heres a thought. my girlfriend just broke up with me claiming I was Emotionally unavailable. My initial thought on this, was WHAT THE F***. where does she think she is coming from, calling me that. My next thought, while trying to explain my emotions was interupted by more nonsense from the other end of the phone line. My questions, hopefully answered by some of you on this message board, are what makes someone emotionally unavaiable, if there is such a thing as emotionally unavailable, is there such a thing as ecessive available emotions? And, my last thought (granted all of this is open and aimed toward argument) is that if men can be emotionally unavailable, at that same time women can want excessive emotions. My question, that I pray for answers for, and that my current relationship may only strive on these answers, Is if a guy can be emotionally unavailable, is it possible that a girl can expect too many emotions, or expressed feelings, at the same time, causing a break off in the relationship? What if the guy feels he is doing a lot towards the relationship, and feels the girl is expecting way too much out of him. What if the guy feels burdened with all the responsibiltities being held over his head? What if the guy wants to talk about these sort of things, but any time the subject comes into conversation, the girl always submisses his view and does not let him comment on his point of view, all the while claiming he doesnt have emotion. Where does that put the girl and the guy>