When i masturbate i have no problem
controlling the duration and delay of
ejaculation, however, when i have sex it
is like a whole new realm and it seems
impossible to delay. Im sure these are
just simple symptoms of premature
ejaculation but does anyone have any
suggestions about getting past this
problem? seeing a doctor may be out of the
question since i really dont want the
parents getting involved, has anyone tried
deferol? any tips would be greatly
appreciated
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 02-23-07 07:39am
Premature ejaculation can have physical
causes or mental causes. If you want to
rule out the physical without getting the
parents involved, you can check if there
are clinics near you that will take a look
at you without involving them. However,
since you have no problem when you
masturbate, it sounds like it could be
something psychological.
Sometimes the issue improves on its own,
sometimes drugs are used, and other times
counseling works.
This site has some pretty good information
on the subject:
"Behavioral therapy is one possible
approach for treating premature
ejaculation. Most commonly, the "squeeze
technique" is used....
Another possible treatment is prescription
medication that helps to delay
ejaculation....
Some men with premature ejaculation also
benefit from reducing the stimulation they
experience during sex. A number of creams
are available that can partially
anesthetize (numb) the penis and reduce
the stimulation that leads to orgasm.
Another option is to use one or more
condoms*...."
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tp://www.intelihealth.com/IH/ihtIH/WSIHW00
0/9339/10521.html
*If you use condoms as your main form of
birth control or for STD prevention, then
never use more than one at a time. Using
more than one at a time can create
friction (latex rubbing on latex) that
makes both condoms more likely to break.
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Heatseeker
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 02-23-07 15:48pm
im very curious about deferol, its a non
prescription medicine that would easily
attainable, it says its all natural, does
that mean that it would raise seratonin
levels naturally (mimicking
anti-depressants) meaning that i would not
become dependent on it and would
eventually be able to get off deferol? if
so, i dont understand why everyone doesnt
take this, thanks
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 02-23-07 17:13pm
I don't know much about deferol. I found
some reviews of it on the internet. 60%
of people said it worked for them on one
site that I found. That just makes me a
little suspicious because since the issue
is often psychological, it certainly could
be a placebo effect taking action there.
In fact, even when actual placebos are
used, people often report that the "drug"
worked more than 60% of the time. So that
might be fishy.
They have a study on their site that their
claims are based on, but the study is very
small.
Also, this is not evaluated by the FDA.
It does not seem dangerous, so it looks
like it might be worth a shot. Their site
says they offer a money back guarantee if
you don't like it within 30 days.
