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Q: Scared
asked by: Doobiesoft on February 13th, 2007
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Well my gf and I just had unprotected sex, I know it was stupid beyond all belief, but we got caught up in the moment... And now we think she may be pregnant... And I know the only way to be sure is a test... Is there one better than another or anything? It's really hard where I live too... A bible belt state so what we did is supposed to send me to hell or something... So I finally resorted to coming here, but anyways my gf has the most screwy menstrual cycle ever, it use to be like at 40ish days and it's around 35ish now but I know that she has missed like an entire period before, so like a whole month of nothing... And she was sick for about 3 days before she missed her period and now she stresses and barely even sleeps anymore... Which this may be foolish but I think is what's causing here to feel like she's pregnant and continue to miss her period. She just barely missed it about a week or so ago... So any suggestions on what to do... Hahaha crying woot, sorry if this is a retarded post
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Mabel
replied on February 13th, 2007
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The only thing you can do is test. Sex is better when you don't have to fret or worry over getting pregnant. Use birth control. You can get condoms at any drug store and they are cheaper than the fear you two are feeling right now.

No test is better or worse than another. Have her take it in the morning with her first morning urine. If her periods are usually 40 days apart, have her take a test when she would be 'late' for her period.

Good luck.
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Doobiesoft
replied on February 14th, 2007
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I know it's stupid, and I don't want to admit it but I was pretty reluctant... But she said she wanted to so I did it anyways... Cause I love her... Sorry I just don't really have anyone to talk about this too haha... I wish I could talk to my mom or something, she says she'll always love me but it's hard to believe that she would if I really got her pregnant... I mean I want to marry this girl... But we're still seniors in freaking high school... And I know i'm going to be responsible about it and stick with her through thick and thin... And can you buy a test just at any old store like target or walmart? You don't have to be like 21 or something to buy them do you? Haha I kinda wish I could've known the risks about having sex... Have learned everything i've learned in a weeks time on the internet... But we don't get taught crap about it in school or from anywhere else either... Just that it's a sin and you'll go to hell if you do it... No stats or anything just that god will hate you... Sorry, i'm going off on a tangent... Just kinda nice to kinda talk about it ya know
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Jules
replied on February 14th, 2007
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You can buy pregnancy tests from supermarkets or you can get cheap ones which are just as accurate (but a little more fiddly to use) from dollar stores.



You're not going to hell but you are obviously not a child so you must surely have known that having unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy? Hopefully, your gf is not pregnant and you can chalk this one up to experience and ensure you use condoms in future. You may love your gf but bear in mind she might be desperate to get pregnant and that is why she pressured you so much to have sex.
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