question for the guys who took ssri: this
may sound trivial , but did you gain any
weight while on antidepressants?
i just got my generic zoloft that i
ordered on the internet and i'm about to
give it a shot;
this PE thing got me depressed anyway, so
i'll take the drug for PE, hoping that it
will cure my depression too, as a side
effect.
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inTango
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Copy/paste Posted: 09-21-07 23:13pm
Drugs that may cause Ejaculation
Disturbances as a side effect
Ejaculation Failure Drug
Incidence
Flomax Capsules
Levaquin in 5% Dextrose Injection 0.1% to
1%
Levaquin 0.1% to 1%
Risperdal Consta Injection Infrequent
Strattera Capsules 5%
Ejaculation Inhibition Drug
Incidence
Demser Capsules Infrequent
Dibenzyline Capsules
Parnate Tablets
Paxil CR Controlled-Release Tablets
Paxil 3.% to %
Paxil 3.7% to 10%
Wellbutrin Tablets Infrequent
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inTango
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Posted: 09-21-07 23:52pm
yeah, so i just popped the first
sertraline pill,
i'll report back as soon as i find a girl
willing to get banged in the name of
science.
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Brad17
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Posted: 09-22-07 00:57am
inTango
wrote:
question for the guys who
took ssri: this may sound trivial , but
did you gain any weight while on
antidepressants?
i just got my generic zoloft that i
ordered on the internet and i'm about to
give it a shot;
this PE thing got me depressed anyway, so
i'll take the drug for PE, hoping that it
will cure my depression too, as a side
effect.
Hey tango I currently take Zoloft and I
haven't really noticed any unusual
weight gain. But on this stuff everyone's
bodies reacts differently. How many mg's
are you taking? You should start to notice
in a couple days that it takes you longer
to jerk it, which in our case is a good
thing.
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inTango
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Posted: 09-22-07 10:56am
i take 50mg; from what i've read on
various depression forums/ medical sites,
some people start off with 25mg, but they
eventually increase it to at least 50mg as
soon as their bodies get used to the
drug.
the weight gain that many people
experience is apparently caused by a spike
in cortisol levels rather than an
increased apetite, therefore it's very
hard to control through diet/ exercising.
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POM82
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Posted: 09-22-07 17:51pm
inTango
wrote:
yeah, so i just popped the
first sertraline pill,
i'll report back as soon as i find a girl
willing to get banged in the name of
science.
LOLLOL, please let us know
how do you feel on them...zombie?
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420
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Re: the Truth Posted: 09-23-07 12:21pm
tito99
wrote:
Hey everyone. Decided to
drop a line after reading through all the
posts. Im gonna keep my history brief and
instead focus on what ive learned and what
i believe will be the cure or "retraining
as i look at it" that will satisfy most
people as long as the proper time is put
in. 1 thing. Please dont mind my spelling
errors as i dont look at the screen when i
type.
Im 28. Had PE since 13 or so when i first
began to masturbate. Various sexual
encounters while i had PE made it
difficult to enjoy any of them or actually
perform in any of them for many year sto
come. Ive had a few serious GF's tho, and
it does get better as you learn more. At
19 i went to my first sex clinic. And had
gone a few times in the years after. But i
still did not understand enough. I coudl
go on for a while on what it was like
before but im just gonna get to where im
at right now. went from 10 seconds to
10-15 mins on average during sex. And
sometimes, 20 mins. Now, mind you, these
arent 10 mins of straight pounding. Every
30 seconds i do feel the urge. But ive
learned alot, and sudden stops for liek a
second or shifting weight allows me to
restart the clock. When i was at 10
seconds it was impossible to do something
like this. What changed it was
masturbation and more sex. But really,
masturbation the right way. Now, im
looking into putting the most effort ive
every thought of this time around because
i feel now after studying and
understanding my body i believe i know
where it came from and how to prolong it.
Now ive read this excat thing in a few
cases from some peopel over teh net. And
they were THE only ones who fixed it. But
like i said. It requires so much time and
dedication. And im just starting after
learning so much over the years.
1) The quick jerk evolving to teh slow
jerk. . How many of you are like this? My
first sexual experience was me jerking it.
