Emma2
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:34am
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| nataliachick7
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | | wow natalia you really dont
get it huh? Do you live your life
based on stats? I do not....My son
held his head fully at birth so dont sit
there and tell me its impossible because
the internet told you so...You really
should stop reading its one of those cases
where it actually makes you more
stupid. |
dr sears had a high needs baby himself,
like I said. This man knows what he is
talking about.
Youre the one that doesnt get it.
And no where does it say that its
impossible for a baby to hold its head up,
its just not common.
You really should start reading, because
you obviously wanted some advice otherwise
you wouldnt have posted this. It wont
hurt you to read emma. Dr sears has a
lot of experience not to mention he is
very educated. Why are you so scared of
getting some help from this?
In my opinion, knowledge is
power. |
yes knowledge is power but you take it too
far with your believing eveyrhting one man
has to say...I read enough and I dont
believe everything a book has to say...I
will take experience anyday over your
statistics...
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:35am
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| emma2
wrote: | | its one of those cases
where it actually makes you more
stupid. |
that is the most ignorant thing I have
ever heard.
Knowledge is power.
What makes you stupid is thinking you are
so above and beyond. You are so much
smarter than experienced professionals?
Then why did you post this to begin with?
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:36am
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I don't care for Dr. Sears. His was one
of the first books I bought. After two
weeks with chu, I threw his book away.
His approach did not work for me and
everything that he said only served to
make my life with a new baby harder.
After throwing him away I tried the common
sense approach and that worked
waaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyy better.
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Emma2
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:36am
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| nataliachick7
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | | its one of those cases
where it actually makes you more
stupid. |
that is the most ignorant thing I have
ever heard.
Knowledge is power.
What makes you stupid is thinking you are
so above and beyond. You are so much
smarter than experienced professionals?
Then why did you post this to begin
with? |
no what makes you stupid is believing a
damn book ...Your ideas are based on other
peoples kids not your own....Youre a
weirdo
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:37am
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| emma2
wrote: | | nataliachick7
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | | wow natalia you really dont
get it huh? Do you live your life
based on stats? I do not....My son
held his head fully at birth so dont sit
there and tell me its impossible because
the internet told you so...You really
should stop reading its one of those cases
where it actually makes you more
stupid. |
dr sears had a high needs baby himself,
like I said. This man knows what he
is talking about.
Youre the one that doesnt get it.
And no where does it say that its
impossible for a baby to hold its head up,
its just not common.
You really should start reading, because
you obviously wanted some advice otherwise
you wouldnt have posted this. It wont
hurt you to read emma. Dr sears has a
lot of experience not to mention he is
very educated. Why are you so scared
of getting some help from this?
In my opinion, knowledge is
power. |
yes knowledge is power but you take it too
far with your believing eveyrhting one man
has to say...I read enough and I dont
believe everything a book has to say...I
will take experience anyday over your
statistics... |
im not talking about one man emma, I have
read a ton of baby books. I just posted
this for you as one of the things I have
read, and coming from a man who had a high
needs baby I figured it would be more
credible.
What, exactly, dont you believe that he is
saying? Its not like he is making up
fables here.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:38am
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| nataliachick7
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | | its one of those cases
where it actually makes you more
stupid. |
that is the most ignorant thing I have
ever heard.
Knowledge is power.
What makes you stupid is thinking you are
so above and beyond. You are so much
smarter than experienced professionals?
Then why did you post this to begin
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i think in some cases we are all smarter
than experienced professionals. Why does
it take them years of study to "learn"
what is common sense or instinct to most
mothers?
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:41am
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| emma2
wrote: | | nataliachick7
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | | its one of those cases
where it actually makes you more
stupid. |
that is the most ignorant thing I have
ever heard.
Knowledge is power.
What makes you stupid is thinking you are
so above and beyond. You are so much
smarter than experienced professionals?
Then why did you post this to begin
with? |
no what makes you stupid is believing a
damn book ...Your ideas are based on other
peoples kids not your own....Youre a
weirdo |
ohmygosh...Believing books makes people
stupid now? Jesus! Wow lets burn all of
our books and lets get rid of the
education system too while were at it!
