Hi there sorry to hear about this whole ordeal. First your live isint destroyed...As you will find there are many people with herpes that live a normal healthy life. It really isnt the end of the world or you sex life.
Secondly if you have been proactive about it, keeping track of everything that involves this...Including reciepts, notes of dr visits, notes on the victorias secret undergarments etc id say it would be hard to get a case or anything done about it. You could talk to your Dr. About this or your a lawer but like I said its been awhile.
Also have you been having sex within in the last few years? Its very strange how the body works...You could have contracted this from somewhere eles and it could have layed dormant. Just a thought.
But all in all stay up, you will be fine ^_^