And it was rapid style. Over the years,
before my first shot with a chick, i
jerked off many times a day but in a rapid
fire pace. i was still doing this up to
this year. i believe this is what trained
my penis to have teh urge to ejaculate so
quickly. Think about it. When u try these
stop start things now, u dont see any
difference in teh length before the point
of no return because youve already trained
your penis like a million times to rapid
fire right to the point asap. Its all
muscle memory. So jerking off is needed to
clear this problem. Not asking you tto
stop, just to SLOW DOWN. Dont worry about
stop start with partner. This is all for
you alone.
2) Time and dedication. Theres a few
things i learned and try. As much as you
can. I mean seriously as much time as you
have alone at home, jerk off. Use porn,
use images on teh net. Get going. You
gotat retrain your penis and your brain to
do thinsg teh new way. And you wont see
results for a week, month, or even a few
months. Maybe you will see a slight
difference. But the big ones will take a
while. No different then losing weight or
gainign muscles during workouts. You dont
lose alot in a week, or a month. Its like
six months of training when you see your
body learning your new lifestyle and
growing from it. So set aside like 30 mins
a day. I even try liek an hour sometimes
just jerking off to porn or videos. Porn
is harder to control. But stay slow. I
will get to that in the next point. But
this point is to find time. Make it. 2
times a week aint enough to retrain.
Everyday would be ideal. This is one of
teh hardest parts.
3) How do u jerk off? Or pound away in
sex? Lets say you got some sexy pics from
the net. Its a good start. Slowly start to
jerk off until u get hard. Now enjoy it.
But go slow. Train yourself. Stay slow.
Even if you are slow, u will notice its
still feeling liek ejac time sooner or
later. But it is slower than the rapidfire
jerking. And each time is better. When i
say slow, i mean slow. 1-2 seconds per
jerk helps. Ofcourse go faster at times to
keep the feeling going. Now what happens
eventually u will get to the ejac point,
at which you shoudl stop. Clamp down your
pc's, touch that part above your anus, or
grab teh head of your penis. Do whatever.
It doesnt matter which. Your just Shockign
your brain with any of them saying" nope,
i aint letting myself ejaculate like its
used to." thats teh point of the stop ,
start thingy. U might have to literally do
this thousands of times over months before
u get control but now u understand what
its about. The time inbetween when u start
jerking when u are hard and when you reach
teh point of no return is where you want
to lengthen. The more you stay in that
area, the longer it gets. This is why u go
slow. People do these start stop things
with a fast or regular paced jerk off or
thrust, then stop. But thats not enough to
help. When you feel u get closer to the
higher levels of arousal, slow down even
more. Like jerk, wait like 2 seconds,
jerk, wait 2 secs, jerk, wait 2
secs...this is when u feel that if u did 2
jerks in a row, u woudl reach the point of
no return. Keep on staying at these levels
with time in between and eventually after
a few minutes it will feel easier. Try it.
Dont worry if the next time u do teh
exercise it feels the same as u started.
Cuz liek i said, ur retraining will take
many months. But u shoudl feel something
in terms of feeling slightly better
control over these exercises in a few
weeks if done daily. When images get you
bored, throw in some good old porn vidz to
make it even more difficult. And it will
be with teh sounds and stuff.
4) This one, ive read about in a few books
and from a few posts aswell. Might seem
sstrange to some but im tryign it. NEVER
ejaculate. Together with slowing down your
strokes quite a bit and staying at teh
high levels of arousal and stopping when
near the point of no return, thsi may cure
it all over time. When u dont ejaculate
after stroking, your again telling your
brain "NO". No to somethign you've said
Yes to thousands of times before or maybe
hundreds if your still young. Eventually,
it will learn tthat its not been releasing
and cumming after teh strokes and arousal.
That it will push back the time. Thats its
not nessary to blow it out so quickly,
sinc eu dont blow out anymore. Muscle
memory! hold it back. Blue balls doesnt
exist by teh way if u worry about that.
that health question happens when your
witha girls. But it doesnt exist when
your just jerking. So dont worry and start
holding back your explosions.
These 3 things are things that not alot of
you probably do and this is why there
slittle chance at fixing it. I wish i
started this stuff in my teens. I woudl
have been happier. But better late than
never. understand why this happens.
