Your getting married at 14?? To a 21 year old? Is that allowed? Why would you want to get married so young?

Yes, we are set to get married on my b-day...March 1st! I am very happy! I finally have a family! He will be 20, but anyway...We're getting married!

Denise

Its great that ur getting married-it shows commitment to ur boyfriend & ur baby bu tis that allowed considering ur ages? I wouldnt have thought it was legal.R ur parents ok with it?
Best wishes
liz x

Sorry to bring this horrible thought up....But don't you think he will meet new girls when hes out at the bars once and awhile...I mean girls his age!???

~sara~

My mom has already signed for us to get married~we already have the lisense. And I know bobby would never leave me and the little one...He loves us too much. And as soon as I get married I can leave the group home and move in with him.

Denise

Hmm, I hope you know what you are doing, dont get me wrong I am standing behind you and you have my wishes. But I just worry, my mom wanted larry and I to get married but I was only 14 and he was only 16..Now I am 16 and he is almost 18 and we still arent ready. We are still growing and learning, learning new things about each other. Believe that, larry and I have been together 5 years, living together for 2 and still learning about each other. Have you guys even lived together yet? I dont think you know what you are getting into if you have not at least lived with the person..You ahve my wishes and you are getting my bes tof luck and all that I am just praying that you are making the right decision...Good luck!!

Stacie

Congrats! I hope you have a beautiful baby and a great wedding!!

Well I am glad that u at least plan on staying together...But wow.. Im reeeally surprised ur parents are okay with this?! 14..And 21... I mean I just dont think too highly of a 21 year old going after a 14 year old..Normally I dont think a 21 yr old would even think of that.. Also.. U said u 'finally' have a family? Hun....Finally? U have sooo much time ahead of u..... Im glad your stepping up and going to take care of the baby tho, thats great, but can I ask why your getting married at 14? I mean its your life your gonna do what u wanna do...But I would just be really careful before trusting a 21 year old completely when ur only 14. .They can be shocking sometimes. .. Im just worried about u.. I dont think u know 100% what uve gotten into....Or r getting into.. How long have u been together? Was the pregnancy planned? From both ends?

Honey congrats on the baby but you are way to young to get married! I know you think its the right thing now but you havent lived your life yet. You havent experieced life yet and years down the road you might regret it, but its your life and im not here to tell you how to run it good luck and god bless!


Chrystal

Denise omg I missed you so much girlie!!!!! I've been worrying about you constantly! March 1st is my birthday too! Haha look at all the wonderful things that happen on that day!!!!!! Good luck in your marraige and with your baby please keep in touch with me!
Much love melissa

I hope I didnt make you upset by expressing my opinion I was just sharing how I felt and what I went through and am going through!!

Stacie

-child development class-

Stacie - just noticed you put child development class at the bottom of yours and ya know what I remember takin that class when I was in grade 10 lol actually I still have my stuff from it. I loved that class! Hope you have fun in it! ~melissa

Well denise,
i sure hope things work out for you! I mean, if that is what you want! Good luck ok!
Love,
chanda