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Q: Why No One Help Me With This ?
asked by: rinchan on February 13th, 2004
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Hi I am using a opk first on the 9 feb and I got a negative sign then I tought that it is a bit early so on the next day 8am I feel a bit sticky fluid coming out so I try the 2nd one on the 11 feb and it show positive at 8pm and we have sex then the next day I feel many sticky fluid coming out and also today 13 feb. But we only intercourse on the 11 feb. Anyone can help me ? Will I get pregnant ?? My husband keep his sperm for 5 days before we intercourse on the 11 feb. Thank you so much for your respond.
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ladybug2004
replied on February 17th, 2004
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Hi Frst of All Women Ovulate Different Times
A women generally ovulates on day 14 some 16.When a women ovulates her mucous isnt suppose to be sticky.It should be like raw egg whites stretchy.Infertile is when it is pasty so you should look on websites to get more info on ovulating so you will understand.When a ovulation test shows possitive it means you should ovulate in 24 hours so you have time to have sex.My dr says it is better to have sex every other day til your period comes.I have been trying three years.Have you been tested to make sure you are ovulating?Or has your husband been tested?Do you chart?I tried but stopped.Mare
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rinchan
replied on February 17th, 2004
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I Got It Thank You So Much
Yes I am using opk for the first time . The first day that I test it on it is neg but the 2nd time I test I am surprise and happy becuase it is positive even it doesnt mean that I might get pregnant this time but it was so good feeling becuase everytime I using kind of pregnancy test it never show me any line I am very upsad but now I feel better becuase I understand my body better. Thank you so much....
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ladybug2004
replied on February 18th, 2004
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Good Luck On a Baby
Dont give up.I know things can be confusing as I said me and my husband have been trying for three years,you never answered me,how long have you been trying now to get preg?And have you and huibby been tested.Mare
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rinchan
replied on February 19th, 2004
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Hi
We have been trying for 5 months actually..Since after we marriaged on last year september. But everymonth I make a mistake and learn from day to day now I am fully understand how it work...Now I am hoping for the good news.We didnt see any doctor right now becuase they told me we must try for at least one year. As for me next month I am going back to my own country if I am not pregnant this time then I will go for prepregnancy check up and conselling. How are you ? Did you see any doctor ? As for me I am totally new and I never consume any control pills...
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ladybug2004
replied on February 20th, 2004
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Hi Richan How Are You?
Im doing good.I havent been back to the dr yet.I still havent started my period.My boobs are so sore.When I talk ed to the nurseassistant she said I need to make an appointment for when I start.Last month I started on cycleday 30 well today is cycleday 35.Sometimes I dont get it til late.Alot of women have theeres every month on the same cycle day I wish I was one of them.Your right you should try a year for a baby.Are you on yahoo messenger?Where are you from?You said you may be going bacl to your country.Have a nice day mare
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rinchan
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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Hi From Rin
How are you? Any good news for me ?? I wish you all the best ! I am waiting too but it seem like a bit hard cuase I didnt notice any implantation so far?Hopefully everything goes well. I am from east malaysia but I got marriage with a japanese so we are staying in japan.
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ladybug2004
replied on February 23rd, 2004
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Hi Alin How Are You/
I sent you a message on your email dont know if you will get it.I dont use msn anymore but I do have yahoo and added you to my list. I dont have any news.Do you have some?I do go to my dr tomorrow at 2.15 so we will go from there.Mare
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rinchan
replied on February 23rd, 2004
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How Is the Result From the Dr ??
Hi rin here

how is everything ? Good news to share with me... I didnt get your email did you send to my yahoo ? Umm I got no news too..Today is the 28 days of my circle but usually my period around 33 days. Yesterday I feel cramp on my stamach just like before we have period sign...So I think I might not getting pregnant again... Sad I dont have any implentation bleeding occur too ...Nothing sign of pregnancy...Feel sad... Crying or Very sad I feel we try our best but it seem doesnt work up...What might be the problem ?
