I Did My Home Work Guys Here It Is Posted: 05-22-07 00:33am
I did some research and came across some
websites with free information on PE as
well as the product i bought for like 7
bucks that i used to cure my PE.
check these places out, i really hope this
helps guys.
Re: I Did My Home Work Guys Here It Is Posted: 05-22-07 00:39am
Relyt
wrote:
I did some research and came
across some websites with free information
on PE as well as the product i bought for
like 7 bucks that i used to cure my PE.
check these places out, i really hope this
helps guys.
your doctors heard far more ermbarassing
things than pe, dont think to much about
it, he might have pe too
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Relyt
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Re: Posted: 05-22-07 12:33pm
The $10 program i bought explains about 9
methods to try ranging from easy quick
solutions that give results right away to
much more complicated techniques that i
still havnt fully mastered yet. I liked it
cause it was written personally. It wasnt
some carefully layed out program full of
crap, it was pretty straight forward and
in your face. It really got the ball
rolling for me.
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havetofixit
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Posted: 05-22-07 12:40pm
HealthySex
wrote:
At your age it's a good idea
to get regular prostate exams anyway, so
you wouldn't necessarily have to say why.
What other reasons could cause sudden
onset PE, I don't know, so I'd want to
check on prostate issues. Especially if
you've been sexually active consistently
and have been consistently been PE free.
Any other changes lately? Diet, exercise,
stress/anxiety, new partner,
etc.?
No changes lately, no diet, same everyday
exercises, not aware of any health
problems. Same partner for 26 yrs. Some
stress with work. Will check out a doc,
but which one? Sex terapist or Med doctor?
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Relyt
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Posted: 05-22-07 12:58pm
Sudden onset of PE can also be caused by
relationship or life stress. Have you been
under an unusal amount of stress lately?
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MandM
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Re: I Did My Home Work Guys Here It Is Posted: 05-22-07 19:30pm
Relyt
wrote:
I did some research and came
across some websites with free information
on PE as well as the product i bought for
like 7 bucks that i used to cure my PE.
check these places out, i really hope this
helps guys.
I've just looked over these real quick and
it seems to be the same information that
is all over the place.
Out of curiousity, before you started any
of these programs, how long did it take
you to ejaculate? Intercourse and
Masterbation? The information that is
generally supplied is effective for many
who ejaculate after probably after 30
seconds. Many people find out that they
will benefit from relaxation and pacing.
Sort of tuning the body to prolong
ejaculation. The same tactics will
probably work for someone who ejaculates
after 5 minutes, after these suggestions,
they may ejaculate after 7-10 minutes.
Which might be a very ample time for their
case.
I believe the real sense of this thread is
that there are many people who suffer PE
closer to less then 15 seconds. I think
there is something else going on complared
to those who exclaim to have PE but
ejaculate after one minute. I think that
pacing and relaxation techniques may work
in those cases. If my PE was not "severe"
and I ejaculated after one minute, I think
I would be able to use the many mentioned
techniques to increase my ejaculation time
greatly.
I know in my case, I have always had PE
(Primary). I'm also pretty sure that I
haven't had any deep psychological
problems, I have always paced myself
during masterbation (using the
stop-and-start technique even before I
knew what it was supposed to do).
There is something different in some of
our cases, this is way I have formulated
the opinion that there are different
level/cases of PE. I know no matter what,
that there is a super sensensitive spot on
my penis, that will make my body push an
ejaculation reflex within seconds. If a
different spot is stimulated, then the
reflex subsides. It doesn't matter how
relaxed I am or how deep I breath or how I
try to push the sensations throughout my
body. The same reflex occurs during sexual
intercourse, or during masterbation.
Sorry for the long post, but I feel that
some people do not understand or
experience "Severe" Premature ejaculation.
It's very easy to say the solution is
easy. Many of us have tried many supposed
solutions and have come up at the short
end of the stick.
So, honestly, how severe was your
premature ejaculation before you were
cured? I'm real curious to see how it was
with sexual intercourse compared to
masterbation.
Please don't take this as I'm saying you
are wrong by any means. I'm just trying to
get a full understanding.
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MandM
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Posted: 05-22-07 19:38pm
Oh yeah, I just wanted to mention another
thing.
When I use a desensitzer, I can feel the
point of ejaculation coming as it
approaches. I can now identify that and
delay it a bit, if I don't want to cum
yet. I understand about pushing the
sensations throughout your body, instead
of just your penis. I've actually gotten a
lot better at this, and I am usually able
to cum when I want to. But I cannot
replicate this technique without a
desensitizer.
