Did yoiu wipe it off after 5 minutes or
left it on? Did u use a rubber or
straight?
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MikeH90
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Posted: 04-03-07 11:39am
POM82
wrote:
Did yoiu wipe it off after 5
minutes or left it on? Did u use a rubber
or straight?
oh, yeah I did get up to wash it off as
recommended. Thats when my balls started
to burn (dont get it on them, trust me)
no, wife is on the pill so we don't use
condoms, she doesn't like the feel, thats
why I decided to get spray rather than
desensitizing condoms. Which work, trogan
makes a good one.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-03-07 12:03pm
I think the original purpose of start-stop
was to help the man learn how he felt
prior to ejaculation and learn to control
it; unfortunately it seems that now the
second half of that has been lost on those
sites you discuss.
Stopping is defintly distracting for the
woman! You guys all seem like such
wonderful people; I really how you find
solutions because I know as a woman, that
all I want is for my man to be happy and
confident in himself when we have sex. He
doesn't have pe, but that doesn't mean I
don't feel sympthy for you guys.
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MikeH90
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Posted: 04-03-07 12:08pm
Eiri
wrote:
I think the original purpose
of start-stop was to help the man learn
how he felt prior to ejaculation and learn
to control it; unfortunately it seems that
now the second half of that has been lost
on those sites you discuss.
Stopping is defintly distracting for the
woman! You guys all seem like such
wonderful people; I really how you find
solutions because I know as a woman, that
all I want is for my man to be happy and
confident in himself when we have sex. He
doesn't have pe, but that doesn't mean I
don't feel sympthy for you
guys.
Well I think most of us know how we feel
prior to ejaculation, ha ha. it is a GREAT
feeling. I can stop start all night long,
but it sucks having to do that, its
usually right around when she is ready to
orgasm that I have to pull out and then
after a few minutes she has lost it and
either we hvae to start it all over again
or she just lets me finish.
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NYC216
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Posted: 04-03-07 12:36pm
Hey Mike,
I just bought a bottle of that stud 100.
We'll see how it goes. Im goi g to use
that and use viagra. So once i cum, i'm
laready good to go for the next round. I
don't want to cum and not get hard again
due to the numbing...that would suck.
Can't wait to get mine. I bought from www.stud100.com it's
actually cheaper than the site u gave me.
thanks for the recommending it.
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MikeH90
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Posted: 04-03-07 12:41pm
NYC216
wrote:
Hey Mike,
I just bought a bottle of that stud 100.
We'll see how it goes. Im goi g to use
that and use viagra. So once i cum, i'm
laready good to go for the next round. I
don't want to cum and not get hard again
due to the numbing...that would suck.
Can't wait to get mine. I bought from www.stud100.com it's
actually cheaper than the site u gave me.
thanks for the recommending
it.
i couldn't get to www.stud.com, company
firewall. GOOD LUCK! I don't think you'll
need the viagra though, you shouldn't cum
early using the spray. Or do you guys go
more than once?
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MandM
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2006 Posts: 50
Posted: 04-03-07 20:52pm
Hey guys,
Well on another note, just to look out
for you all. Sometimes the spray may not
numb enough, sometimes it will numb too
much. I've been using Stud spray for over
a year. There have been times where I have
pumped a couple of sprays and have came
quickly afterwards and there have been
times where it took a long time. Just
remember, Don't get frustrated if it
doesn't work every single time. There may
be times where you are so gitty that
nothing will stop ejaculation.
NYC this stuff will make you last, I
can cum very quickly (way under a min)
with no aids, but if I use this stuff I
can usually last many minutes. It's so
amazing because you stop worrying about
trying not to cum and start focusing on
sex and your bond between your partner.
Mike, I think my fiance may have been a
little hesistant to give me head with the
desensitzer on. I didn't ask her, but I
think that it may have a bad taste. If I
put it on, she usually won't give me head.
This was the first time she finished me
off with it on this weekend. But I could
tell she didn't want to, because she kept
on trying to go back to her hand, but that
wasn't working. In the end, she wanted to
do anything to finish me off. Shelfishly
speaking, it was great for me, I got a bj
for more than 3.2 seconds. But we had a
great experience because we got try a ton
of positions and kept it hot.
So far I can only vouche for the Stud
spray. The first densensitzer I tried was
by Durex, I think it was called Play Long.
I got it at Walgreens. It worked ok, but
as time went on I think it became less
effective. It was a little to light for my
PE severity. This one was like a gel. I've
also tried something by Doc Johnson, it
was a cream. I think it was the worst of
them all. It seemed like it barely numbed
me. The Stud always worked, plus it soaks
into the skin very quickly.
What I usually do with the spray is put it
on towards the end of foreplay. I'll spray
it on, and spend another minute or two
doing whatever and then go to full
penetration.
After helping over 856 men who often had
wasted hundreds or even thousands of
dollars on useless crappy premature
ejaculation methods I felt obligated to
put a stop on this!
