Afraid of Orgasm- Please Help Posted: 02-25-07 02:26am
Hello everyone,
I found this site my searching my
question that I will be asking. First I'm
going to inform you that I am a virgin,
and very inexperienced. And I won’t be
having sex until I'm married. I'm going
things here and there because then ill go
crazy! Hahah
Well I’ve read a lot of girls have asked
the same question about orgasm.
I’ve been fooling around with my
fiancé. We do a lot of oral sex and have
fun with each other. But I'm scared to
“cum”. Like if he is giving me oral
sex and I feel something weird or am too
aroused I take him off me because I'm
scared of the unknown. I'm scared of what
is going to happen like.. will I pee on
myself?
The first time we did stuff ( I don’t
want to go to much in detail) and I felt
like I pee’d, but it felt really nice.
But I was embarrassed because I'm thinking
to myself, dang did I just pee? So now I
stop him when I think something is going
to happen because I don’t know why I do
this.
Do we orgasm like guys? I REALLY want to
have an orgasm, he is really good but
sometimes I feel like if theres something
wrong with me, or because I haven’t had
sex I wont be able to come because I
don’t know what “sex” feels like.
And I'm never 100% focus because like I
said, I'm scared I'm going to pee myself,
or someone will walk in. since we never
have a chance a lone anymore since my
grandparents moved in my house.
I need tips, suggestions.. anything.
Ive heard that I'm going to have to play
w/ myself to know what I like and how to
make me have an orgasm. I did tonight, and
it felt good, and I “juices” were
coming out and it didn’t feel like
“pee” but it wasn’t like OMFG it
feels sooooo great. It felt nice but not
all that.
SORRY for being so graphic, but I feel
like since I'm so inexperience I need your
help.
Thank you in advance.
(sorry I wrote a novel lol)
Ms. Newbie hahah
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dannyboygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 192 Location: ,
Re: New Here, Help. Posted: 02-25-07 02:32am
Love.
wrote:
Hello everyone,
I found this site my searching my
question that I will be asking. First I'm
going to inform you that I am a virgin,
and very inexperienced. And I won’t be
having sex until I'm married. I'm going
things here and there because then ill go
crazy! Hahah
Well I’ve read a lot of girls have asked
the same question about orgasm.
I’ve been fooling around with my
fiancé. We do a lot of oral sex and have
fun with each other. But I'm scared to
“cum”. Like if he is giving me oral
sex and I feel something weird or am too
aroused I take him off me because I'm
scared of the unknown. I'm scared of what
is going to happen like.. will I pee on
myself?
The first time we did stuff ( I don’t
want to go to much in detail) and I felt
like I pee’d, but it felt really nice.
But I was embarrassed because I'm thinking
to myselcf, dang did I just pee? So now I
stop him when I think something is going
to happen because I don’t know why I do
this.
Do we orgasm like guys? I REALLY want to
have an orgasm, he is really good but
sometimes I feel like if theres something
wrong with me, or because I haven’t had
sex I wont be able to come because I
don’t know what “sex” feels like.
And I'm never 100% focus because like I
said, I'm scared I'm going to pee myself,
or someone will walk in. since we never
have a chance a lone anymore since my
grandparents moved in my house.
I need tips, suggestions.. anything.
Ive heard that I'm going to have to play
w/ myself to know what I like and how to
make me have an orgasm. I did tonight, and
it felt good, and I “juices” were
coming out and it didn’t feel like
“pee” but it wasn’t like OMFG it
feels sooooo great. It felt nice but not
all that.
SORRY for being so graphic, but I feel
like since I'm so inexperience I need your
help.
Thank you in advance.
(sorry I wrote a novel lol)
Ms. Newbie hahah
Im so proud of u waiting til your married
but after you have an orgasm it may lead
you to wanting to go the whole way...Its
like being extremely thirsty and you only
get 2 tsp to drink..But its just my
opinion though you mess with fire you get
burnt sorry so blunt..Anyways if it smells
like pee its pee...If its clear or clear
white foamy its cum...Also always go pee
before any action that makes things alot
more comfy too cuz you know its not..Layta
boo
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Love.
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2007 Posts: 4 Location: Texas
Re: New Here, Help. Posted: 02-25-07 02:38am
dannyboygirl
wrote:
Love.
wrote:
Hello everyone,
I found this site my searching my
question that I will be asking. First I'm
going to inform you that I am a virgin,
and very inexperienced. And I won’t be
having sex until I'm married. I'm going
things here and there because then ill go
crazy! Hahah
Well I’ve read a lot of girls have asked
the same question about orgasm.