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HealthySex
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Re: Posted: 05-26-07 12:56pm
Relyt
wrote:
The $10 program i bought
explains about 9 methods to try ranging
from easy quick solutions that give
results right away to much more
complicated techniques that i still havnt
fully mastered yet. I liked it cause it
was written personally. It wasnt some
carefully layed out program full of crap,
it was pretty straight forward and in your
face. It really got the ball rolling for
me.
What are the 9 methods? I'm not looking
for you to give away the secrets for free,
just a list. To see if there's anything
really new.
PC exercises? Testicle Pull? Push on the
perineum?
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scoripo17
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Foreplay.......this Works For Me Posted: 05-27-07 21:38pm
I get my girlfriend to give me head, and
it helps me learn how to know when i am
about to go.... after she gives me head i
am still hard lol so we have intercourse
and i last for like an hour...try it works
for me, foreplayyyyyy
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POM82
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How Do You Guys Deal With It? Posted: 05-28-07 10:28am
are u guys single like me?
how do you deal with PE and trying to
build a relationship with a girl?
are there times when u feel like caca
about having Pe and are FU**IN fed up? I
know I am
Id like to hear from the guys in
relationships too
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pin_cushion
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Posted: 05-29-07 17:29pm
Hi again!
To begin my post, I would like to repeat
that I feel that we can greatly benefit
from sharing notes about PE. I believe
that these posts will teach us far more
about the nature of PE than just reading
books and articles.
To quote MikeH90
"it sounds like even though your
ejaculating your not experiencing an
orgasm. I've felt that way a few times,
almost like you feel like it wasn't
satisfying enough."
Can you guys imagine if it was like that
99% of the time you had intercourse or
masturbated. That's basically the picture
of my PE. As soon as it begins to feel
good, it's over, sometimes even before it
begins. Often times, I lose interest in
sex thinking "why bother?" I often feel
jealous of people who have 'normal' sex
lives, although I try not to think those
thoughts - it will only make things
worse.
I decided to try and see if the "Stud 100"
does anything for me, so I ordered some.
Since it's been almost two years since I
broke up with my last girl, I had to take
matters into my own hands to see how my
body responds to it. My penis feels numb
from it and so I can stroke for much
longer before ejaculation, but
physiologically, it's still not very
pleasurable. I feel like I have about the
exact saw extremely low pleasure threshold
that I had before usuing Stud. I hope to
have the opportunity to use it with a girl
sometime, but to be totally honest, it's
hard to get excited about sex these days.
In conclusion, as far as I can see, this
is strictly a "band-aid" fix.
MandM said
"When I use a desensitzer, I can feel the
point of ejaculation coming as it
approaches. I can now identify that and
delay it a bit, if I don't want to cum
yet. I understand about pushing the
sensations throughout your body, instead
of just your penis. I've actually gotten a
lot better at this, and I am usually able
to cum when I want to. But I cannot
replicate this technique without a
desensitizer."
I do feel that I have a slight ability to
push the sensations throughout my body
like MandM described, but the pleasure
threshold before ejaculation is still
extremely low.
Personally, my
theory is that to 'correct' or 'cure' my
type of PE, I must somehow 'raise the
pleasure threshold' and I have no idea how
to do this.
One more question. Several of you have
mentioned trying a few herbal concoctions
including 'xoxdvds' and 'the little blue
herbal pill', and 'last longer'. I think
that there may be more than one concoction
marketed under the name 'the little blue
herbal pill'. Could you please link to
the web page that sells this so I know
which one? How are your results using
these treatments. Please don't be shy if
you tried it and it didn't work for you.
What about 'Climinax'?
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POM82
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Posted: 05-30-07 07:10am
pin_cushion
wrote:
Personally, my
theory is that to 'correct' or 'cure' my
type of PE, I must somehow 'raise the
pleasure threshold' and I have no idea how
to do this.
One more question. Several of you have
mentioned trying a few herbal concoctions
including 'xoxdvds' and 'the little blue
herbal pill', and 'last longer'. I think
that there may be more than one concoction
marketed under the name 'the little blue
herbal pill'. Could you please link to
the web page that sells this so I know
which one? How are your results using
these treatments. Please don't be shy if
you tried it and it didn't work for you.
What about
'Climinax'?
I was seeinig a sexolgist for a couple
weeks to help with this and he did ive me
some good tips(nothing that I couldnt
learn reading a book or searching the net
though) but he also said that you have to
raise the pleasure threshold, in order to
last longer, that takes alot of practice
but hes seen people go from lasting 30
seconds to 30 minutes but thos people had
girlfriends and had sex very often, so im
working on getting a girlfirend not only
to help with my PE but also for the
relationship.
