Honestly, that is not shocking to me. Who wants to be someone who is shallow? It's a pretty awful quality. Contrary to what you might think, not all guys are like that.

Shallow is a terrible quality. The outside of a women will change but mosy of the time whats inside will not. Suggestion try to become friends with girls and see them as real people and you never know you may just find a girl you fall head over heels with just by seeing them from the inside instead of the outside.

Being shallow is not your problem. Many Alpha Males are. Some would define shallow as going for what you like.

The problem is that you are fibbing about not wanting these girls.

Or you are homosexual (though you would know this yourself, so I dismiss it).

alpha-male?
fibbing?
and im not homosexual
i guess no one understands what im trying to say so i apologize no more replies need to be made

Well, I feel like replying anyway.

Alpha male = superior male - gets sex when he wants.

Fibbing: Are you certain that you would not go for a girl who is not absolutely perfect? I think that you would. Females will not change an alpha male, but males can change females.

As for the homosexual thing, - of course you are not. I was simply making a point.

im actually not looking for a perfect girl

There are plenty that would satisfy you just fine I believe.

Take one with potential (good looks, reasonanbly intelligent etc) and mould her into your own.

ummmmmm why dont you just find a girl and like her for who she is and not have to mold or train her to be what you like.

Because Males can do that.

Wow..... reading this post makes me realise how some guys act... The Godly One it isnt right that you feel that a guy can mold a girl into what he wants he shouldnt have to and he cant a girl will be what she wants to be and you got to love her for that alone... you cant expect to go into a relationshiop with a girl and change everything about her just so she meets your qualifcations... if thats the case you shouldnt be starting a relationship anyway... you need to learn the meaning of love and stop being such a sterotypical guy... and get a life!

As for "yo" i think you need to actually spend time with girls.. instead of just looking for a good one from a crowd.. get to know girls become friends with them and maybe some of those girls that you seem to think are un attractive now will be seen in a new light give it a try it just might work.....

Female perspective: Under no circumstances do what 'the godly one' says because you will be destined to a life of being single. Just be yourself and perhaps try to make friends with a few girls then see how it goes.

Right/Wrong? Just points of view.



Yes I can.

End note: Stereotypes are apparent for a reason

Hi,
Just a thought...maybe you are attracting girls with the "not so appealing" qualities because they are reflecting how you see yourself.

Well stop looking for girls with looks and look for those who have personality. Would you settle for a pretty girl who abuses the relationship. this might sound cliche but still holds true. You seem to have a very high standard when choosing for a mate. And until now, you can't seem to find one that fits your standard. It's time to redo everything and look for someone who has the same likes and dislikes like you do. This might probably help you in getting one.

I agree with Critizen. The Godly One, your posts are highly offensive and sexist. If you want to have sexist points of view, you could at least do us all the favor of saying something like, "In my opinion..." rather than trying to make your warped points of view seem like facts.

My views seem like facts to you?

This is because you see the patently obvious truth in them.

But if it makes you feel better, I will leave my views out of your forum.

The Godly One.

Obviously not. I said you are making them seem like facts, even though they are nothing more than your warped opinions.