This month is the first time I using opk and got a positive sign on the 2nd day so it must be ovulation time so we did it...And alternatly...Well it still seem no sign....Till the 28 days
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ladybug2004
replied on February 24th, 2004
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Hi,i Go to the Dr At 2.00 Today.i Will Let You Know More
I sent it to your msn address.I have been looking for you on yahoo messenger but you are never on,now whats up with that?Lol Laughing Laughing I know how you feel about trying so hard.Try to relax when having sex and see what happens.Of course I have tried everything,and nothing has worked.What ovulationtest are you using?I try to get the clearblue one,but now I have the one where you use saliva instead of urine.It was 17.00 and you can use it time after time.So I guess it is worth it.Try having sex every other night til your next period.Thats what my dr told us to do.Some women not all,,,,,,, are lucky that way.Mare
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rinchan
replied on February 25th, 2004
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Too Bad
Too bad today I have my periods again Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad umm seem a bit tired with all this...Anyway keep going..I am using ovulation pregnancy test (dotest)use for 7 days. Anyway it doesn:t help either. Do you want to try on ovulex ? I think I might consider order it... Yahoo msg I am sorry about that becuase I am in japan so time might be a bit hard to predict when you will be online.Anyway I will try to stay at bit late next week. Share with me what is the comment from your Dr. I plan to go for prepregnancy check too.
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ladybug2004
replied on February 25th, 2004
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Oodmornind Hubby Just Went to Work.
I thought about ovulex but I have tried all sorts of things and nothing,i even used fertilityblend for women.Anyway my dr ran some test im not preg no infection and all seems normal just not having my period. Crying or Very sad the drs here call amenoreah or something like that.So she put me on provera to start it.Yahoo is like msn messenger regardless of which one you are on if im online I will see your name lit up i.Im sorry about your period showing up.She can be so mean Twisted Evil lol even when she dont show up for no reason it is soooooooooooo cruel.Talk to you later mare.
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ladybug2004
replied on February 25th, 2004
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Hi Alina
I am right that is your name right?Anyway thought I would ket you kow im back on msn messenger now also.
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rinchan
replied on February 25th, 2004
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Why Not We Try Ovulex
How are you today ? Well I really want to find out what is wrong with my pregnancy chart so I want to know where we make a mistake then learn from there. Rolling Eyes no choice. So when will you start trying again ? What do you mean by you dont have your period ? How many months you miss your period ?? Anyway did you ask your dr to have a scanning on you ?? Keep me update please. Good luck
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ladybug2004
replied on February 26th, 2004
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Hi How Are You Today? Im Feeling a Little Better.
I do have my period but alot of times it is late.Like this month so I have to go to my dr so she can give me med so it will bring it on.I quit charting,it is too stressful and that can cause you not to get preg.I have a saliva uvulationscope and I use that to tell when im ovulating and try to keep check on my mucous.I thought about trying ovulex but I have tried so many and nothing helped so I will go back and get on clomid if my dr thinks I should.She didnt mention it when I went to her.But first we have to get my periodstraightend out
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KissyBai912
replied on February 26th, 2004
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Wow....It amazes me how people can try forever.....And some get pregnant like that (snaps fingers) i'm sorry your period showed again rin. But there is still a good chance you could get pregnant! I did a little bit of reading on natural family planning and it says that the days where you have a more thick discharge or mucous from the vagina, are your more fertile days. Also it said something about basal body temperature but it got a little complicated. I would have to go back and read it again in order to explain. But I wish you all the best of luck and let me know of any good news!!! I'll be out for a while having my baby in about 3 1/2 weeks but I would sure love to have some great news to come back to. So let's start the baby dance! :d
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ladybug2004
replied on February 26th, 2004
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Congrats Trish
I wish you and the baby very good health.Let us know how much it weighs and all.You are right it is easy for some women and others like us it is very hard,but I am so happy to hear it happend for you,do you know if it will be a lil boy or girl?I have a 22 year old son now I would like to have a lil girl but would be happy with either as long as it is healthy.Good luck and best wishes on you and your baby. Smile
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rinchan
replied on February 26th, 2004
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So Happy to Heard Your Good News
:d congraduations :p how wonderful you are pregnant. Well we will do our best again and share our good news to you too. I never try on anything before and this time I will get a prepregnancy check up then try to order ovulex and that is my plan. What do you guys think ? And I am a bit confuse with opk it doesnt help ..The best thing I want to do is start to have conception from 13 days of my cycle alternate day for 1 week. I think this http://www.Woomb.Org/bom/rules/index.Html webpage is helpful check it up. Good luck
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KissyBai912
replied on February 26th, 2004
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Ladybug I will be having a boy named joshua blake. I think he's gonna weigh 7 lbs, 3 ounces! Lol. But I will let you all know. Good luck to you both! I really hope you both get pregnant very very very soon!!!
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rinchan
replied on February 26th, 2004
Experienced User
We Are Happy For You God Bless You And Your Baby Boy
We are so happy for you Smile please take care and eat well. How long does it take you ttc ? It will be wonderful for us to know what kind of things you get thru before you are pregnant and when the moments you know you are pregnant.? So that we can learn from you Laughing :p
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