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replied on February 21st, 2007

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strawberry_fields wrote:

hey guys im 17 and 11 weeks pregnant im so excited i cant waite 2 have the baby i hope everything thing will be ok i had a misscariage last year in june and that was one of the worst things ive eva had 2 go through.I really wanna know what im having !! me and my boyfriend went 2 america in in december that wen i conceived and we got married in vegas the last 2 weeks we have been fighting and now his moved out we have split up and im going through alot i dont even want 2 go to work cause im so depressed im really scared about doing it all on my own is it really ard being a single mum? pluss i dont even know how the money works with child support dose that mean i have 2 but my baby with my husbands last name on the birth certificate? ahhh so much stuff 2 stress about

wow.. sorry to hear you have so much to worry about, hun.. But think about that baby growing inside you!! Its such an amazing thing to look forward to! Dont be depressed... Everyone goes thru times like that.

Im not 100% sure how things work with child support in Austrailia, but here ,yes, the dads name has to be on the birth certificate if you want to go after him for child support. (unless he agrees to take a paternity test.)

Dont give up so soon!! Things can work between you and your man, trust me... Girl you two are going thru really hard times right now.. Having a baby AND getting married are two very scary things.

Hang in there, babe.

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strawberry_fields

replied on February 22nd, 2007

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thanks darl u have made me feel heaps betta!!

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Sandbox Party

replied on February 22nd, 2007

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strawberry_fields wrote:

thanks darl u have made me feel heaps betta!!

im always in here in the mornings so if you need to talk to somebody who's been thru it all, you can PM me.

We also have a regular *Pregnancy* forum on eHealth as well if you'd like to check it out.. But stick aorund here too.. you'll find a lot of girls you can relate to whom are around your age.

Very Happy

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Melissa_20

replied on February 22nd, 2007

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Re: Help

rainfire1424 wrote:

strawberry_fields wrote:

hey guys im 17 and 11 weeks pregnant im so excited i cant waite 2 have the baby i hope everything thing will be ok i had a misscariage last year in june and that was one of the worst things ive eva had 2 go through.I really wanna know what im having !! me and my boyfriend went 2 america in in december that wen i conceived and we got married in vegas the last 2 weeks we have been fighting and now his moved out we have split up and im going through alot i dont even want 2 go to work cause im so depressed im really scared about doing it all on my own is it really ard being a single mum? pluss i dont even know how the money works with child support dose that mean i have 2 but my baby with my husbands last name on the birth certificate? ahhh so much stuff 2 stress about

Im not 100% sure how things work with child support in Austrailia, but here ,yes, the dads name has to be on the birth certificate if you want to go after him for child support. (unless he agrees to take a paternity test.)

didn't notice she was form australia. . .erm,I thought she came from somewhere else since her english sucks so bad.how old are you?

things will get better.you and your man should just try and work through things.times are hard but your there to suport each other.

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Sandbox Party

replied on February 22nd, 2007

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Re: Help

Melissa_20 wrote:

rainfire1424 wrote:

strawberry_fields wrote:

hey guys im 17 and 11 weeks pregnant im so excited i cant waite 2 have the baby i hope everything thing will be ok i had a misscariage last year in june and that was one of the worst things ive eva had 2 go through.I really wanna know what im having !! me and my boyfriend went 2 america in in december that wen i conceived and we got married in vegas the last 2 weeks we have been fighting and now his moved out we have split up and im going through alot i dont even want 2 go to work cause im so depressed im really scared about doing it all on my own is it really ard being a single mum? pluss i dont even know how the money works with child support dose that mean i have 2 but my baby with my husbands last name on the birth certificate? ahhh so much stuff 2 stress about

Im not 100% sure how things work with child support in Austrailia, but here ,yes, the dads name has to be on the birth certificate if you want to go after him for child support. (unless he agrees to take a paternity test.)

didn't notice she was form australia. . .erm,I thought she came from somewhere else since her english sucks so bad.how old are you?

things will get better.you and your man should just try and work through things.times are hard but your there to suport each other.

lol look at her location, smarty-pants Razz

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Melissa_20

replied on February 22nd, 2007

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Re: Help

rainfire1424 wrote:

Melissa_20 wrote:

rainfire1424 wrote:

strawberry_fields wrote:

hey guys im 17 and 11 weeks pregnant im so excited i cant waite 2 have the baby i hope everything thing will be ok i had a misscariage last year in june and that was one of the worst things ive eva had 2 go through.I really wanna know what im having !! me and my boyfriend went 2 america in in december that wen i conceived and we got married in vegas the last 2 weeks we have been fighting and now his moved out we have split up and im going through alot i dont even want 2 go to work cause im so depressed im really scared about doing it all on my own is it really ard being a single mum? pluss i dont even know how the money works with child support dose that mean i have 2 but my baby with my husbands last name on the birth certificate? ahhh so much stuff 2 stress about

Im not 100% sure how things work with child support in Austrailia, but here ,yes, the dads name has to be on the birth certificate if you want to go after him for child support. (unless he agrees to take a paternity test.)

didn't notice she was form australia. . .erm,I thought she came from somewhere else since her english sucks so bad.how old are you?

things will get better.you and your man should just try and work through things.times are hard but your there to suport each other.

lol look at her location, smarty-pants Razz

I did after you said something but before I looked I thought she was from a country where they spoke little english since her's sucked so bad. Laughing

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Sandbox Party

replied on February 22nd, 2007

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her english seems fine to me, just a littlr grammar errors.

every1 here knows i kant spell very gud eether. Wink

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strawberry_fields

replied on February 22nd, 2007

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why the hell are you so rude i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i never read over what i have written i didnt ask for your opinion on my writing skills

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Sandbox Party

replied on February 22nd, 2007

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strawberry_fields wrote:

why the hell are you so rude i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i never read over what i have written i didnt ask for your opinion on my writing skills

Eh... Melissa is a little over-critical with everyone.. she doesnt do it on purpose... trust me shes really nice and doesnt do things to be mean.