Understand that this is a function that
you have trained your body to do in this
particular way. Its about getting
comfortable by repeating, repeating and
repeating. Many many times. Sorry if this
was too long. I just wanna help myself and
others cuz this health question sux. And
every doing it thing out there is just
designed to make money off suffering
people, and thats just horrible. Imagine,
if u have the patience and teh dedication,
with this method . As long as erections
arent a problem, u can have sex for as
long as you want. If if erections are a
problem, get some drugs, cuz now you can
bang for a while.
BTW, weed is super once in a while. U can
last long, and it feels great when
actually having
sex.
Hi all. I want to thank everyone for their
posts, I knew i wasn't the only one that
suffers from severe PE but it's really
refreshing to see everyone comfortably
discussing this and trying to help one
another.
tito. After many years of not doing
anything about this I am ready to throw
all my dedication into solving this
unbearable problem...my question to you
is, you say that people should put aside
30 mins a day, what i would like to know
is if i was to masturbate 2 to 3 times a
day doing everything that you said do you
think this would increase the chances of
gaining control faster or would it get
that same results as doing it just once a
day??
thanks for your time.
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inTango
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Joined: 20 Sep 2007 Posts: 38
Posted: 09-23-07 12:42pm
i really don't feel any particular
drowsiness or headaches or anything (i
only took 2 pills though, so there's still
time); the little one does feel a little
numb (it might be the placebo effect,
after reading all this online stuff) so i
just watched some porn to make sure he's
still alive and i'm glad to report he is.
I only hope those pills are not fake,
they're made by sun pharmaceuticals in
india.
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inTango
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Joined: 20 Sep 2007 Posts: 38
Posted: 09-23-07 20:57pm
i went to the gym today and there was this
girl at the front desk wearing a miniskirt
with tall leather boots and i was like
God, kill me now!
i truly hope this stuff i'm taking does
its job, cause otherwise i'll prolly turn
homo, get a big container of lube and let
some other dude worry about keeping it up.
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POM82
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Posted: 09-25-07 10:20am
where is everybody on this forum!! i think
the guys are having alot of success with
the stud spray.
Im just here to share some information: I
realzed yesterday that for me to cum while
jerking off, i had to give some strong pc
contractions, i never noticed this before
but thats what made me cum, so I guess by
realxing it, it should help.
Just my observation for the day. I notice
things more when im high.
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tuneout08
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Joined: 25 Sep 2007 Posts: 3
Posted: 09-25-07 18:04pm
hey guys i'm 17 and i have the same
problem as you guys.. i masturbate
basically everyday.. and i think i have
got PE because of the way i've
masturbated.. i use two fingers and just
rub the glans under the penis head.. since
i've been really sensitive in that area..
my shaft is fine but the glans are over
sensitive and i usually last less than 3
minutes.. should i stop masturbating
altogether for some time? do i have any
nervous damage in that area? i think the
skin might be thin in that area so i was
thinking that if i stopped alltogether
that it would heal please help!
thanks guys
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-25-07 18:57pm
Learning to masturbate differently might
help you
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tuneout08
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Joined: 25 Sep 2007 Posts: 3
Posted: 09-25-07 19:52pm
yeah i know, i'm starting to just use the
shaft now and avoid the glans
alltogether.. for a while at least..in
hopes of a classical conditioning
"extinction" response of the
oversensitive nerves..
psychology sucks lol
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Birdie9
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2007 Posts: 3
Posted: 09-27-07 01:46am
POM82
wrote:
alright dudes!!
im onto something here and if anyone can
shed some light or relate then please
share you stories if u have any tips as
well
while choking the chicken the other night,
i decided for the first time in my life to
stay completley relaxed and stroke it till
i would feel the urge to ejaculate, whe i
was doing this i relaized that i could go
on for much longer if I didnt flex my pc
muscle at all. I read on this board
before some one saying something about the
pc muscle doing that but I didnt think
that was the case for me but it is.