I ave tried alot of the last longer pills,
XOXdvd was the only one that worked once,
it made me last about 10 minutes but I
bought some more ecently and it did not
have the same effect, I also tried last
longer 3, I tried it for a month and it
didnt work either so I stopped beleiving
in pills and Im gonna fix this problem the
right way, by practicing and not giving
up. Its discouraging sometimes and
effects my self esteem alot, after
sleeping with a girl, i feel disconnected
because im thinking of how quick I lasted
and couldnt last long enuogh for the girl
to cum, sometimes ill play with the girl
before and get her off but not all girls
turn me on like that, anyways IM sure ill
be able to do it and so will everybody
here, just gotta stick to it, like
anyhting else in life
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HealthySex
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Re: How Do You Guys Deal With It? Posted: 05-30-07 12:45pm
POM82
wrote:
are u guys single like me?
how do you deal with PE and trying to
build a relationship with a girl?
are there times when u feel like health
question about having Pe and are freaking
fed up? I know I am
Id like to hear from the guys in
relationships
too
I'm single, but have what some might call
a friend with benefits. I'm not currently
looking for a relationship so I can't
completely relate, but I totally
understand your fears. You can't really do
much other than try to solve as much as
you can without a partner, and then when
you do deal with it with her. That may
mean talking to her about it, how it's a
problem you're trying to fix, it's not
her, you care about her, her feelings and
her pleasure, and working together to do
so. It would probably also mean you have
to please her in other ways in the
meantime. If you developed it to be a real
relationship, it probably wouldn't be a
big deal since you're pleasing her and
you're working on getting better and you
care about each other.
Before you have a girl, why not use a
rubber vagina to build your sensations
like you were talking about?
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pin_cushion
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Posted: 05-30-07 19:49pm
POM82 said
"i was seeinig a sexolgist for a couple
weeks to help with this and he did ive me
some good tips(nothing that I couldnt
learn reading a book or searching the net
though) but he also said that you have to
raise the pleasure threshold, in order to
last longer, that takes alot of practice
but hes seen people go from lasting 30
seconds to 30 minutes but thos people had
girlfriends and had sex very often, so im
working on getting a girlfirend not only
to help with my pe but also for the
relationship. "
Okay, hear me out. As I said before, my
cumming almost always feels more like a
squeak than a roar. I even get upset
sometimes when I get turned on because
I've come to expect it to always be a huge
let-down. I feel like I'm being
systematically deprived of my orgasm,
almost like this is some sort of joke on
me for the amusement of the man upstairs (
blasphemy? ) I can last a little bit
longer by slowing down or using the Stud
100, but the sensation is still a total
let-down. I'm hoping that sometime soon
I'll have the opportunity to use the Stud
100 with a real partner.
Now, here's my question to you. This is
an honest question; I'm not being
fecitious. You said that your sexologist
said that he's seen people go from 30
seconds to 30 minutes. Ejaculation...
is... a... ---reflex---, is it not?
Therefore, isn't speaking of delaying
ejaculation like speaking of delaying,...
say... the... ---gag reflex---????? Do
you believe that by doing exercises, you
could learn this ability as well? Oh wait
a minute, many people have done that. I'm
sure that my landlord's wireless access
point shows that I do have some very
interesting 'googling' habits, indeed!
Now, what if you were trying to delay your
gag reflex, and you could only gag about
once a day... That would be hard, wouldn't
it?
What exactly is the nature of the beast we
wish to slay?
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HealthySex
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Posted: 06-01-07 16:01pm
POM82, I forgot to mention something last
time.
You said you took the pills for a month
and it didn't work. I don't know what the
recommended duration of taking your
product to see results is, but one month
may not be enough.
Many drugs, especially herbs, can take
many months to work. If I were inclined to
take any herbal product for a purpose, I
would at least give it 3-4 months.
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Ben_R
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Posted: 06-05-07 20:53pm
Well, it took me a good 3 days to read
through this entire topic, and I'm sorry
if I may have forgotten a post, but, has
anyone tried a low dose of Prozac? If so,
how bad were the side-effects?
