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POM82

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Posted: 04-03-07 11:36am

Did yoiu wipe it off after 5 minutes or left it on? Did u use a rubber or straight?
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Posted: 04-03-07 11:39am

POM82 wrote:
Did yoiu wipe it off after 5 minutes or left it on? Did u use a rubber or straight?


oh, yeah I did get up to wash it off as recommended. Thats when my balls started to burn (dont get it on them, trust me)

no, wife is on the pill so we don't use condoms, she doesn't like the feel, thats why I decided to get spray rather than desensitizing condoms. Which work, trogan makes a good one.
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Posted: 04-03-07 12:03pm

I think the original purpose of start-stop was to help the man learn how he felt prior to ejaculation and learn to control it; unfortunately it seems that now the second half of that has been lost on those sites you discuss.

Stopping is defintly distracting for the woman! You guys all seem like such wonderful people; I really how you find solutions because I know as a woman, that all I want is for my man to be happy and confident in himself when we have sex. He doesn't have pe, but that doesn't mean I don't feel sympthy for you guys.
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Posted: 04-03-07 12:08pm

Eiri wrote:
I think the original purpose of start-stop was to help the man learn how he felt prior to ejaculation and learn to control it; unfortunately it seems that now the second half of that has been lost on those sites you discuss.

Stopping is defintly distracting for the woman! You guys all seem like such wonderful people; I really how you find solutions because I know as a woman, that all I want is for my man to be happy and confident in himself when we have sex. He doesn't have pe, but that doesn't mean I don't feel sympthy for you guys.


Well I think most of us know how we feel prior to ejaculation, ha ha. it is a GREAT feeling. I can stop start all night long, but it sucks having to do that, its usually right around when she is ready to orgasm that I have to pull out and then after a few minutes she has lost it and either we hvae to start it all over again or she just lets me finish.
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Posted: 04-03-07 12:36pm

Hey Mike,

I just bought a bottle of that stud 100. We'll see how it goes. Im goi g to use that and use viagra. So once i cum, i'm laready good to go for the next round. I don't want to cum and not get hard again due to the numbing...that would suck. Can't wait to get mine. I bought from www.stud100.com it's actually cheaper than the site u gave me. thanks for the recommending it.
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Posted: 04-03-07 12:41pm

NYC216 wrote:
Hey Mike,

I just bought a bottle of that stud 100. We'll see how it goes. Im goi g to use that and use viagra. So once i cum, i'm laready good to go for the next round. I don't want to cum and not get hard again due to the numbing...that would suck. Can't wait to get mine. I bought from www.stud100.com it's actually cheaper than the site u gave me. thanks for the recommending it.


i couldn't get to www.stud.com, company firewall. GOOD LUCK! I don't think you'll need the viagra though, you shouldn't cum early using the spray. Or do you guys go more than once?
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Posted: 04-03-07 20:52pm

Hey guys,
Well on another note, just to look out for you all. Sometimes the spray may not numb enough, sometimes it will numb too much. I've been using Stud spray for over a year. There have been times where I have pumped a couple of sprays and have came quickly afterwards and there have been times where it took a long time. Just remember, Don't get frustrated if it doesn't work every single time. There may be times where you are so gitty that nothing will stop ejaculation.
NYC this stuff will make you last, I can cum very quickly (way under a min) with no aids, but if I use this stuff I can usually last many minutes. It's so amazing because you stop worrying about trying not to cum and start focusing on sex and your bond between your partner.

Mike, I think my fiance may have been a little hesistant to give me head with the desensitzer on. I didn't ask her, but I think that it may have a bad taste. If I put it on, she usually won't give me head. This was the first time she finished me off with it on this weekend. But I could tell she didn't want to, because she kept on trying to go back to her hand, but that wasn't working. In the end, she wanted to do anything to finish me off. Shelfishly speaking, it was great for me, I got a bj for more than 3.2 seconds. But we had a great experience because we got try a ton of positions and kept it hot.

So far I can only vouche for the Stud spray. The first densensitzer I tried was by Durex, I think it was called Play Long. I got it at Walgreens. It worked ok, but as time went on I think it became less effective. It was a little to light for my PE severity. This one was like a gel. I've also tried something by Doc Johnson, it was a cream. I think it was the worst of them all. It seemed like it barely numbed me. The Stud always worked, plus it soaks into the skin very quickly.

