematureejaculation.blog.co.uk it's a
lighthearted look at the problem and
solutions. Please feel free to add
comments and words of wisdom - Craig
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Esco
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2008 Posts: 2
Posted: 03-21-08 11:54am
Can anyone recommend any sites to pick up
some stud 100 from. Don't really want to
to use ebay. I have a paypal account, so
I need a site that allow's for paypal to
be used.
Even though it's not that expensive, I
have had bad experience's with purchases
on the net, so any recommendation's will
be much appreciated.
Thanks
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ag33
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Mar 2008 Posts: 1
Stud 100 Posted: 03-21-08 14:13pm
I tried stub the other day while
masterbaiting and didnt notice a
difference..Still fast...
Is it better to just use for sex?
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thehighlander
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Mar 2008 Posts: 1
Other Desensitizers Posted: 03-21-08 16:37pm
Hi everyone,
Do you think a doctor could prescribe a
strong (water based) anaesthetic
for numbing purposes? Something a little
stronger than stud 100?
What do dentist's use when they numb a
spot in your mouth before they inject the
area that they are working on? It seems to
work very quick and be quite effective.
Is it possible to aquire anaesthetic's
like lidocaine/benzocaine/prilocaine
in a strong water based concentration?
Plus, has anyone tried Maximum strength
Orajel LIQUID? It's 20% Benzocaine.
Take care.
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rocketman1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jan 2008 Posts: 29
Posted: 03-22-08 15:50pm
stud100 is pretty strong. If you put one
too many sprays, you end up not even
feeling your penis (which kinda sux
because ur boner will end up getting kinda
weak)
So you have to know what is the right
amount of sprays of stud u need after a
couple of trials u will be okay
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chnike112
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Mar 2008 Posts: 7
Posted: 03-24-08 00:58am
hey highlander I actually just tried the
Orajel approach. It worked out just fine.
I put it on then whacked it to make sure
everything worked right. I put too much on
so I wasn't able to finish but I kept a
strong boner the whole time. On top of
that its mint flavored! No numbness on my
hand when I was done either. I started a
thread about it.
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tthyjk
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 May 2007 Posts: 3 Location: ny
Stud Posted: 03-24-08 12:33pm
Tried Stud twice already...Didnt notice a
significant difference
Tried spraying a whole lot the second time
and didnt even feel numb...
Maybe somthing is wrong with the stud I
got, because I dont feel numb too much...
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rocketman1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jan 2008 Posts: 29
Posted: 03-24-08 23:41pm
give it like 15 minutes before intercourse
more than 3 sprays u wont feel anything
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MikeH90
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Mar 2007 Posts: 328 Location: , Illinois USA
Thanks: 1
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Re: Stud Posted: 03-25-08 11:09am
tthyjk
wrote:
Tried Stud twice
already...Didnt notice a significant
difference
Tried spraying a whole lot the second time
and didnt even feel numb...
Maybe somthing is wrong with the stud I
got, because I dont feel numb too
much...
I agree with rocketman. Let it dry. Also,
make sure you are in a flaccid state.
TWICE I applied it when I was already
aroused and it didn't work. Maybe it
doesn't absorb properly, not sure. I also
had a problem with not waiting till it was
dry.
Also, be sure you are applying to your
most sensitive areas, usually the glans
and right under the glans.
keep the faith!
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exodia69
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Mar 2008 Posts: 33
Posted: 03-26-08 11:27am
omg i thought i had it bad with my
traumatic masturbatory syndrome...
i literally bash my girlfriends vagina to
death during sex, where she isn't having
fun or pleasure cause shes in pain but, i
think alot of you guys would trade me
shoes any day. wow ladies out there
have to understand the complexity of the
male penis,
that be said im going to head over to the
womans sex forums and learn something i
may not know.
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kokopelli
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Mar 2008 Posts: 1
is this actually pe Posted: 03-27-08 09:08am
my gf and i are in college and are very
busy/both have roommates that are mutual
friends so we have a hard time finding
alone time to have sex. sometimes it can
stretch for 2-3 weeks before we get a
chance. this is tough on the relationship
but we are patient. the only thing is i
tend to be fast. 3-5min the first go
round after waiting this long. i don't
really get to masturbate either since my
roommate is always in the room. i'm 21
and wonder if i have pe. its starting to
hurt our relationship i think because the
only time we get to have sex i feel like
its over quicker than she would like.
then again, is it normal to be that fast
when you hold out so long?
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jackon
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2008 Posts: 2 Location: ,
Posted: 03-29-08 19:30pm
Hey kokopelli,
From the research I've been doing... 5-7
mins seems like an avg time for most guys.
Pornos are definitely over exaggerations
and want to make us think 15-30 mins is
actually normal which it isn't!
To know for sure...it would be best to ask
your gf directly if she gets an orgasm in
3-5 mins. If she does, then you're both
ok... If not..keep reading...
if you're not satisfied and want to go
longer, try 1-3 sprays of stud100. I over
sprayed one time and actually lost my
erection lol... kinda embarrassing. It
looks like Rocketman has a lot of
experience with stud100. I would follow
his advice since I went through the same
thing.
I would be more careful in using other
anesthetics like orajel. These usually
have more ingredients that could cause
irritation to the thin skin of the penis..
but everyone's different.
You should try doing 10 mins of foreplay
(to satisfy her first) before getting into
intercourse. Try giving her oral sex
instead and use your fingers! And go real
slow during penetration.
As for privacy, you can always try renting
a room at a motel or hotel for the night.
Motels can go for 40-60 bucks per night
and hotels are more expensive at $90+ per
night. It may seem a little extreme but
50-100 bucks for "alone time" with your
gf once every week or 2 might be worth it
in your situation. Split between the two
of you it's only 20-45 bucks per person.
Or.. ask your roommate for a big favor...
ask him to leave for a couple hours. Tell
him you wanna spend some private time with
your gf.. watching movies or something
lol.
Hope this helps.
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catsgomeow
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2007 Posts: 9
Posted: 04-02-08 03:25am
This is BS~~
were flying to mars, old men have been
taking a pill to make them hard for years,
but there still isn't anything to help all
of us? I'm tired of sitting at home on
weekends because I dont want girls to talk
to me. Where is dapoxetine?