I’ve been fooling around with my
fiancé. We do a lot of oral sex and have
fun with each other. But I'm scared to
“cum”. Like if he is giving me oral
sex and I feel something weird or am too
aroused I take him off me because I'm
scared of the unknown. I'm scared of what
is going to happen like.. will I pee on
myself?
The first time we did stuff ( I don’t
want to go to much in detail) and I felt
like I pee’d, but it felt really nice.
But I was embarrassed because I'm thinking
to myselcf, dang did I just pee? So now I
stop him when I think something is going
to happen because I don’t know why I do
this.
Do we orgasm like guys? I REALLY want to
have an orgasm, he is really good but
sometimes I feel like if theres something
wrong with me, or because I haven’t had
sex I wont be able to come because I
don’t know what “sex” feels like.
And I'm never 100% focus because like I
said, I'm scared I'm going to pee myself,
or someone will walk in. since we never
have a chance a lone anymore since my
grandparents moved in my house.
I need tips, suggestions.. anything.
Ive heard that I'm going to have to play
w/ myself to know what I like and how to
make me have an orgasm. I did tonight, and
it felt good, and I “juices” were
coming out and it didn’t feel like
“pee” but it wasn’t like OMFG it
feels sooooo great. It felt nice but not
all that.
SORRY for being so graphic, but I feel
like since I'm so inexperience I need your
help.
Thank you in advance.
(sorry I wrote a novel lol)
Ms. Newbie hahah
Im so proud of u waiting til your married
but after you have an orgasm it may lead
you to wanting to go the whole way...Its
like being extremely thirsty and you only
get 2 tsp to drink..But its just my
opinion though you mess with fire you get
burnt sorry so blunt..Anyways if it smells
like pee its pee...If its clear or clear
white foamy its cum...Also always go pee
before any action that makes things alot
more comfy too cuz you know its not..Layta
boo
Thank you . Trust me, im a
pretty strong person if ive been waiting
almost 3 years. I love him so much and
want to be w/ him already in that phase,
but hes going to have to wait till nov.
hahah
i did pee before i did it, and i still had
like a nice lil puddle of whatever it was.
gez. its so
frusterating. my friend can materbate and
bang she is cumming all over the damn
place. i need to experince w/ myself i
guess.
but your right, im scared of that too,
because once i like stuff ido it over and
over again. look at me, i want to bang him
already!l ol.
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dannyboygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 192 Location: ,
Re: New Here, Help. Posted: 02-25-07 02:51am
Love.
wrote:
dannyboygirl
wrote:
Love.
wrote:
Hello everyone,
I found this site my searching my
question that I will be asking. First I'm
going to inform you that I am a virgin,
and very inexperienced. And I won’t be
having sex until I'm married. I'm going
things here and there because then ill go
crazy! Hahah
Well I’ve read a lot of girls have asked
the same question about orgasm.
I’ve been fooling around with my
fiancé. We do a lot of oral sex and have
fun with each other. But I'm scared to
“cum”. Like if he is giving me oral
sex and I feel something weird or am too
aroused I take him off me because I'm
scared of the unknown. I'm scared of what
is going to happen like.. will I pee on
myself?
The first time we did stuff ( I don’t
want to go to much in detail) and I felt
like I pee’d, but it felt really nice.
But I was embarrassed because I'm thinking
to myselcf, dang did I just pee? So now I
stop him when I think something is going
to happen because I don’t know why I do
this.
Do we orgasm like guys? I REALLY want to
have an orgasm, he is really good but
sometimes I feel like if theres something
wrong with me, or because I haven’t had
sex I wont be able to come because I
don’t know what “sex” feels like.
And I'm never 100% focus because like I
said, I'm scared I'm going to pee myself,
or someone will walk in. since we never
have a chance a lone anymore since my
grandparents moved in my house.
I need tips, suggestions.. anything.
Ive heard that I'm going to have to play
w/ myself to know what I like and how to
make me have an orgasm. I did tonight, and
it felt good, and I “juices” were
coming out and it didn’t feel like
“pee” but it wasn’t like OMFG it
feels sooooo great. It felt nice but not
all that.
SORRY for being so graphic, but I feel
like since I'm so inexperience I need your
help.
Thank you in advance.
