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harlaman

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Depressed About My Large Size =[
Posted: 02-16-07 20:28pm

Sad hey guys

i have been kind of depressed for the last, 3-6 months. I am in 8th grade soon to go to high school, and I am really tall and skinny. I never noticed because my guy friends dont say anything, but once I got to school on the first day, everyone was noticing.

I am 14 years old since yesterday, and about 6 foot. I weigh about 120-140.


Its not that I dont eat, its because I grow. I am skinny because of my height. I wish I could be a little shorter, or atleast stop growing at the height I am right now. I just dont want to be one of those guys that are huge and skinny.

Any advice on how to stop growing? Or how to get a little fatter. My problem is being skinny mostly, not really height. I try to eat and get a little heavier, but I give up, thinking that I am too tall.

I also tried working out. I dont know if its making me skinnier or not, I heard it makes you stop growing at a young age.
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harlaman

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Posted: 02-16-07 20:39pm

Anyone?
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hando92

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Posted: 02-18-07 11:08am

I'm the exact same way and i've never said much about it but the other day my friends decided to be suckers and started making fun of it--im 5'10" and weigh 125 pounds. My friends, who are even skinnier than me, call me anorexic and stuff even though I eat more than all of them combined. It's just fast motabolism, 10 years down the line you'll be making fun of them because they'll be 300 and you'll be 180 and they'll wish they were your size.
Working out probably won't be that much help making you bigger because there's nothing to make into muscle. Eat a lot of protein and get some of that protien powder stuff to make milkshakes with. Put in 1 banana, a scoop of protein powder, a cup of milk, and a little peanut butter a drink that every morning before you work out--i gained 5 pounds in a month that way.
But don't worry about it--you just have fast metabolism.
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blulyneguy

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Joined: 09 Jan 2007
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Location: Idaho,

Posted: 02-22-07 17:03pm

I understand. I have never been able to gain weight. I tried weights, powders, you name it. The doc says its fast metabolism and I need to consume more than I burn. But if I do, I get a belly and nothing else. If I work out to distribute the weight, I lose it. I know that people don't understand but being skinny is the exact same to a guy that being overweight is to a girl. Girls are *supposed* to be skinny, guys are *supposed* to be muscular and bulky. We all know that people are different and in no way is being overweight or skinny a testiment to the kind of person you are. I know it sucks, but just realize that we are how we are and exercise is good but don't spend alot of time and effort trying to get bigger or stop growing. You're still young and will fill out to look more proportioned as you get older. No worries. Just smile and know that you won't have to struggle with losing weight (thats really tough to do!).
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Chaos_Command

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Joined: 03 Aug 2008
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Posted: 08-03-08 16:45pm

I Wish I Was Like You.
Im Hefty And Short And I Wish I Could Grow Talled And Be Skinnier. Ive Tried Everything. Be Thankful Your Skinny As Most People Wish They Could Be You!

I Certinaly Do!
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juicyj208

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Posted: 08-04-08 01:50am

I hated growing up and getting called anorexic when I truly wasn't! I always ate as much as I could! Best thing to do is eat two peanut butter and jelly sandwiches every night before bed or buy a weight gainer from GNC.(I used GNC Weight Gainer 2200 GOLD, works great!) Those are the only things that have worked for me. I'm 6'1 and was about 140 in high school. Imagine how I felt..I know how you feel and a lot of people don't understand that thin people can be self conscious also.
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