You can easily stimulate the clitoris during vaginal sex by just making a sort of rubbing motion and stimulating it with the area above your penis.

G-spots and vaginal orgasms aren't proven. They are only theories at this point. Many people believe, and many don't. There are many studies where researchers say, "it looks like they are real," and many studies where other researchers say, "it looks like they are not real." few women claim to have vaginal orgasms. Most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation.

There is such thing as a g spot. If she sticks her finger inside her, and kinda curls it a little and presses, she'll feel like she has to pee. That's the g spot. I recommend her to get on top..The stimulation from the pelvic bone will help her to orgasm during sex. That's the only way I do.

You can stimulater her clitorally to te point of orgasm during sex, it just takes a little bit of dexterity - or she can do it herself.

As far as the vaginal orgasm... It is very possible for many women, however some cannot. Still, before signing off on the "she can't do it" card, there are things you can try.

You said she feels like she has to pee? Good! That means you're hitting the right spot. You just have to keep it up. Make sure she knows that this sensation is perfectly normal, and that she needs to relaxy down there, instead of tighten up - I know I get too tense to vaginally orgasm!

Maybe put down a towel or two, so she won't be as frightened, since from her point of view it may feell like she's going to pee everywhere!

Alright, thanks all, i'll see what we can do

but most of the times, we just do a little foreplay first

but what should I do then? I sometimes give her a clitorical orgasm already, but then I dunno if that's the right thing to do, cuz then when we have sex, she probably doens't enjoy is at much cuz she already "got it"

hehe, weird to explain

should I like, turn her on a little, maybe some oral action and then try to stimulate her g-spot (if I can find it) from the inside with a finger

and then have sex?

I dunno what works best..

Ok this is comin from my personal experience...I persoanlly love foreplay before sex wether it be by fingers or my vibrator I usually always use my vibrator before sex and sometimes during....I too have finally experienced a g-spot orgasim many times now and the easiest way we have found that I produced one at first was with a dildo, goin in and out almost at an upward angle toward the g-spot area and not too deep tho the g-spot is not that far in...Now I am able to produce one with my husband as well inside me both him on top and myself on top as well....I recomend experimenting if the two of you are comfortable with each other I would try it out....You can do a search on g-spot and it will give you some info almost a walkthrough on maybe gettin there and how to go about it.....Or even buy a penis ring with a vibrator on it so while you are having sex she will have clitoral stimulation as well........I persoanlly dont think there is nothing wrong with makin a girl cum before sex I think it makes the joy of sex much better!!! But I do think you need to tell her to experiment with her self as well its hard for you as a man to know what to do to her if she herself really does not know what she likes!!!! Good luck