Why do you think you are a lesbian? Is it because you have thoughts or fantasies of being with another woman? Have you been with another woman?

A lesbian is a woman who is romantically and sexually attracted only to other women. Women who are attracted to both women and men are more often referred to as bisexual. An individual's self-identification might not correspond with her behaviour, and may be expressed with either, both, or neither of these words. Go figure!

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