Hi and welcome bobbiedobbs,
Sorry to hear that you are having all those problems with your back. As a back pain sufferer, I know what you're going through. Now, you said that you were prescribed exercises and one of them included weight loss. If you are overweight, then it will definitely benefit you to lose some weight. Another thing you were told to do is stress reduction - you need to try to do that to the best of your abilities... just try to reduce as much stress as you have in your life. If that seems hard, then ask your friends and family to help you cope with all the stresses in your life.
Now as for different therapies you could try, I could suggest the following:
- Swimming and water exercises (and also hot tub with massage and sauna)
- Sports massage/deep tissue massage
- Sleep on a heating pad at night
- Use cold packs during the day when the pain strikes
- Ask the doctor to prescribe you Celebrex (anti-inflammatory) and see if that med helps
- Go for walks on a daily basis. It is better to keep moving than sitting and trying to avoid pain
- Use a magnesium supplement to relax your muscles (1000mg per day)
- Always get enough rest, never pull all nighters... they only aggravate back pain even more
- You MIGHT want to see a neurosurgeon to get another opinion
- Do some research about Lyrica (pregabalin) - I'm currently taking this med for lower back pain and it's helping me
And do NOT do vertical decompression - it does not benefit people with spinal stenosis and spondylosis unfortunately...
I hope that helps!