the Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Discussion

Hi again,

If I may go off-topic for a minute, I understand that most of us are quite stressed out. So, if I may suggest, I think we should all stop,

take a deep breath,

and relax...

doctor gave me paxil in small dose, maybe ill try SSRI's after all

yup definitly and I hope I get it by this friday cause I got a girl who is waiting for me to bang her , its gonna be a good weekend.

healthySex, your logic makes sense and i appreciate that; but then again, along with natural cures they also utilized horses for transportation for 1000s of years, and that hardly makes riding a horse the best choice when you need to get somewhere fast.

i live in a brooklyn neighborhood where most people are severely overweight; now i've been to many gyms, both neighborhood sh*tholes and upscale manhattan health clubs and most people you see at the gym are pretty fit; i know it's tempting to think that they're fit because they workout, diet, whatever, but then how about the people who are just starting out? how come you never see those? the answer is: because most people who are really out of shape rarely manage to get their sh*t together and do something about it!

at this point in life i see myself as a severely obese person who needs something extreme, like liposuction or some crazy diet pill to even start thinking about getting in shape; and it's either that, or pretending i don't really have a problem and big is beautiful (talking metaphorically here, my body fat is 7%).

knowing that i can get it hard if i need to gives me breathing space and can be a life saver; then again, some people are far more inclined to use pills than others, and i'm definitely not chemical shy..

Hey guys- just a quick note from your mod-

I think all the information sharing and advice going on here is WONDERFUL and I hope you keep up with it....

but could you please refrain from posting links to "buy it here" websites?? I'm not talking anyone in specific, but it's a common trend given the nature of these posts.

You can recommend medications that worked for you, that's just fine. But leave it to the other members to find it and buy it if they want to try it. You can always google things, right?

Strictly informational non advertising links are fine, though.

-Your friendly neighborhood moderator

That was an informational page for the most part. The product being sold on that page is the exact opposite of what anyone would want to buy for what I mentioned.

L-Histidine would do the opposite of what they want.

G'day guys

Just over one year ago me and my ex girlfriend had sex for the first time (first time for the both of us). I was extremely horny as I cared for her deeply, I was pounding the absolute crap out of her and could tell it hurt her very much. This happened so quickly but I only messed her for 1 minute or so due to my problem (and also the fact that I didn't have one clue as how long I should be lasting - I completely blocked out that factor). 2-3 months later I had sex with this random chick when her parents went away, I blew within two minutes. I was extremely embarrassed and now this is easily my number one issue in life (ejaculation/having sex). I cop alot of crap from my mates even though they are joking but it shreads me apart in side. I watched a porno a few nights ago and blew after 5 seconds or so. Im 90% sure this is a mental thing (with watching pornography) but still leaves me confused as I feel like I'm the only one out there that suffers this problem. This is a huge issue for me so any feedback on how to prevent this would be much appreciated. I also smoke and aren't fit if that has anything to do with it.

Thanks boys

two words: stud 100, check that out and buy some

During that 10 minutes you're waiting for it to work you can please her other ways. Even give an orgasm before you've even started.

Yep. In fact, you do that, and it won't even matter what the sex is like... (says the girl)

Thanks Georgia.

Hi guys, first post as you can see. I have been lurking for a few months though.I have seen mentioned pc clenches with aguments for and against and just wanted to give some details that helped me. I have been able to get them to work but like any muscles need time to strengthen.

I first read about them in an old issue of men's health magazine about 10 years back and have used it since. Very simple program too. 100 quick clenches, followed by 5 sets of 10 sec holds every day. That was it. Once I built up the strength to hold back orgasm I just did and still do that routine every 3-4 days when I think about it. Takes like 5 minutes.

The trick to making it work during sex is getting as close to point of ejaculation as possible before stopping and clamping down. I have found for me, that if I stop too early I need to keep stopping every few minutes. This is obviously a pain for the woman, but if I get right on the edge to the point of no return then I can go another half hour easily without worrying about stopping. Have no idea why this is but it was an important note of the article. So basically, yes I still do have to stop after the first few minutes for about 10-20 secs but then I'm good to go for the next half hour or more. Just get creative during that first stop and use other methods. The other important point is try keep the pc relaxed the rest of the time during sex because squeezing it during does push you toward orgasm faster. If you strenghten it and use it at the right time it does work.