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Q: Break Up Cos of Bipolar
asked by: what do i do on February 21st, 2007
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Crying or Very sad I was going out with my first real boyfriend we had been together 8 months and he'd always get real snappy over nothing and we'd always end up fighting about it. He would make up lies to me and his mates so none of us would get along. One night my boyfriend broke up with me completely out of the blue and i was hear broken (still am) I couldnt understand what was going on because at night time he would still messgae me saying i was amazing he loved me and missed me but there was no way we could be together i found this very frustrating. One night we met at a party and he got me to go stay at his house once i got there i knew i was doing the wrong thing so tried to leave but he forced me to stay and hold him then he just cried in my arms. The next day he ran off with another girl i was furious then that night he got me to meet him and he told me he has bipolar and i was the first person he had ever told not even his parents know. Now that he's told me i want to try and help but he has fully kicked me out of his life and wont talk to me at all. I dont know what to do anymore i want to talk to him and i need him to understand i love him and will stick by him through this mess and he isn't taking any medication which he really needs. How do i ease my way back into his life to help him before hes too far gone???? PLEASE HELP!!!!
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ThriceP86
replied on February 22nd, 2007
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first of all, it sounds like he is bipolar but how does he know for sure? I'm just curious because he might be saying it just to suck you into his "downward spiral" or whatever you want to call it.
Secondly, there really isn't anything you can do. It depends if he really wants help. And sometimes people have to hit rock bottom before they figure that out.
Thirdly, I know it sucks and it sounds like he's hurt you badly. I personally haven't gone through anything like it myself but I'm living with bp, too, so I hope my comments help in some way.

-TP86
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