You don't have to humiliate your self with
dangerous desensitize creams,
useless medicine or endless scam methods
sold online.
To make passionate love for as long as you
desire is way easier than you think.
Anybody can do it no matter how bad you
may be.
But it has to be done right or your
lasting problem may rapidly grow WORSE
instead of better.
POM, he didn't tell you to use the
Stop-Start with masturbation in the
meantime? And if he told you not to do
kegels yet, and you're not doing
Stop-Start, is there anything he gave you
to do in the meantime?
I don't know how much you guys are
spending on Stud and Shipping, but I've
seen it in the adult store. As long as the
markup isn't huge at the store, you might
save a lil. Though, I admit I do find the
internet cheaper for many products.
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MikeH90
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Posted: 04-04-07 14:32pm
HealthySex
wrote:
POM, he didn't tell you to
use the Stop-Start with masturbation in
the meantime? And if he told you not to do
kegels yet, and you're not doing
Stop-Start, is there anything he gave you
to do in the meantime?
I don't know how much you guys are
spending on Stud and Shipping, but I've
seen it in the adult store. As long as the
markup isn't huge at the store, you might
save a lil. Though, I admit I do find the
internet cheaper for many
products.
I'll pay the extra in S/H to keep it
private. I don't want to be in an adult
store and be seen.
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HealthySex
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Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 04-04-07 14:40pm
Haha, yep, that would be a deciding
factor.
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POM82
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Posted: 04-04-07 14:52pm
[quote="HealthySex"]POM, he didn't tell
you to use the Stop-Start with
masturbation in the meantime? And if he
told you not to do kegels yet, and you're
not doing Stop-Start, is there anything he
gave you to do in the meantime?quote]
Nope, cause I am supposed to be practicing
this with my ex who came with me to see
the sexologist but then backed out after
and from wha Ive read kegels wont actually
work, did them for a week and stopped.
Even when I tried kegels, seems like when
I would flex that muscle it would only
make me cum faster and that is the
opposite of what i want to do. Seems like
the thing to do is relax tem but even if I
relax them, if its time to cum, even
relaxing my pc muscle wont help, its my
natural insticnt and I dont think relaxing
a muscle could delay...till someones comes
along and says they have used them with
success I aint buying that BS.
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MikeH90
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Posted: 04-04-07 14:58pm
[quote="POM82"]
HealthySex
wrote:
POM, he didn't tell you to
use the Stop-Start with masturbation in
the meantime? And if he told you not to do
kegels yet, and you're not doing
Stop-Start, is there anything he gave you
to do in the meantime?quote]
Nope, cause I am supposed to be practicing
this with my ex who came with me to see
the sexologist but then backed out after
and from wha Ive read kegels wont actually
work, did them for a week and stopped.
Even when I tried kegels, seems like when
I would flex that muscle it would only
make me cum faster and that is the
opposite of what i want to do. Seems like
the thing to do is relax tem but even if I
relax them, if its time to cum, even
relaxing my pc muscle wont help, its my
natural insticnt and I dont think relaxing
a muscle could delay...till someones comes
along and says they have used them with
success I aint buying that
BS.
i think we've beaten the kegel theory to
death. The general consensus on this forum
is that you need to relax them, flexing
them brings it on quicker.
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zigg
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2007 Posts: 13
Posted: 04-04-07 21:57pm
Thanks guys for the Stud 100 reviews
(unfortunate name though
It's weird there isn't more information on
it out there for being around so long.
You know, more reviews & information
about the product. Because if it is
working like a charm surely this would be
big news in the PE world. Most you hear
around boards and forums is this kind of
stuff is bogus (I'm not saying that, just
what I read).
Problem is with this stuff, you don't know
who's behind the scenes of all the
information. They go to great lengths to
do this buzz marketing caca now if their
not outright trying to sell it... like
healtguide.
It's cheap enough to where if you get
burned it's not that big of a deal. But I
just wanted to read some more opinions
about the product and about lidocaine and
its longer term effects on your penis.
Can that be good to numb it all the time
like that?
For those using it for a year or more...
Would you say it works for you about 75%
of the time. Do you have a problem
getting it up??
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MandM
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 04-04-07 22:06pm
zigg
wrote:
Thanks guys for the Stud 100
reviews (unfortunate name though
It's weird there isn't more information on
it out there for being around so long.
You know, more reviews & information
about the product. Because if it is
working like a charm surely this would be
big news in the PE world. Most you hear
around boards and forums is this kind of
stuff is bogus (I'm not saying that, just
what I read).
Problem is with this stuff, you don't know
who's behind the scenes of all the
information. They go to great lengths to
do this buzz marketing caca now if their
not outright trying to sell it... like
healtguide.
It's cheap enough to where if you get
burned it's not that big of a deal. But I
just wanted to read some more opinions
about the product and about lidocaine and
its longer term effects on your penis.
