any1?

I don't see what the problem is. If you two get along and want to start a relationship, go for it. I do not see why it would matter if she is bigger than you are, but if you're really not comfortable with the situation, then no big deal. You're not obligated to date her.

Are you saying your shallow and affraid to be with someone that is larger then you. If your interested in her because of what she offers from the inside ( a genuine heart) then that is what matters. Don't stoop down to "society says" because only you can really tell what your feelings are saying and if you want to be with her then be with her.

sneak diet pills in her drinks
hehehe

im joking

to be fair theres nothing you can do, your going to have to deal with her weight or be very cruel by putting pictures of thin girls all round ur room which might make her think darn he likes skinny girls best diet
but she wont shell probally just be uncomftable and upset
your pretty screwed sweetie

Its not that I'm afraid to be with her cause she bigger then me (width wise) but its like if she jumps on me or something then I'm a gonner.

With a comment like "if she jumps on you I am a gonner" I believe you have already made up your mind. If physical attraction is all that you really care about let this girl go so that she can find someone that will treat her with the respect she deserves. And by the way, my boyfriend is quite skinny and has a smaller waist than me. There really isn't anything wrong with it.

Good luck

i'm a big girl and i know that people talk about me like you have your friend and i'm sorry but putting photo's of slim women round the house will not work. if you feel like you say you do when your apart then you need to grow up, stop worrieing what people will think and go for it, what have you got to lose, if you don't tell her how you feel and give it ago you will look back and regret it.
BUT you need to get over the looks thing, if she was unhappy with herself then she would do something about it, she doesn't need her friends talking about her image, there will be enough people already doing that.
P.S i jump on my boyfriend all the time and hes still here and we've been together 3 years so i wouldn't worry about that.

good luck x

Nicely said beckums. I agree completely

obviously your mind is made up. You think she is too fat to be with. Yes, that sounds cruel because it is. But you are already thinking that.

If you guys are such great friends, then don't ruin it by starting a relationship.

keep the friendship intack.

unless you just want to get into her pants.... then I say go for it.

more lovin' in the oven.... if you know what I mean.

Look guys thanks alot for your feedback but I'm just going to stay friends with her. You guys were abit late in he responses. I've basically broke her heart. And you can check it out in the other thread http://ehealthforum.com/health/topic88868. html

i do not agree with that.
i can see where your coming from with if there really good friends don't spoil it with by starting a relationship, that your not sure you want to be in. but you will just be walking all over her feelings by just using her for sex, she deserves a lot more respect than that. she has come out and told you how she feels don't abuse that by using her to get your end away, then push her off, it's would most properly break her heart if she really does have deep feelings for you.
and then what friendship will you have after that?

I don't see any problem at all. Just because she's fat doesn't mean she does not deserve to be loved or liked. Look deeper than physical look. Look insider her. I'm sure the reason why you liked her in the first place is because she beautiful inside.

Hmm. I can't imagine why she would jump on you....maybe you're kinky like that, I don't know. I don't think I'd be too happy if anyone jumped on me, no matter how big or small they were.

Yeah.

Pick someone you like.

I didnt say that she doesn't deserve to be loved or liked. I'm just implying that she should be loved by someone that has the same build as her or at least as close to.

AMEN!!