I really have considered pulling the pin on him, and his "*doing it palace" everything has to been so fregging perfect and materialistic to him. I came from nothing, so I am sure I can build myself up again.


Like why would I think..That I would be good enough for him anyways?... Before nathan I use to dress to the 9's, I always did my hair nice, and makeup on. Now, I could care less...When I don't have to work, I am on the floor, in sweat pants playingwith a two year old...I don't feel like like getting glammedup for that. I hate thongs now, so do't wear them. My "granny panties" repulse him. There not granny panties...There bikini cut, ...But he would rather me wear dental floss through my a$$. He should wear a pair, --see how he likes it

I'm sorry your going through all this! Its horrible especialy when you have a little one to kep after.If I were you,(and this might sound stalkerish but do what you gotta do!) follow him after work since he doesn't come home and see what he does.See if you could bring a video recorder or camera for proof and if you want a divorce you can get it.Its so horrible to feel the way you do right now.We're here for you!

Girl, I would put him in his place. Confront him, make him accountable for the time he's not at home or at work. You are his wife, and you have a right to know where your husband is when he's not working and not at home. You deserve better than that. Does he not give a rats ass you gave birth to his son?! I hope everything works out for you, keep us updated and feel free to pm me if you ever need to talk.

Well, mtl has lots of jobs but you need to be bilingual for most good ones.

So I guess oyu are not pregnant again? You never seem to answer pms or people who ask questions in posts.

If I had found all the stuff oyu did, I would've been gone long time ago girl. You don't need sh*t like

Good luck hun, it's hard with a child to make up ur mind about stuff like that. I wish you well. And I am sorry to hhear about all of that.

I'm sorry, hon. I really don't think there's any reason to confront him about cheating because he'll never admit it if he is. But I do think you should confront him about staying out all the time. I think he's saying that about your bikinis as an attempt to make you feel bad and so he can feel justified in the way he's behaving. Don't let him upset you with that.