What I usually do with the spray is put it on towards the end of foreplay. I'll spray it on, and spend another minute or two doing whatever and then go to full penetration.
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Posted: 04-03-07 21:33pm

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Posted: 04-04-07 14:29pm

POM, he didn't tell you to use the Stop-Start with masturbation in the meantime? And if he told you not to do kegels yet, and you're not doing Stop-Start, is there anything he gave you to do in the meantime?




I don't know how much you guys are spending on Stud and Shipping, but I've seen it in the adult store. As long as the markup isn't huge at the store, you might save a lil. Though, I admit I do find the internet cheaper for many products.
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Posted: 04-04-07 14:32pm

HealthySex wrote:
POM, he didn't tell you to use the Stop-Start with masturbation in the meantime? And if he told you not to do kegels yet, and you're not doing Stop-Start, is there anything he gave you to do in the meantime?




I don't know how much you guys are spending on Stud and Shipping, but I've seen it in the adult store. As long as the markup isn't huge at the store, you might save a lil. Though, I admit I do find the internet cheaper for many products.


I'll pay the extra in S/H to keep it private. I don't want to be in an adult store and be seen.
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Posted: 04-04-07 14:40pm

Haha, yep, that would be a deciding factor.
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Posted: 04-04-07 14:52pm

[quote="HealthySex"]POM, he didn't tell you to use the Stop-Start with masturbation in the meantime? And if he told you not to do kegels yet, and you're not doing Stop-Start, is there anything he gave you to do in the meantime?quote]

Nope, cause I am supposed to be practicing this with my ex who came with me to see the sexologist but then backed out after and from wha Ive read kegels wont actually work, did them for a week and stopped. Even when I tried kegels, seems like when I would flex that muscle it would only make me cum faster and that is the opposite of what i want to do. Seems like the thing to do is relax tem but even if I relax them, if its time to cum, even relaxing my pc muscle wont help, its my natural insticnt and I dont think relaxing a muscle could delay...till someones comes along and says they have used them with success I aint buying that BS.
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Posted: 04-04-07 14:58pm

[quote="POM82"]
HealthySex wrote:
POM, he didn't tell you to use the Stop-Start with masturbation in the meantime? And if he told you not to do kegels yet, and you're not doing Stop-Start, is there anything he gave you to do in the meantime?quote]

Nope, cause I am supposed to be practicing this with my ex who came with me to see the sexologist but then backed out after and from wha Ive read kegels wont actually work, did them for a week and stopped. Even when I tried kegels, seems like when I would flex that muscle it would only make me cum faster and that is the opposite of what i want to do. Seems like the thing to do is relax tem but even if I relax them, if its time to cum, even relaxing my pc muscle wont help, its my natural insticnt and I dont think relaxing a muscle could delay...till someones comes along and says they have used them with success I aint buying that BS.


i think we've beaten the kegel theory to death. The general consensus on this forum is that you need to relax them, flexing them brings it on quicker.
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zigg

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Posted: 04-04-07 21:57pm

Thanks guys for the Stud 100 reviews (unfortunate name though Wink

It's weird there isn't more information on it out there for being around so long. You know, more reviews & information about the product. Because if it is working like a charm surely this would be big news in the PE world. Most you hear around boards and forums is this kind of stuff is bogus (I'm not saying that, just what I read).

Problem is with this stuff, you don't know who's behind the scenes of all the information. They go to great lengths to do this buzz marketing caca now if their not outright trying to sell it... like healtguide.

It's cheap enough to where if you get burned it's not that big of a deal. But I just wanted to read some more opinions about the product and about lidocaine and its longer term effects on your penis. Can that be good to numb it all the time like that?

For those using it for a year or more...

Would you say it works for you about 75% of the time. Do you have a problem getting it up??
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MandM

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Posted: 04-04-07 22:06pm

zigg wrote:
Thanks guys for the Stud 100 reviews (unfortunate name though Wink

It's weird there isn't more information on it out there for being around so long. You know, more reviews & information about the product. Because if it is working like a charm surely this would be big news in the PE world. Most you hear around boards and forums is this kind of stuff is bogus (I'm not saying that, just what I read).

Problem is with this stuff, you don't know who's behind the scenes of all the information. They go to great lengths to do this buzz marketing caca now if their not outright trying to sell it... like healtguide.

It's cheap enough to where if you get burned it's not that big of a deal. But I just wanted to read some more opinions about the product and about lidocaine and its longer term effects on your penis. Can that be good to numb it all the time like that?

For those using it for a year or more...

Would you say it works for you about 75% of the time. Do you have a problem getting it up??


