I was with my former fiance' for 3 years. It was great in the beginning then I began to see his temper and disrespect. After meeting his famiy, I understood why. We fought all the time but we also had good times. We were supposed to be married 11/15/08 but I called it off and had my Dad help me ge hom out of my house. I did not want to be without him I felt we both needed space before we made a mistake. He told me a few months ago he did not love me because I cancelled the wedding and did not want to get back with me. Then he said he was not sure. I started to date and he got upset and started dating himself. I told him a month ago I did not want to date and wanted to be with him and I loved him. He said he wanted to date and did not want to get back with me because he was afraid I would leave again.

I am trying not to be overbearing but I do not want to be with him and am finding it so very hard to deal with the fact that he is dating. I see him every so often and he texts me. Seems like we sleep together when we do hang out. Does he care and is there a future for us?

Jolie08