Who needs an education! Lets all be
idiots together.
You sure are a smart one.
My ideas arent based on others peoples
kids. Dr sears helped me. I had no idea
how to cope with a high needs baby and I
sure as well wasnt going to listen to
everyone telling me to just let him cry it
out.
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Kia
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:41am
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Time out already.
Just because you disagree with someone's
posting doesn't mean you have to put them
down.
Let them take whatever approach they want
and you do yours.
None of us are the same and no two of us
will raise our kids the same.
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:42am
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| tigresacanela24
wrote: | | nataliachick7
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | | its one of those cases
where it actually makes you more
stupid. |
that is the most ignorant thing I have
ever heard.
Knowledge is power.
What makes you stupid is thinking you are
so above and beyond. You are so much
smarter than experienced professionals?
Then why did you post this to begin
with? |
i think in some cases we are all smarter
than experienced professionals. Why
does it take them years of study to
"learn" what is common sense or instinct
to most
mothers? |
i see where you are coming from. But to
answer your quesion, its probably because
they have to get proof, like do studies on
it and gather enough evidence to make a
claim.
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OctoberBaby06
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:42am
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Hmm..I don't usually jump into these kinds
of posts but I haven't read one single
baby book since .I've had .Kaylee besides
looking up things online here & there
& we seem to be doing just fine. I am
learning as I go.
.Michelle
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:44am
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| octoberbaby06
wrote: | hmm..I don't usually jump
into these kinds of posts but I haven't
read one single baby book since .I've had
.Kaylee besides looking up things online
here & there & we seem to be doing
just fine. I am learning as I go.
.Michelle |
youre lucky you dont have a high needs
baby. Most people with laid back babies
dont necessarily need to look into all of
the books.
I dont see anything wrong with becoming
knowledgeable on things.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:45am
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| nataliachick7
wrote: | im not talking about one man
emma, I have read a ton of baby books.
I just posted this for you as one of the
things I have read, and coming from a man who had a
high needs baby I figured it would be more
credible.
what, exactly, dont you believe that he is
saying? Its not like he is making up
fables here. |
Is he a high needs baby nancy?
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:45am
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Every child is different and I think that
every mother and family has to find out
what is right for them. A book can't
tell you what to do in every situation
natalia, but if you want to live your life
like a book then that is fine. If people
dont' want to take your information and
live their lives by it, it doesn't make
them wrong. I grew up with a 'high needs
brother' and we didnt' live life opening a
book everytime we needed to find out what
to do. It doesn't always work for
everyone. Life doesn't come with a hand
book and babies don't either.
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Emma2
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:45am
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My dear you are the one whom believes
herself to be smarter because you waste
your time investigating and believing
everthing you read..Baby books are useless
but use them if you believe your child
falls under every category described...I
asked for advice and I got the best
answers possible..From real mothers not
paper
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:49am
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| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | every child is different and
I think that every mother and family has
to find out what is right for them. A
book can't tell you what to do in every
situation natalia, but if you want to live
your life like a book then that is fine.
If people dont' want to take your
information and live their lives by it, it
doesn't make them wrong. I grew up with
a 'high needs brother' and we didnt' live
life opening a book everytime we needed to
find out what to do. It doesn't always
work for everyone. Life doesn't come
with a hand book and babies don't
either. |
i just want to clarify something. I dont
have to open a book for every little
thing. I read these books to help me when
I was in the same situation as emma. I
had a crying baby all the time and couldnt
get anything done. Granted a lot of it
had to do with physical problems...But
that led to the high needs part and
sensory issues. Now that he is properly
medicated he is starting to act less and
less high needs.
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Kia
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Posted: 02-06-07 11:49am
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| emma2
wrote: | | my dear you are the one whom
believes herself to be smarter because you
waste your time investigating and
believing everthing you read..Baby books
are useless but use them if you believe
your child falls under every category
described...I asked for advice and I got
the best answers possible..From real
mothers not
paper |
seeing as nancy has her answers I think
this post should be retired!
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