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tigresacanela24

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Last Rant For the Day...i Promise!!
Posted: 02-01-07 15:55pm

Ok, dh just called me at work to say that his mom told his sister that she (his mom) doesn't like me because I don't like her (his mom). What freaking crap! She's mad because I don't trust her boyfriend because dh's life experiences with her boyfriends (one of her boyfriend's killed himself in front of dh when he was 13, plus other things different boyfriends have done lead me to believe that she actively looks for lunatics). My own life experiences lead me to strongly believe "the better safe than sorry" school of thought. Anyhoo, she's pissed because when we were in nj she asked if her bf could hold the baby upstairs. I said that if he wanted to hold chu he could come downstairs like everyone else. So as soon as my back was turned she took chu from where I had set him down and snuck upstairs with him. I turned around and chu was gone so I was freaking out asking everyone where chu was. Some relative or other told me that she had taken chu upstairs. So I go upstairs and I see her in her doorway at the end of the hallway but she's not holding chu (so she had to have given him to her bf). She sees me then looks at me like Shocked and then slams the door in my face. I ran down and got dh and made him bring chu back. I was ticked that she was that dishonest and sneaky... Miguel talked to her about it before we left and she tried to act like I never told her that she couldn't take the baby upstairs... Rolling Eyes yeah okay. Now she's telling people that she doesn't like me because I don't like her. Whatthefeckever!!! I'm so pissed now... She disrespected me, not the other way around...
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Posted: 02-01-07 15:58pm

Girl, she looked throwed the medical answer off.

So, what a great position .Miguel's in huh?

I mean, so the medical answer what if you don't like her or her decisions. It's your perrogitive...

That sucks girl...I bet your name is alllll up in her mouth...

Sarah
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Posted: 02-01-07 16:04pm

Oh she really wouldn't have liked me then. I would have kicked that door down if she'd slammed it in my face with my child inside there. Oh hell no. And then I would have let her know (not nicely, either) that she never takes my child anywhere without my permission. Eff that. Her boyfriend isn't kin to .Chu and has no rights to him. She had no right sneaking off with your child. Evil or
Very Mad
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 02-01-07 16:06pm

babymajic0506 wrote:
girl, she looked throwed the medical answer off.


i don't get it Confused


babymajic0506 wrote:
so, what a great position .Miguel's in huh?


poor guy, he's always in the middle of something. Me and his fam go to war sometimes because they're such asses.


babymajic0506 wrote:
that sucks girl...I bet your name is alllll up in her mouth...


i know it is but too freakin bad. And if she keeps talking smack i'm gonna call her directly and tell her about herself.
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 02-01-07 16:08pm

I love you girls!! You're great for my ego!! Laughing
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Eyes Wide Shut

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Posted: 02-01-07 16:28pm

tigresacanela24 wrote:
babymajic0506 wrote:
girl, she looked throwed the medical answer off.


i don't get it Confused


remember the other night you showed me them pics, and was like "miguel's mom is different" or something similar to that!...?


Lol...You so silly!!!

Sarah
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AyaMiyaki

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Posted: 02-01-07 16:38pm

Yesterday I was in a grocery store buying some food for .Alyvia, and while I was in the checkout a guy that works there walked up and was talking to the baby. Which I don't mind, really, but the stuff he was saying was pissing me off slightly, plus he was talking in really annoying baby talk. He was like "do you keep your mommy up all night?" and I told him "no she doesn't, she sleeps very well" and he kept talking to her like "you should wake up every hour and cry and wake your mommy and daddy up" blah blah blah, which I was like Rolling Eyes to but I tried to ignore him and finish paying.

Then he started to grab her hand while he was still talking to her and I turned around so fast and pulled her away from his reach and said "don't touch my daughter" really loudly. Everyone turned around and looked at him and he turned soooo red. One of his bosses was walking up to him when I left.

What makes people think they're entitled to little babies? Touching them, holding them, whatever? I don't doing it know you. Do you have a contagious disease? Do you wash your hands after you use the bathroom? You really want to put your hands on my child? F*ck that. Evil or
Very Mad

this was pretty unrelated to your story .Kay except for the boyfriend wanting .Chu, right? Laughing
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 02-01-07 17:27pm

It's all good, I feel the same way!!! I don't like strangers touching chu.
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Posted: 02-01-07 20:21pm

Kay, feck that sh*t dude. She sounds about 13 yrs old Shocked I woulda been soooooo pissed off.

Lol laura
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Posted: 02-01-07 22:28pm

ayamiyaki wrote:
oh she really wouldn't have liked me then. I would have kicked that door down if she'd slammed it in my face with my child inside there. Oh hell no. And then I would have let her know (not nicely, either) that she never takes my child anywhere without my permission. Eff that. Her boyfriend isn't kin to .Chu and has no rights to him. She had no right sneaking off with your child. Evil or
Very Mad


lmao girl you *just* like me lol. I wulda been beatin some azz.
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 02-02-07 09:01am

I was trying not to cause any beef since we were staying with them and that is his mom. So I had to think of the diplomatic way out. I would have rather done like you guys said and kicked the door in. I would have also liked to smack her face for being so sneaky, but eh. I don't think i'm ever going to visit them again...
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Posted: 02-02-07 10:52am

.Kay girl you have some serious self restraint because dh would've had to pull me off of her..... She really deserved a bit@h slap for pulling that crap

tigresacanela24 wrote:
i was trying not to cause any beef since we were staying with them and that is his mom.


she is his mom but so what, although you didn't come out and say it, she obviously was putting .Chu at risk......The fact that he wanted to hold your baby upstairs out of everyone's site sets off warning bells in my head.

My .M.I.L doesn't like me either, she tells people that dh isn't married Laughing and I told her off when she said it to my face.......And she said that I needed christ because I was disrespectful and I told her that just because she is dh's mom she believes that that should get her the ultimate respect, but I just had to inform her that respect is earned.
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 02-02-07 12:06pm

She told you to your face that you and her son weren't married!?! Shocked that took serious cojones!! Wow... That's so mean and nasty!!

I haven't liked her since that moment because I don't like liars and sneaks. What she did was completely unnecessary and made me think that she was trying to do something, you know? Why would you take someone's child like that? B*t(h!
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