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Q: Everyone Needs to Read This Please!

asked by: anorexicbeauty on February 8th, 2004

Experienced User

Ok, I have been reading through some of these posts from when I was gone and I have to say that some of you girls are becoming very nasty to others! You are all in the same exact situation! Yes, the same situation! You have all become pregnant as a teenager and though some of you may have “planned” your children, they have a huge surprise in store for you! You can never fully “plan” for a baby! Ever! It is impossible! You can have all the money in the world, you can have 3 children like myself, but every new baby comes with a whole new set of instructions! No child is the same and no one person is the same, yet the sanario does stay the same. We are all young, we are all mothers or soon to be, so that requires help and positive influence from everyone. I don’t want to see anyone attacking anyone anymore, its tiring! Some of you bicker like my two sons to and they are 7 and 3 ½! Just keep in mind when replying to the other girls, that they are people to, and just because you are 25 weeks pregnant and they are not sure if they are pregnant or not, you do not get the rank of seniority just because, you’ve been there! Work together! We are a team!

Danielle

Replies(23)

SweetCheeki17

replied on February 8th, 2004

Experienced User

Wow

Hey,

wow.. Thats a good point.. I did notice that some girls are rude to others.. But hey.... We can work as a team.. And give us some instructions.. Answers.. That we do need. I think thats all I can say. Thanks guys.

Ansleyt2004

replied on February 9th, 2004

Experienced User

I agree that is a good point and needed to be pointed out! No offense to anyone

Mesmerizeu15

replied on February 9th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Am I mean? If so I am sorry I dont try to be..

Stacie Embarassed

anorexicbeauty

replied on February 9th, 2004

Experienced User

No, it wasn't directed at one person stacie! It just needed to be said, I mean for example everyone was jumping on alison for wanting a baby, and its not fair! Some of you planned your babies at 16, and are doing great, I just think its a tad hypocritical for you all to tell her not to when some of you did the exact same. Thats my only point hun! No names are needed everyone knows what they said and thats that! Smile

Mesmerizeu15

replied on February 9th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Alright...And yeah I agree...

SweetCheeki17

replied on February 9th, 2004

Experienced User

Ehhh Good One.

There ya go. I mean you got an excellent point.. She isnt trying to be mean.. She just want everyone to be fair.. . Thats all.

Mesmerizeu15

replied on February 9th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Yep!!

Jaydensmommy

replied on February 9th, 2004

Advanced Support Team

I have to say I personally attacked allison. Maybe I was wrong, but I was a few years older when I planned my pregnancy. And a year or two does make a big difference in many aspects. Not only school, but work and such. It just kind of made me upset because first she said she isn't planning it, and then shes like "oh well im late now" like trying to say "ha" which I really don't care..Its her life she could be messing up. Thats all I am trying to say. But as rude as it may be I am not apologizing becaues I was trying to help her by realizing some things.

~sara~

kitty_55

replied on February 9th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

How am I going to be messing up my life? I can still do the things I do when I have a kid. Not all the things. If I do have a kid I will never smoke weed again. I am not planning a pregancey like you. You plan it and how old r u?

Jaydensmommy

replied on February 9th, 2004

Advanced Support Team

I am will be 20 in may..And I am engaged and in the process of buying our own home. I am already half way done with my college courses for phlebotomy. And my fiance is making very very good money so I am lucky enough to be able to be home with my daughter. Not every can do that..And its so nice to be able to. I wish all women could.

~sara~

insurancegirl

replied on February 9th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

nikki_caro

replied on February 9th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Yeah I think that we are not really attacking but warning. From the mothers that have been there done that, its best to warn the new young girls thats it not so easy. I would rather save them from making that mistake than having have to learn the hard way. If we warn them, at least they can think about it and know that its a hard job and maybe some girls will even wait until they are older and have a life planned out. Not just being a teen mother. For that are already teen moms you cant change that, but you know now that its a tough thing. And since you all have the experience, its best to help the ones that think its a piece of cake. You know what I mean? Warning them is not such a bad thing

Mesmerizeu15

replied on February 9th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Kitty- I dont think that sara was meaning to come off as she as "attacking you" and I dont think that you meant it that way either. I think that it is like the girls said, you were trying to warn her. Sara was simpply just trying to "save" you. I hope you all know what I mean. She and alot of the girls just worry that some people dont realize that it isnt all fun and games. I am not standing on either side, I am just standing in the middle. We are all a "family" and we are all just looking out for each other.. But kitty I have a question, how old are you for one? And secondly have you told your mom that you think you are ready to have a baby? I mean what if you get pregnant she throws your out and you are left on the street? What if the baby daddy denys you? What if...You can do whatever you want, and you know I will be here to support you..I am here for all of you..Good luck ladies!!

Be cool...

Hope what I said you can relate to...

insurancegirl

replied on February 9th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

anorexicbeauty

replied on February 9th, 2004

Experienced User

I understand all of that, I have 3 of my own and 2 of them I had pretty young, but telling her that she needs to grow up and attacking her lifestyle won't change her mind, she is trying to clean up, because having a baby means that much to her! Alison knows how hard having babies are, and I don’t think she is given enough credit! I know raising babies are very hard, but if she wants to have a baby, I will support her 100%, yes I will let her know about all the tough stuff. But you all know as much as me, that the good always out ways the bad when you go to sleep at night! That you child is your gift and you wouldn’t change it for the world! Alison, my only advice, get financially set first, get a good education and the rest is up to your sanity! Lol

smith8500

replied on February 9th, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Hey

Girls,
i've been gone so I am not sure where all the negative posts are. The only argueing I can see is around the sweetchick girl or whatever. Everyone, calm down. This is childish and stupid. Lets all get along, support our friends, or go away if you can't be nice.
Love ya'll,
chanda

anorexicbeauty

replied on February 9th, 2004

Experienced User

That was my only point chanda! Laughing

SweetCheeki17

replied on February 9th, 2004

Experienced User

Chanda

What?! Now are you against me.. Chanda? .. Please.. I am soo sick of this forum. I do not understand why I have joined this place. No one understood me in either way. Well health question this crap.

smith8500

replied on February 9th, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Hey You.

Hey sweetie,
i am not against anyone here. I don'ty even fully understand what is going on here. I am going back and trying to read everything you've written so I can understand this all. All I can see is that in every one of your posts there's been "trouble" surrounding it. I am not here to make this forum any more trouble. I've been here for a long time and i'm not up for immature argueing. If you have a problem, I have an e-mail address or you can pm me. This forum is not for our personal arguements. Thank you,
chanda

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