Fastforward a bit, i start getting "good
feelings" but instead of flexing my pc
muscle and holding them I left it
completly relaxed and I could almost feel
that good feeling travel up my shaft and
out my spout, sensations increased after
this but I was still going at a medium
pace adjusting my stroking to how I felt
to make it last even longer, the came time
for the test, I stroked it till i felt i
was gonna ejaculate and right before I
felt it i squeezed my pc muscle hard a
couple of times until the urge passed and
then continued slowly and repeated the
whole process from square 1, i never had
better sensations in my life by not
squeezing my pc muscle when stroking only
when I couldnt take it anymore. This is
what I will do from now on and im
definilty gonna do this with sex also and
see the results.
cheers
This is what I tried for the past two days
so far and it seems to be working. The PC
muscle is the one kind of in your anus and
when you clench it to make your penis more
erect or am I wrong? But that's not the
point.
I did almost excately what you did with a
few things differently here and there. I
start off at a medium pace just to get it
hard and until I feel like ejaculating. I
was watching porn to help with the
stimulation. The first day when I was
about to ejuculate I completely stopped
stroking it and clenched my PC muscle (I
felt it was more effective if I use both
my leg and let it wrestle each other to
help clench) . After a few seconds I'd
continue stroking. I didn't want to stop
for long because in real sex stopping and
starting would be annoying for your GF.
When i resumed I didn't go medium pace I
went thrust really fast , the thrust
lasted for about 10-30 seconds and I felt
like ejaculating again. I clenched my PC
muscle for about 3 to 5 seconds and
resumed at the same pace.
That went on for about 3 to 4 minutes
until I ejaculated. I was very surprised
at how much longer I lasted. The total
time for that was around 7 minutes , 4 of
which was full thrust (very fast).
Tonight I tried the same method again went
off at a medium to fast pace this time and
I got close to ejaculating after 2-3
minutes. I wasn't really horny at that
time but it doesn't matter because even if
I wasn't horny the usually time I
ejaculate is around that time. Being horny
just makes it shorter!
When I was about to ejaculate I clenched
it and around 1-2 minutes I ejaculated.
But it wasnt a full ejaculation. Some
sperm leaked out which took the
sensitivity level down by a so much. It
was still hard as a rock, now I started to
thrust which lasted for a 5 minutes and
spermed leaked out again. I felt the
sensitivity level go down by a lot so I
thrusted faster (the way you do it when
you want to cum). I didn't care about
lasting long anymore I was so surprised at
how hard I am still. I thrust non stop and
I just could not ejaculate until finally I
ejaculated again. That's 4 times now, it
wasn't full ejaculation, its the type
where when your about to ejaculate but you
clench it so only a few sperm leaks out.
After the 4th one I lost almost all
sensitivity but still rock hard now I just
stroke it like I was before but as fast as
I can nonstop cause it was like 10 minutes
of nonstop thrusting. I finally ejacuted
fully at the end which was a small
ejaculation cause all my sperm was gone.
It wasn't as satisfying to ejaculate that
late but hell 20 min of masterbating and
15 minutes of full thrusting it was
insane.
This method you have to stop for about 3-5
seconds every 2 minutes about to clench
your PC muscle and keep your ejaculation
under control. I will play around some and
see how I can improve the feeling and
keeping the time.
After the 3rd ejaculation if I didn't keep
thrusting it and stop touching it I lose
erection and quick. So you need to keep
thrusting which became tiring after a good
10 minutes of doing it.
I also read tito99 post and tried that for
about one week. I just cannot stand the
feeling of stroking your penis slowly .
The feeling is just not the same and when
you finally ejaculate it's not even close
to satisfying. it felt like wow thank god
it's over, felt more like work then
pleasure.
The way I described and POM82 said worked
for me and it was very pleasurable. You
may lose a bit of pleasure (not as much as
slow strokes ) but you last a good 15 or
more minutes. I probably can last longer
but when you start lasting 15 minutes of
thrusting you feel like stopping.
Some more info I want to include about
this is I masterebated when I wasn't very
horny but like I said I've masterbated
when I'm not horny before I would have
never lasted 20 minutes ever! No lube used
(I've never used lube before) just porn
and my hand.
POM82 I have a question for you, you said
you were going to try this on your
girlfriend. Have you and if so how did it
go? I want to test it on a girl but I
dont' have enough confident to do that
yet.
