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Q: Whine Time.
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arcadia
Extremely eHealthy
I'm just so irritated!
Chris & I are supposed to be working on my room today. There's a lot that needs to be done. Yesterday, we got a good amount done. We completely cleaned out my closet & hung up .Gabe's clothes & put a storage 3 drawer thing in there for his things. & I went through my dresser & completely cleaned it out & sorted through stuff I want to keep & stuff that's going to .Goodwill...
We were supposed to finish up the cleaning bit, today. Doing all the laundry & putting clothes away, cleaning off & taking apart my computer desk & taking it out of the room, getting the rest of the garbage up off the floor, & vacuuming.. Well, last minute, .Chris decides to bail on me & go play stupid .Magic! He was like "well you can do the little stuff.. Clean off your computer desk & do laundry. We can do the rest tomorrow." I triiiied to tell him there's no way we can do everything tomorrow. He has to donate plasma, I have an eye appointment, & my mom & I have to go get hostess gifts for my aunt's for my shower, & we have to find some thank you cards.. & .Chris & I have to turn in our hospital registration form & take a tour of the maternity ward. & .Tomorrow we're supposed to take apart the desk, haul it out of my room, bring up my glider chair, put it together, bring up .Gabe crib, put it together.. It just doesn't seem like there's going to be any time. & I wanted this to be done by tomorrow because this weekend is going to be so hectic!
& .Tonight .I've already done everything I can do! I cleaned off my desk, but I can't lift the computer off it because it's too heavy, & I can't do the stupid laundry because I so massively huge that I literally cannot carry the laundry baskets to the basement & nobody is home to help me!
.I'm just so irritated & I wanted this all to be done when it was supposed to be done like we had planned!!
I'm sorry for whining & .I'm sure I sound like a retard. I guess .I'm just nesting & I feel like .Chris doesn't care when or if this stuff gets done.
*big sigh*
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tigresacanela24
Especially eHealthy
Men usually don't care. They think things magically get done and get upset with us for getting upset. He should have had better sense than to think you could do laundry though. I didn't do laundry my last month because I would have fallen down the stairs carrying the basket. I already couldn't see my feet and where the hell was I supposed to carry the basket? On top of my belly? 
if I was there i'd help you krissy! I'm sorry that he bailed on you. Not trying to sound pessimistic but expect that from time to time. Women grow up, men do not ever grow up...
if I was there i'd help you krissy! I'm sorry that he bailed on you. Not trying to sound pessimistic but expect that from time to time. Women grow up, men do not ever grow up...
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AyaMiyaki
Especially eHealthy
I'm so sorry hon. It's not stupid. I'd be mad too. I literally had a nervous breakdown before .Aaron finally listened to me and put the carseat in the car, and this was just a few days before my due date! Men are dumb.
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tigresacanela24
Especially eHealthy
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arcadia
Extremely eHealthy
Thank you guyss. It just sucks! Like, my whole body is like telling me I need to hurry up & get this stuff done asap. I keep telling him we need to get it done, we need to get it done.. But he'd rather play that stupid game that I wish didn't exist! 
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arcadia
Extremely eHealthy
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AyaMiyaki
Especially eHealthy
| tigresacanela24 wrote: |
| "take it out or I break your face!" |
you're so awesome .Kay <3
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AyaMiyaki
Especially eHealthy
Hopefully you'll get it at one of your showers, hon. 
oh, I have a list of things I wish didn't exist, because of my husband and his addictive personality. Magic, .World of .Warcraft, .Counterstrike, sometimes anime... I could go on for days.
oh, I have a list of things I wish didn't exist, because of my husband and his addictive personality. Magic, .World of .Warcraft, .Counterstrike, sometimes anime...
I could go on for days.
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arcadia
Extremely eHealthy
| ayamiyaki wrote: |
| hopefully you'll get it at one of your showers, hon.
oh, I have a list of things I wish didn't exist, because of my husband and his addictive personality. Magic, .World of .Warcraft, .Counterstrike, sometimes anime... I could go on for days. |
.I seriously hate .Magic. He plays incredibly' 3 nights a week!!!
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tigresacanela24
Especially eHealthy
| ayamiyaki wrote: | ||
you're so awesome .Kay <3 |
lol! Hey, it worked. He was actually videotaping when I said it. I watched it last week and my face was like
! I guess I must have been really pissy because of the health question things he said while following me all over the house with the video camera. He was like "look at how huge she is! Mommy used to look anorexic and now look at her"
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AyaMiyaki
Especially eHealthy
| arcadia wrote: | ||
.I seriously hate .Magic. He plays incredibly' 3 nights a week!!! |
.Aaron gets on .W.O.W and will stay on it for hours. This is after he's been at work all day. So I have the baby when he's at work, then I have the baby when he comes home. And he always gets to a dangerous place where he can't just stop because *gasp!* his character will die! Or he'll join some huge group and then be like "well I can't take her now, I don't want to let my group down". Fine, let your wife down instead. Just ignore her and your daughter and play your doing it game. It's cool.
Urrrrrrgh!
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arcadia
Extremely eHealthy
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tigresacanela24
Especially eHealthy
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Idony
Extremely eHealthy
| ayamiyaki wrote: | ||||
.Aaron gets on .W.O.W and will stay on it for hours. This is after he's been at work all day. So I have the baby when he's at work, then I have the baby when he comes home. And he always gets to a dangerous place where he can't just stop because *gasp!* his character will die! Or he'll join some huge group and then be like "well I can't take her now, I don't want to let my group down". Fine, let your wife down instead. Just ignore her and your daughter and play your doing it game. It's cool. Urrrrrrgh! |
lol I know how you feel, at least he doesnt buy items for the game with real money (unless he does, then sorry) trevor plays world of warcraft and ultima online, hes been playing uo for like a year and buys stuff (i think I finally got through to him on that though, he hasnt bought anything in a while) he just started palying wow though, he goes and plays counterstrike on base (he hasnt in a while, cause he stays out until after midnight when he does and he knows it angers me off) and he collect magic cards (hasnt played though, in fact ive never seen him play magic, he says he hasnt dont it since he went to boot camp)
its annoying, but some guys can learn (sorta) I guess, just keep trying and have faith in him, maybe he will get it though his head
and dont worry about venting, even if it is whining (which it wasnt) thats what we are here for
~alicia~
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tigresacanela24
Especially eHealthy
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arcadia
Extremely eHealthy
| tigresacanela24 wrote: |
| $5 says he comes home. |
$5 for .Kay!
He said he's coming home.
But .I'm afraid he's going to be super resentful & be in the pissiest mood ever because he's missing out on his game.
I think I lose either way.
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tigresacanela24
Especially eHealthy
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AyaMiyaki
Especially eHealthy
God forbid he honor his promise to you and miss out on a card game.
what would he have done if you'd attempted to do that stuff yourself and it sent you into labor? friend. He better not give you attitude.
what would he have done if you'd attempted to do that stuff yourself and it sent you into labor? friend. He better not give you attitude.
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Sandbox Party
Especially eHealthy
Man I hate it when our guys are freakin immature. Thankfully when I need .Rob for stuff hes there.
Krissy dont you go exerting yourself.. I'll beat your behind!
Krissy dont you go exerting yourself.. I'll beat your behind!
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