I think a lot of this is from my "mommies and mommies to be" post. I started the post to help some people relize how hard it is to have a baby at a young age. Not saying all 16 y/o are not ready but honestly we all know that most do not have a secure job, education or someone that is going to stick around forever. I felt that some girls come on here and talk about how they are trying to have a baby when they are probably not ready. I dont want to be the one to reply and look like a health forum by saying that I dont think someone is ready. I wanted it to be a post someone may read and think "wow, i'm really not ready" and know that we all are doing a good job by helping some people that are not ready relize that. No one pointed fingers. I feel like kitty got people going by saying that she smokes weed everyday and that she might be pregnant. Of course people are going to have something to say about a comment like that. There are certain things I do not share with with you ladies because I dont want anyone to think anything negetive about me-like when I told you all about the abusive relationships i've been in. I didnt tell you all right away cause I didnt want to hear the negetive comments that could come out of it. I think we should keep that in mind before we share things that may offend someone or may end up getting ourselves offened by others opinions.

I just want everyone to get along here you are all great people. kitty-i didn't mean to put you on the spot but I just wanted to clear things up. If it makes you feel better I dont think smoking weed is as harmful as other drugs and I used it occasionally in the past, I just want to tell you that.