(sorry I wrote a novel lol)
Ms. Newbie hahah
Im so proud of u waiting til your married
but after you have an orgasm it may lead
you to wanting to go the whole way...Its
like being extremely thirsty and you only
get 2 tsp to drink..But its just my
opinion though you mess with fire you get
burnt sorry so blunt..Anyways if it smells
like pee its pee...If its clear or clear
white foamy its cum...Also always go pee
before any action that makes things alot
more comfy too cuz you know its not..Layta
boo
Thank you . Trust me, im a
pretty strong person if ive been waiting
almost 3 years. I love him so much and
want to be w/ him already in that phase,
but hes going to have to wait till nov.
hahah
i did pee before i did it, and i still had
like a nice lil puddle of whatever it was.
gez. its so
frusterating. my friend can materbate and
bang she is cumming all over the damn
place. i need to experince w/ myself i
guess.
but your right, im scared of that too,
because once i like stuff ido it over and
over again. look at me, i want to bang him
already!l ol.
Girl your so silly lol...I peed before to
but my husband just laughed and we laughed
together that's true love..I man that
loves you in embarrassing moments..Try to
go to the bathroom 1st and drink more
water than soda...You'll know cuz you'll
pulsate down there also breathing
exercises help majorly girl...Breath
deeply though your nose exhale deep
through your mouth like yoga..It will blow
your head off. Also tightening your pc
muscles(pee muscles) while inhaling each
time..Just take your time you have all the
time in the world to experience that with
your husband when you two get
married..That's more fun and new stuff for
the marriage...
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dannyboygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 192 Location: ,
If You Wanna Spice It Up For Him Posted: 02-25-07 02:57am
Give him oral with a an Altoid or kinki
pain one is pop rocks..Layta boop boop
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Tylanas
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Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Posts: 12985
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Re: If You Wanna Spice It Up For Him Posted: 02-26-07 02:58am
dannyboygirl
wrote:
Give him oral with a an
Altoid or kinki pain one is pop
rocks..Layta boop
boop
I don't see how that relates to her
question... or is even appropriate.
Anyway...
Darlin', what you have expereinced is a
bonafied, pure, vaginal orgasm with female
ejaculation! Congrats! DOn't be afraid to
let go and allow this to happen time after
time; it's totally normal!
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dannyboygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 192 Location: ,
Re: If You Wanna Spice It Up For Him Posted: 02-26-07 03:39am
Eiri
wrote:
dannyboygirl
wrote:
Give him oral with a an
Altoid or kinki pain one is pop
rocks..Layta boop
boop
I don't see how that relates to her
question... or is even appropriate.
Anyway...
Darlin', what you have expereinced is a
bonafied, pure, vaginal orgasm with female
ejaculation! Congrats! DOn't be afraid to
let go and allow this to happen time after
time; it's totally
normal!
Exxxcccuuuussseee meee...but if you was
reading I did answer her question the 1st
time and I was givin' her a tip cuz she
said she felt unexperience..I don't come
on here to argue just state an
opinion...Honestly if she felt it was
inappropriate she would have said that and
I would have apologized to her...Im sorry
you felt some type a way about it Eriri I
should have Private messaged it instead of
for everyone on the board to read.. It was
inappropriate
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dannyboygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 192 Location: ,
Eiri Posted: 02-26-07 03:54am
I really didn't mean to make you feel some
type of way for real..I appreciate how
you helped me when I asked a question and
other people on here. Next time I will be
more considerate of others before I type
something that could offend someone else..
Good Luck Eiri and LOVE..Take care
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Tylanas
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Re: Eiri Posted: 02-26-07 13:09pm
dannyboygirl
wrote:
I really didn't mean to make
you feel some type of way for real..I
appreciate how you helped me when I asked
a question and other people on here. Next
time I will be more considerate of others
before I type something that could offend
someone else.. Good Luck Eiri and
LOVE..Take
care
I’ve been fooling around with my
fiancé. We do a lot of oral sex and have
fun with each other. But I'm scared to
“cum”. Like if he is giving me oral
sex and I feel something weird or am too
aroused I take him off me because I'm
scared of the unknown. I'm scared of what
is going to happen like.. will I pee on
myself?
. Trust me, im a
pretty strong person if ive been waiting
almost 3 years. I love him so much and
want to be w/ him already in that phase,
but hes going to have to wait till nov.
hahah
its so
frusterating. my friend can materbate and
bang she is cumming all over the damn
place. i need to experince w/ myself i
guess.
