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Q: Difficult Thoughts
asked by: Aryeani on February 10th, 2007
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A while back, I dated "adam". After about a year, we began falling in love with each other, but our relationship ended with us fighting way too often. He was my first love and i'll admit I still feel some great attachment to him and he still has a place in my heart. Since the breakup, i've moved on to date other people and have grown attached to my recent boyfriend "steve". I really feel like he could be the one.

Here's my problem: I recently began talking to adam online. It's not serious conversation, just random talking and just words between friends. A few weeks ago, adam told me that he still has feelings for me, despite the fact that he has a girlfriend and that he still thinks about me. He also mentions that he dreams about us being romantic with each other. I've also had these types of dreams once or twice. I've even found myself thinking about him again and what it would be like if we were to ever act out these dreams. I have no intention of ever cheating on steve or doing something that low to him. I'm just wondering if it's wrong of me to be thinking this way or if it could be considered normal.
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Color of Paper
replied on February 12th, 2007
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Hi there. Id say its normal, people have these type of feelings/thoughts all the time...Espeically with your first love.

I wouldnt worry about it to much but you gota remeber why you guys broke up...This is something that just might alwasy be between the 2 types of people you guys are.

Also I would keep "steve" in the known...As long as this is harmless conversation and what not theres no reason for him not to konw.
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atx1975
replied on February 23rd, 2007
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I am going to say stop talking Adam, but seeing as how thats prolly not something your willing to do, remember the things that cause you to break in the first place. Also remember we tend to remember alot of the good times and forget the bad times when reflecting on relationships, thats human nature. Chances are if you got back with him, it would be a matter of time before yall both realized why you broke up in the first place.
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