Can that be good to numb it all the time
like that?
For those using it for a year or more...
Would you say it works for you about 75%
of the time. Do you have a problem
getting it
up??
There are a lot of people who don't
advocate the use of desensitzers. Like
we've been saying, it's a bandaid, and not
a solution to the underlaying problem.
Until a solid medical treatment is
available, I plan to use a desensitzer
most of the time.
I really don't know the long term effects
of using the stuff, I wouldn't even know
where to begin to look.
I would say that it works most of the
time. But like I said before, sometimes
there is nothing in the world that is
going to calm you down and stop you from
cumming. Sometimes you are just too gitty.
And once again, this bandaid might not
work for all.
I've personally never had a problem
getting it up after using this stuff. I
get a hardon at the drop of a hat. I
always put it on after I have an erection
as well.
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lotus_man
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Posted: 04-05-07 10:27am
sup all. first time poster .
well i've noticed right before i cumming
that if flex the pc muscle, it actually
helps me delay ejaculation to a certain
extent. if i relax it and keep going,
forget it, i'm done, lol. i guess it all
depends on the person.
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HealthySex
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Posted: 04-05-07 15:21pm
lotus_man
wrote:
sup all. first time poster
.
well i've noticed right before i cumming
that if flex the pc muscle, it actually
helps me delay ejaculation to a certain
extent. if i relax it and keep going,
forget it, i'm done, lol. i guess it all
depends on the
person.
Interesting. You seem to be the first to
say that contracting it at the moment is
helpful. There are others who have said
exercising it was helpful, but even they
said relaxing it at the moment was key.
Just to make sure we're talking about the
same thing... When you say you flex the pc
muscle (technically, bc, but pc is what
everyone calls it) are you flexing it up
into the body? Or pushing it down, like
forcing urination or defecation?
Just wondering, because pushing it down is
what I'd consider relaxing it, but if
you're still using muscles (others, not
really pc i suppose) to do it, another
person might call that contracting.
Secondly, if we are indeed talking about
the same form of contraction... Why do you
think it helps? Do you feel like you are
literally blocking the escape of semen?
Such as when you contract it during
urination and the flow stops. Or what?
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lotus_man
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Posted: 04-05-07 16:24pm
HealthySex
wrote:
Interesting. You seem to be the first to
say that contracting it at the moment is
helpful. There are others who have said
exercising it was helpful, but even they
said relaxing it at the moment was key.
Just to make sure we're talking about the
same thing... When you say you flex the pc
muscle (technically, bc, but pc is what
everyone calls it) are you flexing it up
into the body? Or pushing it down, like
forcing urination or defecation?
Just wondering, because pushing it down is
what I'd consider relaxing it, but if
you're still using muscles (others, not
really pc i suppose) to do it, another
person might call that contracting.
Secondly, if we are indeed talking about
the same form of contraction... Why do you
think it helps? Do you feel like you are
literally blocking the escape of semen?
Such as when you contract it during
urination and the flow stops. Or
what?
yes i mean pushing the pc muscle up into
the body or squeezing if you will.
to the second question, i have no idea,
lol. when i feel like i'm about to cum, i
could just squeeze the pc muscle and i
could get a few more strokes. then its
just goes downward from there. for
example when i first feel like cumming,
squeeze, maybe i can get in another 5-7
strokes before i feel like cumming again,
then squeeze, okay next time maybe just
4-6 strokes and so on until every stroke
is unbearable i must bust. haha. i'm not
doctor so i really can't give an
explanation.
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quickdraw
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It's About Time....... Posted: 04-06-07 04:35am
......I joined this forum! I have been
reading it since the start (Almost)
I also have PE It's a tough
challenge but one that is going to be so
rewarding when we find the answer!
A while ago in this thread, someone
recommended a book called 'Coping with
PE'. I did a quick search on Amazon and
found it (Getting used to this internet
revolution ). I read the
reviews and found a recommendation for
another book. This is called
'Scientifically Guaranteed Male Multiple
Orgasms and Ultimate Sex'.
I admit, this posting looks a little bit
like an advert at the moment but bear with
me.....
I am going to buy this book and go through
everything it suggests. (I tried to read a
book during sex once but I couldn't grasp
what it was about having only read the
first line )
Now for the sad bit of my post......
I find that life tends to drift away un
noticed when you suffer from this
'ilness'. I have turned away a number of
women because I do not want to go through
the embarassement of blowing it too soon
I have suffered
from this since I lost the big V (I was
19) so you can imagine the exciting times
that have passed me by during the 9 years
I have been active sexually. I really do
not want to waste any more time.
I want to say thanks for this thread
though, it certainly helps knowing I am
not alone. It is also very good to know
that you guys are feeding back results of
certain tests that you do. We can turn
this problem around together
Apologies for the amount of smileys in the
post
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andreo83
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