Ok this may seem like a stupid question but I just want some point of view.......Ive been married for 7 years been with him for 10 years.....Had 2 children and to be honest my body is just not what it use to be.....Back in high school and even after the birth of our first child my body was pretty toned....Now Im not fat now by no means Im just not toned up the way I would like to be.....My husband says he loves the way I look now more then how I did before,but even if he felt differently he wouldnt tell me like say honey you need to loose some weight you know but I dont feel comfortable with myself so it makes me self concious either way.........My question is does the women you loves body really play that much of a factor in how attracted and turned on you are towards her......