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Bridget

replied on February 22nd, 2007

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strawberry_fields wrote:

why the hell are you so rude i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i never read over what i have written i didnt ask for your opinion on my writing skills

i know you weren't talking to me but i have a hard time reading your posts too. i'm not being rude, i'm just saying you could use some punctuation and maybe spell out things like "to" instead of 2 and "ever" instead of eva.

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strawberry_fields

replied on February 22nd, 2007

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its just an easy way out im sorry i didnt realise it was a problem everybody dose it on msn and now im so used to it

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Sandbox Party

replied on February 22nd, 2007

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strawberry_fields wrote:

its just an easy way out im sorry i didnt realise it was a problem everybody dose it on msn and now im so used to it

lol its no biggie.

All of us do it from time to time without noticing.

Laughing

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Melissa_20

replied on February 23rd, 2007

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strawberry_fields wrote:

why the hell are you so rude i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i never read over what i have written i didnt ask for your opinion on my writing skills

well I really wasn't being rude thank you,just wondering why it sucked so bad.did I correct you on anything or care that you didn't want my opinion? no! sorry if it offended you Very Happy

thank you bridget!

rainfire1424 wrote:

strawberry_fields wrote:

why the hell are you so rude i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i never read over what i have written i didnt ask for your opinion on my writing skills

Eh... Melissa is a little over-critical with everyone.. she doesnt do it on purpose... trust me shes really nice and doesnt do things to be mean.

i'm not "over critical" with everyone.what I said was the truth.

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Sandbox Party

replied on February 23rd, 2007

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Melissa_20 wrote:

strawberry_fields wrote:

why the hell are you so rude i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i never read over what i have written i didnt ask for your opinion on my writing skills

well I really wasn't being rude thank you,just wondering why it sucked so bad.did I correct you on anything or care that you didn't want my opinion? no! sorry if it offended you Very Happy

thank you bridget!

rainfire1424 wrote:

strawberry_fields wrote:

why the hell are you so rude i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i never read over what i have written i didnt ask for your opinion on my writing skills

Eh... Melissa is a little over-critical with everyone.. she doesnt do it on purpose... trust me shes really nice and doesnt do things to be mean.

i'm not "over critical" with everyone.what I said was the truth.

more like super analytical lol but u see the smallest things no one else catches onto!!

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Melissa_20

replied on February 23rd, 2007

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rainfire1424 wrote:

Melissa_20 wrote:

strawberry_fields wrote:

why the hell are you so rude i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i never read over what i have written i didnt ask for your opinion on my writing skills

well I really wasn't being rude thank you,just wondering why it sucked so bad.did I correct you on anything or care that you didn't want my opinion? no! sorry if it offended you Very Happy

thank you bridget!

rainfire1424 wrote:

strawberry_fields wrote:

why the hell are you so rude i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i never read over what i have written i didnt ask for your opinion on my writing skills

Eh... Melissa is a little over-critical with everyone.. she doesnt do it on purpose... trust me shes really nice and doesnt do things to be mean.

i'm not "over critical" with everyone.what I said was the truth.

more like super analytical lol but u see the smallest things no one else catches onto!!

thats a gift! Wink

bridget caugth onto it! i guess we're special then =]

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Sandbox Party

replied on February 23rd, 2007

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Melissa_20 wrote:

rainfire1424 wrote:

Melissa_20 wrote:

strawberry_fields wrote:

why the hell are you so rude i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i never read over what i have written i didnt ask for your opinion on my writing skills

well I really wasn't being rude thank you,just wondering why it sucked so bad.did I correct you on anything or care that you didn't want my opinion? no! sorry if it offended you Very Happy

thank you bridget!

rainfire1424 wrote:

strawberry_fields wrote:

why the hell are you so rude i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i never read over what i have written i didnt ask for your opinion on my writing skills

Eh... Melissa is a little over-critical with everyone.. she doesnt do it on purpose... trust me shes really nice and doesnt do things to be mean.

i'm not "over critical" with everyone.what I said was the truth.

more like super analytical lol but u see the smallest things no one else catches onto!!

thats a gift! Wink

bridget caugth onto it! i guess we're special then =]

ofcourse ur special, melly butt!!!

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mommyto3soontobe4boys

replied on February 23rd, 2007

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you might want to try marriage counciling before you worry about child support.

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replied on February 24th, 2007

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mommyto3soontobe4boys wrote:

you might want to try marriage counciling before you worry about child support.

thats very true.

You shouldnt give up.. theres always room for improvement.

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