Hope this helped some people, I will post
more if any of you have questions
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jasonmark66
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Joined: 02 Sep 2007 Posts: 4 Location: ,
Posted: 09-27-07 14:50pm
my only 2 cents is to really stay away
from SSRI antidepressant.
those kind of drugs can really mess up
your brain balance. there are tons of
other solutions, like exercises and other
stuff around.
I just haven't been posting because I'm
having a long-ass dry spell right now.
Keep up the discussion!
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nitro1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2007 Posts: 1
Posted: 09-29-07 12:24pm
hi there,
sort of relieved to see that i'm not the
only one out there with this problem.
interestingly i think that alot of it (as
mentioned by another poster) is habitual.
I started masturbating at 14 and always
did it quickly so i could please myself
faster. This effectively became
standardised in my response time to
ejaculation - so by the time i was having
sex with my then girlfriend several years
later I was simply coming quickly out of
force of habit.
i think equally though having a super
sensitive bellend also impacts on it. i
agree totally with another poster who
mentions that after cuming he gets a dont
touch me kind of sensitivity in his
penis.
lots of people mention different methods
to sort this out. I read with interest
about the tensing/relaxing thing.
I wonder has anyone heard of or tried the
'Tarutao' method? I bought the booklet a
few years ago but have never really tried
it out. I dont know if I wasted $40 but it
sounds fairly similar to the kegels
thing.
By the way - whilst not an ideal solution
i think that the trojan and durex
performas are a great fix. I find that i
can go for ages with the durex. but like
some of the others have said there is the
tendancy for your johnson to go to sleep.
the last time i used one i put in a good
performance (about an hour and a bit -
including changing positions etc) but i
found that sometimes when switching or
slowing down i'd have to give myself a
quick wank to get my pecker up to full
stiffness. Still - I'd rather that than
have my sex end about a minute in to it!
I'd be interested to hear about anyone
whose heard of the Tarutao method or tried
it and with what results.
heres the link though (not a great deal of
info - but i think u can see what i'm
talking about)
THE STORY
ok heres my PE story, my first sexual
encounter was great. i lasted about 3 min
and thought it was my first time no
biggie. i was 20 yo. later that night we
decided to do it again and than my worst
fear happened. she was givin me head for
about 30 sec and i said STOP and than i
came all over. I WAS SO EMBARRASED SO
ASHAMED IT WAS REALLY TRAMATIC. she was
really really cool about it(you really
need a girl to be cool about it or itll
just make it worse) about half hour later
we tried again got the condom on put it
inside and 2 sec BOOM came again THATS IT
I NEVER WANTED TO HAVE SEX AGAIN! I WAS
HORRIFIED BECAME DEPRESSED FOR THE NEXT 3
DAYS DIDNT MASTURBATE OR EVEN GET AN
ERECTION I DIDNT WANT TO. I COULDNT IF I
TRIED BECAUSE IT WAS BOTHERING ME. i
talked to my girl who made me feel 100
times better told her i needed time to
repress that whole experience. after i got
over my depression i began to work(this
was sex something i wanted to do ALL MY
LIFE AND I SUCKED AT IT WELL MY BODY DID I
CANT CONTROL IT FOR medical question
SAKE.) I DID KEGAL, STOP START I AM NOW
EVEN TO HAVE MULTIPLE ORGASMS AND EVEN
STOP IT FROM CUMMIN OUT WEN I CUM BUT I
STILL HAVE PE!!!!!
THE
SOULTION
WE TRIED THE TROJAN EXTENDED PLEASURE.
THESE WERE good. i was able to last. it
just numb my gril so there was no point if
no one can feel anything, BUT GET THE
DESESITIZING CREME!! I REPEAT GET THE
DESESITIZING CREME!!GET THE DESESITIZING
CREME!!GET THE DESESITIZING CREME!! this
caca doing it works no questions asked it
works. i am not a doing it spokesperson
for this caca i am a regular victim of PE
put the gel ceme caca on throw a condom on
AND LAST AS LONG AS YOU WANT, AFTER DOING
ALL THE GODDAMN EXCERISE YOU CAN ACTUALLY
CONTROLL IT WTHT HE CREME /GEL caca.TRY IT
AVOID ALL THE SHAME!! I LIKE TO REFER TO
IT AS TRAING WHEELS AND EVENTUALLY I WILL
BE ABLE TO RIDE THE BIKE WITHOUT THE
CREME. yes it does go numb but i still
feel pleasue it so great i love that caca
and feeling like a pornstar as i f` ucc kk
my girl all night!!!
