Joined: 08 Nov 2006 Posts: 65 Location: Beaumont, Texas
Question About Postpartum Sex Posted: 02-27-07 16:19pm
I had my baby a month ago. The doctor said
to wait six weeks to have sex but I feel
great and I think I am ready to. I am no
longer bleeding or anything. What is
everyone else's opinion? Should I wait or
go ahead and try to.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 02-27-07 16:22pm
I would personally wait, but I know other
girls on this forum went ahead. If you do,
remember to take it slow, use lots of
lube, and wear a condom! And be honest
at your appointment if/when your doctor
asks if you did it.
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Emma2
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Posted: 02-27-07 16:28pm
I HAD SEX 2 WEEKS AFTER ,,IT SUCKED
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amnl
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Posted: 02-27-07 16:40pm
why did it suck?
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Emma2
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Posted: 02-27-07 16:44pm
amnl
wrote:
why did it
suck?
IT HURT ...I WAS DRY...AND I WAS TOO
TIRED..IT SUCKED LOL
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Jaydensmommy
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Posted: 02-28-07 00:30am
I wasn't even ready to at 6 wks and I
thought I was! It hurt sooo bad. I know
so many women who have gotten pregnant
again right away within 6-12 wks after the
birth of the previous child. So if you do
like one of the other girls said.......use
a condom! Good luck!
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ladylee70
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Posted: 02-28-07 01:24am
you feel ready after only one month?? You
are the first person that I know of who
has actually said that they feel ready. I
wasn't ready after 6 weeks. It was so
scary. I had stitches so the whole fear of
ripping was there.
I didn't even have energy.
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Sail Away
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Joined: 16 Oct 2006 Posts: 1170 Location: Missouri
Posted: 02-28-07 02:06am
I waited about 7 weeks after I had my son
and it didn't hurt, I had stitches too.
I wouldn't do it so soon though, you just
had a baby let your cooch heal!!!!!! lol.
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littlesqueaks
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Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 296 Location: Caldwell, Idaho
Posted: 02-28-07 02:09am
you may feel ready but like the others say
once you do it is going to probably hurt
like hell. from the outside you may feel
great but the inside of your vagina has
been through quit the drama. Your body
will take a while to heal and some women
after birth don't process the natural
lubricant soon after giving birth creating
dry friction which will only irritate the
area more. Give it some time. I had tried
having sex at the 5 week point thinking
that I was close enough to the 6 week
point so why not and it was horrible.
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amnl
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Joined: 08 Nov 2006 Posts: 65 Location: Beaumont, Texas
Posted: 02-28-07 15:12pm
So I tried it last night...well it didn't
go too good. I worked it in there and took
it right back out. It hurt!!
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 02-28-07 15:13pm
Sorry hon your vajayjay's
been through a lot! Give the poor girl a
rest!