Firstly with the way she is living her life it is very possible that she has had many m/c's!!

Secondly someone saying that they have had a m/c when they havent could be one of the worst things that you can say. There are people out there that have actually had m/c and know the hurt and pain that is associated with them, to have someone just make up that they have had one can be heartbreaking!!

Your friend should really think about how she is living her life and what she says because she can get herself into alot of trouble. If she is generally trying to get pregnant she needs to start by quitting drugs, cigarettes and eating a better diet. I would like to see proof that she is in fine health with everything you have stated!

Auzzie,
I agree ,it is hurtful,my sister has NO IDEA the pain she is causing to herslf and others.when my 1st son passed (32 weeks),she didn't even say she was sorry,etc,she slugged from her beer and said,''what ever,IT happens'' and carried on,it was 1 wk to the day,I felt crushed,my brother in-law figured I should get a cat,because it's weight and size resembled a new born,how could he say that?! THEY only talk about HER ''cases'' and refuse to acknowledge my son,they won't even come to his funeral,they(13 yrs later) don't even know what his name is....I still have great compassion for them,but am having a hard time understanding their attitude,they live in the same 1.5 hr area and have only seen my 4yr old 1x--great aunt,eh!! It's ALL about HER,I have believed her''story ''so many times I lost count,it hurts and I am wondering if she is doing it for attention,every holiday( with a joint or cigarette in her mouth) she says she IS or THINKS she is pregnant...it REALLY hurts,she doesn't know how much pain she is inflicting on me and my husband--we lost the 1st just before our anniversary,and the 2nd 2 months before an anniversary,not to mention,an early pregnancy(#3 around xmas)..One lost close to easter,and one late fall(none of them occurring in the same year-89,92,94,95,01-finally son in 03)...I have my tubes now tied....I don't know how to handle them,I stay away from family functions to protect myself and husband...she believes ALL home and doctor tests are a - ...you'd think even 1 would come back ....am I just judging her????