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langdon
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2007 Posts: 2 Location: ohio,
Posted: 09-30-07 17:33pm
the only thing thats worked for me is some
chinese thing called kwang tze (china
brush).
my PE is pretty bad. 5 to 10sec is all it
takes. for example, the first time my girl
went down on me, she sucked twice and i
came. other time, she's grabbed my member
for a handjob and 2/3 strokes is all it
took for me to come. mind you she's
stunning and i think that increases the
arousal. on the other hand if im
masturbating i can make it last 20sec.
even then, im sure we'll agree it's a
problem.
as i said, the only thing thats kept my
relationship going for a year now is kwang
tze. it's a liquid that you apply with
what looks like a cotton ear bud. dries
quickly. the most ive lasted with this is
a couple of hours and 30min of continuous
strokes. and ive only ejaculated after
that because ive wanted to i.e furious
strokes to force myself to ejaculate. as
far as my girlfriend is concerned, she's
happy. she doesn't even know i have PE.
the few times ive come early ive used an
excuse like "you're way too hot" and it's
worked. she's obviously fallen for it
because she's used to seeing me going for
20min+
few drawbacks to this.
1- label says you need to apply it at
least an hour before. i found that this
needs to be done 2hours before. meaning if
you come home and your partner wants
jiggy, you're back to the "you're too hot"
scenario. one winter evening, i picked her
up from work and she caught me by surprise
by undoing my pants and taking it in her
mouth. 5sec later i came. she looked
baffled. i said "you're way too hot, don't
do that"
2- it irritates my member the following
day. badly. so bad i find myself furiously
scratching my shaft all day long. <
this i think can be overcome by washing
your penis straight away with strong soap.
i dont shower until we're done for the
night which is like 40min after we've had
sex.
3- it's not good if you enjoy oral. for me
anyway. ive noticed that now when im
receiving oral, after 5min my penis goes
red and extra sensitive to her tongue. so
sensitive i have to push her away and get
her to finish me off with her hand. <
there has to be a reason for this. why am
i sensitive to her tongue but not her
hand? saliva gotta play a hand in this?
4- when you put it on, it stings like hell
for a good hour so. depending on how much
you use. hence why put it on hours before
rather than 15 min like some website
recommend
so, if you're just after some long lasting
pounding and have the opportunity to apply
this 2 hours before you get jiggy, go for
it.
if it's oral you're after, this might not
be the thing for you.
forgot to add, i bought mine off ebay
simply cos i didnt wana pay the full price
unless i knew it worked. but this is
available in many websites and your high
st chinese herbal place will definitly
stock it.
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POM82
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Posted: 10-02-07 08:07am
Birdie9
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POM82
wrote:
alright dudes!!
im onto something here and if anyone can
shed some light or relate then please
share you stories if u have any tips as
well
while choking the chicken the other night,
i decided for the first time in my life to
stay completley relaxed and stroke it till
i would feel the urge to ejaculate, whe i
was doing this i relaized that i could go
on for much longer if I didnt flex my pc
muscle at all. I read on this board
before some one saying something about the
pc muscle doing that but I didnt think
that was the case for me but it is.
Fastforward a bit, i start getting "good
feelings" but instead of flexing my pc
muscle and holding them I left it
completly relaxed and I could almost feel
that good feeling travel up my shaft and
out my spout, sensations increased after
this but I was still going at a medium
pace adjusting my stroking to how I felt
to make it last even longer, the came time
for the test, I stroked it till i felt i
was gonna ejaculate and right before I
felt it i squeezed my pc muscle hard a
couple of times until the urge passed and
then continued slowly and repeated the
whole process from square 1, i never had
better sensations in my life by not
squeezing my pc muscle when stroking only
when I couldnt take it anymore. This is
what I will do from now on and im
definilty gonna do this with sex also and
see the results.
cheers
This is what I tried for the past two days
so far and it seems to be working. The PC
muscle is the one kind of in your anus and
when you clench it to make your penis more
erect or am I wrong? But that's not the
point.