I'll be up front, I'm only 17 years old,
so this may be a passing issue for me, but
it's ridiculously embarrassing and I'm
very sick of it, so I decided why not try
and see if there are other cures aside
from time, patience, and practice. Being
17, I'm still in High School, and my
girlfriend lives in another school
district, a good 40 minutes away or so,
and I don't see her much until the weekend
arrives. I have found that although the
first few nights are rough, and I usually
am done under 20 seconds, by the third or
fourth day things start to go better and I
can last longer each time; yet for that to
happen I need a 3 or 4 day weekend, and
once that 3rd or 4th day comes, it's back
to school and nothing until the next
weekend and I'm back to square one.
Another interesting little tidbit of
information is positions. I've also found
that one time we were in the shower, and
hence I was standing up, as opposed to the
usual on my back or on top, and the result
was an extra minute or possibly more
(there is no clock in my shower
obviously).
Unfortunately, I myself cannot experiment
with these AD's with a clear conscience as
I get tested for any sort of drug every
now and again, because I am departing for
basic training for the Marines in two
months, although there are ways around
these tests if it means getting rid of
this problem. I suppose you could say
sacrifices must be made.
As for this Kegel nonsense, I must say
it's pretty ridiculous, in my mind.
Clenching that muscle speeds things up, if
anything. I think the best thing to do is
relax, and if my memory is right, I
remember someone saying something about
sort of being able to "re-direct" the
feeling they get when they feel it's time
to come. To me, this is only possible
through being relaxed, for it's easier to
notice this way. However, don't take my
thoughts to be completely correct - I
merely experimented with it in the shower
this morning, and relaxing seemed to make
all of the difference (I believe I was
stuck in that damn shower for 70
minutes).
I think this is more then enough for now
as it's already been said a few times, and
for that I apologize. One last question
though - has anyone actually used the
product available at www.stayerect.com ?
If it doesn't work, I must say they are
quite the marketers, because the first
time I looked at it they had me sold, but
decided my mother would probably start
wondering if she took a look at my
checking account and saw I dropped 50
bucks on PE pills, but that may be a
sacrifice I have to make in the near
future. Instead, I decided to look for a
forum with helpful info in it, and voila!
here I am. It's true I am much younger
than you all, but I hope this doesn't
cloud your judgment of me.
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HealthySex
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Posted: 06-05-07 21:28pm
Haven't tried low dose prozac, but I have
been on full dose Effexor. Though, it was
the lowest daily dose possible other than
the half dose they start you with. Side
effects weren't bad, other than anorgasmia
which is the side effect you're looking
for anyway. However, withdrawals were
HELL.
Not sure if Prozac is just a generic name
for AD's that you're using, but generally
other brands are used, like Clomipramine.
A doctor could give you a better idea, or
you can find comparisons if you search the
internet. Studies show which ones have
worked the best.
Most of us agree that relaxing is the key
and positions play a role in that. I find
girl on to allows me to relax the easiest.
Standing up is also a good delayer.
Does the military not accept people who
take anti-depressants?
I think someone on this site had tried
StayErect and said it did not work. Plus,
they have 3 products that come with an
order...pills, band, and numbing cream.
Anything with numbing cream is probably
going to work and that's probably where it
gets its success. If you want to try that,
you could buy many different brands
separately.
How long do you last at the end of a
weekend? Because you may just be young,
dumb and full of cum, and time will fix
ya.
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Jaydensmommy
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Just My View.. Posted: 06-05-07 22:43pm
I know all women have their own views on
p.e. but I just thought I'd shed some
light onto this matter. I see alot of you
guys posting that your afraid to be with a
woman because its embarassing, etc, etc.
There are believe it or not some women out
there who understand (such as myself) and
to be honest, p.e. dosen't bother me.
Don't be so self concious all the time.
There are other ways to please a woman ie:
oral first and then eventually move on to
intercourse. This way she has been
pleased and then you can "get off" also.
Call me weird, but I could care less
whether or not I get off as long as my
partner did and was satisfied. I hate
seeing all you men (especially young men)
out there fretting over this. To some of
us women..it really isn't that big of a
deal. And not all would look down upon
you for it. I mean really it isn't
something you can control or else you
would.
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POM82
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Posted: 06-06-07 07:29am
i wish all girls thought like you, then pe
woudnt be a problem for us but it about
being confident where it matters the most
IMO. if the sex is good, the relationship
is easier.
Dont waste your money on the staerect
stuff, i tried it and doesnt work, they
say to take it for a couple months which I
did but they also say that if you take 5-6
pills you will last 20 minutes longer the
first night, B*LLSH*T
Personally, my
theory is that to 'correct' or 'cure' my
type of PE, I must somehow 'raise the
pleasure threshold' and I have no idea how
to do this.
