Hi everyone,

i've been through these forums, and for the most part I know the basic stuff, so i'll give a little background info about myself. I'm a 20 year old gay male and have only had oral sex. I've only had oral with about 4 people and i've never swallowed or came into contact with the sperm when they've ejaculated. I don't do drugs or anything like that either. On the 1st of december I gave my boyfriend at the time a blowjob and he gave me one too. I didn't really give him all that long of a one because I wasn't feeling so well, and I definitely don't remember coming into contact with any of his pre-cum.

A few days later we broke up because I found out he was sleeping around. This makes me scared because I don't know what he might've been doing with other people and if I could potentially have hiv. I know oral sex represents a low risk, so would it be worth the time to go and take one of those free rapid oral hiv tests? Also this occurred on december 1st and I want to get tested right away. 12 weeks will be february 23. There are free walk-in tests around me every monday, and the few mondays after the 23rd I will be gone and busy on a trip for my schooling. So if I get a test on monday, feb 19th would that allow enough time to have a conclusive result? Or do those few extra days make a difference? I know it's good to get tested again at 6 months, but i've researched most other countries aids policy other than the us and they state a negative at 3 months can be conclusive as a negative result.

Thank you for your help, i've just been so worried!