I did almost excately what you did with a
few things differently here and there. I
start off at a medium pace just to get it
hard and until I feel like ejaculating. I
was watching porn to help with the
stimulation. The first day when I was
about to ejuculate I completely stopped
stroking it and clenched my PC muscle (I
felt it was more effective if I use both
my leg and let it wrestle each other to
help clench) . After a few seconds I'd
continue stroking. I didn't want to stop
for long because in real sex stopping and
starting would be annoying for your GF.
When i resumed I didn't go medium pace I
went thrust really fast , the thrust
lasted for about 10-30 seconds and I felt
like ejaculating again. I clenched my PC
muscle for about 3 to 5 seconds and
resumed at the same pace.
That went on for about 3 to 4 minutes
until I ejaculated. I was very surprised
at how much longer I lasted. The total
time for that was around 7 minutes , 4 of
which was full thrust (very fast).
Tonight I tried the same method again went
off at a medium to fast pace this time and
I got close to ejaculating after 2-3
minutes. I wasn't really horny at that
time but it doesn't matter because even if
I wasn't horny the usually time I
ejaculate is around that time. Being horny
just makes it shorter!
When I was about to ejaculate I clenched
it and around 1-2 minutes I ejaculated.
But it wasnt a full ejaculation. Some
sperm leaked out which took the
sensitivity level down by a so much. It
was still hard as a rock, now I started to
thrust which lasted for a 5 minutes and
spermed leaked out again. I felt the
sensitivity level go down by a lot so I
thrusted faster (the way you do it when
you want to ejaculate). I didn't care
about lasting long anymore I was so
surprised at how hard I am still. I thrust
non stop and I just could not ejaculate
until finally I ejaculated again. That's 4
times now, it wasn't full ejaculation, its
the type where when your about to
ejaculate but you clench it so only a few
sperm leaks out. After the 4th one I lost
almost all sensitivity but still rock hard
now I just stroke it like I was before but
as fast as I can nonstop cause it was like
10 minutes of nonstop thrusting. I finally
ejacuted fully at the end which was a
small ejaculation cause all my sperm was
gone. It wasn't as satisfying to ejaculate
that late but hell 20 min of masterbating
and 15 minutes of full thrusting it was
insane.
This method you have to stop for about 3-5
seconds every 2 minutes about to clench
your PC muscle and keep your ejaculation
under control. I will play around some and
see how I can improve the feeling and
keeping the time.
After the 3rd ejaculation if I didn't keep
thrusting it and stop touching it I lose
erection and quick. So you need to keep
thrusting which became tiring after a good
10 minutes of doing it.
I also read tito99 post and tried that for
about one week. I just cannot stand the
feeling of stroking your penis slowly .
The feeling is just not the same and when
you finally ejaculate it's not even close
to satisfying. it felt like wow thank god
it's over, felt more like work then
pleasure.
The way I described and POM82 said worked
for me and it was very pleasurable. You
may lose a bit of pleasure (not as much as
slow strokes ) but you last a good 15 or
more minutes. I probably can last longer
but when you start lasting 15 minutes of
thrusting you feel like stopping.
Some more info I want to include about
this is I masterebated when I wasn't very
horny but like I said I've masterbated
when I'm not horny before I would have
never lasted 20 minutes ever! No lube used
(I've never used lube before) just porn
and my hand.
POM82 I have a question for you, you said
you were going to try this on your
girlfriend. Have you and if so how did it
go? I want to test it on a girl but I
dont' have enough confident to do that
yet.
Hope this helped some people, I will post
more if any of you have
questions
no i havent tried it cause me and my girl
split, you guessed it because of PE, not
because se said anything about it but
because I was so sure she was thinking
about how I cat last long that it drove me
crazy and I wasnyt able to be myself
around her, i was very insecure so she
left. now im relying on the stud spray
even though i dont like this method, im
gonna try the extended pleasure condoms
again with a penis ring too.
IM going to the doctors in one week to
tell him about it and to a urologist to
see what they say. If ssri's can help
then thats what ill do
im really fed up of this problem, its
ruining my life or my chance to have a
life. whatever gets rid of it i will do
