This message is for some of you girls out there, you know who you are.

I was wondering how do you girls have time for anything with so many kids to deal with. I don't want to offend anyone or for anyone to take this the wrong way. But how is it that you girls are soo young and have more that one child. I mean i'm 25, married with the support of my husband and I find it hard. I've read that someof you are single mothers and some of you have different fathers, like I said nothing is wrong with that. But with the economy being so hard and things being so expensive, how you do it. I'm a college student who was told that I couldn't have any children and with all of that being said. I still somehow manage to concieve two children. My husband works all day while I stay home with my son. When he comes home I go to school. I'm physically drained as it is now. I have no idea what i'm going to do with another one. I'm not saying that I don't want my second child, I couldn't be happier. But i'm working on my teaching degree and my school work is so time consuming, I guess I just want to know how do you do it. I want to prove my mother wrong that I could have another and still finish school.

P.S. I hope I didn't offend anyone. I've read some of the arguments you guys have had.

Brenda