There are a lot of people who don't advocate the use of desensitzers. Like we've been saying, it's a bandaid, and not a solution to the underlaying problem. Until a solid medical treatment is available, I plan to use a desensitzer most of the time.
I really don't know the long term effects of using the stuff, I wouldn't even know where to begin to look.

I would say that it works most of the time. But like I said before, sometimes there is nothing in the world that is going to calm you down and stop you from cumming. Sometimes you are just too gitty. And once again, this bandaid might not work for all.

I've personally never had a problem getting it up after using this stuff. I get a hardon at the drop of a hat. I always put it on after I have an erection as well.
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Posted: 04-05-07 10:27am

sup all. first time poster Smile.

well i've noticed right before i cumming that if flex the pc muscle, it actually helps me delay ejaculation to a certain extent. if i relax it and keep going, forget it, i'm done, lol. i guess it all depends on the person.
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HealthySex

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Posted: 04-05-07 15:21pm

lotus_man wrote:
sup all. first time poster Smile.

well i've noticed right before i cumming that if flex the pc muscle, it actually helps me delay ejaculation to a certain extent. if i relax it and keep going, forget it, i'm done, lol. i guess it all depends on the person.


Interesting. You seem to be the first to say that contracting it at the moment is helpful. There are others who have said exercising it was helpful, but even they said relaxing it at the moment was key.

Just to make sure we're talking about the same thing... When you say you flex the pc muscle (technically, bc, but pc is what everyone calls it) are you flexing it up into the body? Or pushing it down, like forcing urination or defecation?

Just wondering, because pushing it down is what I'd consider relaxing it, but if you're still using muscles (others, not really pc i suppose) to do it, another person might call that contracting.


Secondly, if we are indeed talking about the same form of contraction... Why do you think it helps? Do you feel like you are literally blocking the escape of semen? Such as when you contract it during urination and the flow stops. Or what?
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Posted: 04-05-07 16:24pm

HealthySex wrote:


Interesting. You seem to be the first to say that contracting it at the moment is helpful. There are others who have said exercising it was helpful, but even they said relaxing it at the moment was key.

Just to make sure we're talking about the same thing... When you say you flex the pc muscle (technically, bc, but pc is what everyone calls it) are you flexing it up into the body? Or pushing it down, like forcing urination or defecation?

Just wondering, because pushing it down is what I'd consider relaxing it, but if you're still using muscles (others, not really pc i suppose) to do it, another person might call that contracting.


Secondly, if we are indeed talking about the same form of contraction... Why do you think it helps? Do you feel like you are literally blocking the escape of semen? Such as when you contract it during urination and the flow stops. Or what?


yes i mean pushing the pc muscle up into the body or squeezing if you will.

to the second question, i have no idea, lol. when i feel like i'm about to cum, i could just squeeze the pc muscle and i could get a few more strokes. then its just goes downward from there. for example when i first feel like cumming, squeeze, maybe i can get in another 5-7 strokes before i feel like cumming again, then squeeze, okay next time maybe just 4-6 strokes and so on until every stroke is unbearable i must bust. haha. i'm not doctor so i really can't give an explanation.
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quickdraw

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It's About Time.......
Posted: 04-06-07 04:35am

......I joined this forum! I have been reading it since the start (Almost)

I also have PE Sad It's a tough challenge but one that is going to be so rewarding when we find the answer!

A while ago in this thread, someone recommended a book called 'Coping with PE'. I did a quick search on Amazon and found it (Getting used to this internet revolution Wink ). I read the reviews and found a recommendation for another book. This is called 'Scientifically Guaranteed Male Multiple Orgasms and Ultimate Sex'.

I admit, this posting looks a little bit like an advert at the moment but bear with me.....

I am going to buy this book and go through everything it suggests. (I tried to read a book during sex once but I couldn't grasp what it was about having only read the first line Wink )

Now for the sad bit of my post......

I find that life tends to drift away un noticed when you suffer from this 'ilness'. I have turned away a number of women because I do not want to go through the embarassement of blowing it too soon Sad I have suffered from this since I lost the big V (I was 19) so you can imagine the exciting times that have passed me by during the 9 years I have been active sexually. I really do not want to waste any more time.

I want to say thanks for this thread though, it certainly helps knowing I am not alone. It is also very good to know that you guys are feeding back results of certain tests that you do. We can turn this problem around together Smile

Apologies for the amount of smileys in the post Smile

Laughing
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Posted: 04-06-07 09:22am

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