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Q: Questions
asked by: Zadnerist on February 13th, 2007
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i mean what i'm I supposed to be doing with life? People say to enjoy it, well I do do that but not enough, I feel scared of doing that I guess shy, or too lazy. Lack of motivation, I feel alone in this conquest of life. And since I feel alone I don't feel the need to do certian things.

I see right now, a lonely future, to keep my threads consistant in how i've been feeling right now.

Question 1:
i'm also kinda astranged by the choice of college to go to, I havn't made up my mind of what I want to do or where I want to go, i'm a junior in highschool btw.


Question 2:
i've also noticed it's hard for me to read a book, play guitar, play with electronics kit, mecco set. It always ends up with me playing witht he computer instead. I don't worry about working out though I force myself too, because I understand what i'm doing might change things little bit for me.

Question 3:
why do I feel this feeling of being a less equal around people like with some people I feel being looked down at, because lack of gf, lack of sports, lack of social life. I hate that feeling.

Question 4:
i've got a deadly lack of desire. And strong apeasement, meaning i'm someitmes defeated before I start.

I only hope that your answers don't help me but for the many that google for the same answers..
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v00d00cita
replied on February 14th, 2007
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Hi. Welcome here.
You're not the only one feeling, like that, so i'm sure you'll find some solutions. Smile

you said you're supposed to go to college, but you still don't know what you want study, right?
You can start thinking the other way around: make a list of what you do not want to do or study. Smile and also of places where you don't want to study.
That will narrow all the chances you have and you'll end up with a list that you can narrow even more and thinks about more easily. Smile
will you try this? It's a first step. Smile
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Color of Paper
replied on February 14th, 2007
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Whats up zadnerist. I know its hard right now in just life in genral. You are at a critical stage in your life and your bodys gona be doing this 2 you.

Its extemely natural to feel like this, lifes hard growing up period. Everyone has it different...Some people lash and rebel...Others keep quite and find that little depressed spot in their brain. Its really how you handle it right now....How you look at things right now and sometimes you need someone to put them into perspective.

So far your ahead of the game, your only a sophmore and already thinking about college! This is a big responsiblity for everyone who goes though it, so take it easy and explore different facest of college...Where you might want to go just for the hell of it.

As for being on the computer all the time...Alot of people do that now days lol. For me i'm on the computer about 9 hours a day for work....Thats 9 hours straight. Then I usualy go home and sit on the computer. I do go running and work out daily and keep an active social life with my friends and family but I still get down from being on the computer all the time.

One thing I find extremely usefull is be active. Just start doing some random stuff...Go bowling, golfing or whatever. Even if this is something you might say "stupid" I promise it will help your head. Just getting out and looking at people, getting out and doing something active will help draw the attention away from the "slumps".

Keep up and alwasy feel free to post...There are a ton of great people here. ^_^
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Zadnerist
replied on February 14th, 2007
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color of paper wrote:
whats up zadnerist. I know its hard right now in just life in genral. You are at a critical stage in your life and your bodys gona be doing this 2 you.


Its extemely natural to feel like this, lifes hard growing up period. Everyone has it different...Some people lash and rebel...Others keep quite and find that little depressed spot in their brain. Its really how you handle it right now....How you look at things right now and sometimes you need someone to put them into perspective.


So far your ahead of the game, your only a sophmore and already thinking about college! This is a big responsiblity for everyone who goes though it, so take it easy and explore different facest of college...Where you might want to go just for the hell of it.

As for being on the computer all the time...Alot of people do that now days lol. For me i'm on the computer about 9 hours a day for work....Thats 9 hours straight. Then I usualy go home and sit on the computer. I do go running and work out daily and keep an active social life with my friends and family but I still get down from being on the computer all the time.


One thing I find extremely usefull is be active. Just start doing some random stuff...Go bowling, golfing or whatever. Even if this is something you might say "stupid" I promise it will help your head. Just getting out and looking at people, getting out and doing something active will help draw the attention away from the "slumps".


Keep up and alwasy feel free to post...There are a ton of great people here. ^_^


i'm not a sophmore, i'm a junior, 3rd year in highschool and i'm gonna be taking the sat's in may an june.

What's the max on the sat? 2400 or 1600? I really havn't a clue.

I think though i'm starting to slowly coming to senses, but I still feel alright for asking these questions though. Someone esle will idn this site.
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Color of Paper
replied on February 14th, 2007
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Ask away ^_^ its a cool place.
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v00d00cita
replied on February 15th, 2007
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color of paper wrote:
whats up zadnerist. I know its hard right now in just life in genral. You are at a critical stage in your life and your bodys gona be doing this 2 you.


Its extemely natural to feel like this, lifes hard growing up period. Everyone has it different...Some people lash and rebel...Others keep quite and find that little depressed spot in their brain. Its really how you handle it right now....How you look at things right now and sometimes you need someone to put them into perspective.


yeha, it's normal.. When I was only a month and a half from having to choose the college and the course I was going to pursue studying, I didn't know what to do. I was studying social sciences and I wanted graphic design; a completely different area.
Then, I had problems with some fellow students and no boyfriend. Started dieting, then problems at home at the same time...
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