ok here is the gist... last summer i got myself into a bad situation.. i was friends with a married couple.. ironically i became close with the both of them.. the wife went away... I was having problems in my relationship and confided in him.. He convinced me that i should be with him since him and because we were more compatible and he and his wife were divorcing.. the idea sounded good since my husband only wanted to be with me because i was having his baby.. other than that he made me feel as if i werent needed in his life! anyhow i did a lot of talking to this guy. With time spent i did start to have feelings for him but i was still in love with my husband so i didnt feel comfortable! So the bad part was this man well he had kissed me and tried touching me to go all the way.. i stopped it.. BUt unfortunately ihappened two more time.. But again i stopped it.. After that i told the man to !**@! off and leave me the hell alone.. I felt so violated and guilty at the same time.. The man didnt like the fact that he left his wife and blew him off. so to get her back he told her everything and more! LIES MORE! He i guess was so mad at me that he wanted her to hate me and make my life hell! Well six months later and im still hearing from her! AAHHHHH!!!! She now lives across the country but is having people she knows here spy on me to see what my life is like, she harrasses me with phone calls. her ex is still trying to contact me!!! I REally dont know what to do.. My husband almost left me the first time this happned with these people. NOW i have a baby.. what do i do i really need some advice.. im going to loose my mind and maybe my family! i really need my husband.. we have finally started to get through our patches.. so i really want this to work.. but i cant when i he keeps getting told im a prostitute and that i shouldnt be trusted.. that he should leave me and that to take my son with him.. PLease give me some helpful advice..
Yes, you made a mistake... but you could have made a *bigger* one- and you were smart enough *not* to, that's the difference.
Now... they are still harassing you? Tell them to back the f*ck off- and if they do not- then you have every right to inform them, that if you need to get the police involved for harassment, you will gladly do so! I would also suggest changing your number...because if they know you will answer, then they will always respond to you!
People can be pr*cks. I should know I had a stalking ex... he's been quiet for a week- which is a record at this point- but I had to go through a number of situations/issues, until I put my foot down. You will have to do the same. Do .N.O.T. interact with them.. they call- don't answer, let the machine do it's job and answer it for you. I really suggest getting a new number. Do not give it out- only to family members only. no matter how rude the message- or how bad you want to scream and yell back at them, do .N.O.T. do it- you need to end this now.
I would document as much as you can. You do not have to be a prisioner in your own home. You have rights, just as much as they do.
I personally, would try to get them in trouble. Especially if someone is screwin' with me for no reason.. then so be it. They picked the wrong fight!!