My gf and I recently had unprotected sex for the first time this past tuesday. Now it wasn't intense sex, more of an slow in and out. I didn't ejaculate in her, I know for sure. This past weekend she's been really sick. Throwing up, fatigue. Shes supposed to have her period in a few days. Im just looking for comfort before then.
I wanted to ask 2 things:
should I wait for a ept?
And is pre-cum very potent with semen?
I want to be my usual optomistic self, but im really scared. We're both not ready. Im probably just paranoid, but i'm really scared. Please help.
It certainly is possible that your girlfriend is pregnant because even though you didn't ejaculate inside her, there are more than enough of the little swimmers in pre-cum to impregnate someone. It only takes one sperm, after all.
As for the symptoms your gf is exhibiting, I think it's a little early for the morning sickness to kick in since she's not missed her period yet but that's just from my experience.
You can get some preg tests that can be used earlier than the period is due but they are only about 50% accurate so it would be wise to wait until she is actually late before testing in my opinion, just in case you get a false negative.
If your gf is not pregnant then please use condoms in future so you don't end up either dealing with a baby or the aftermath of an abortion.