This is relle relle embarrasing... But
apart from using condoms, are there any
other precautions that a couple shoud take
before having anal sex?
And how can it be made more pleasant?
My bf wants to try it... And so do i...
But we both have few insecurities...
A friend of mine also tried it, and she
sed tht she had to clear her system (
ummm... Down thr !!) before she had anal
sex...
How do u clear ur system? im
relle confused...
Any advie would help !!!!!
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healthoption
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2007 Posts: 1
Posted: 02-01-07 09:34am
I think you should take a laxative to
clean your system before trying it
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 02-01-07 14:51pm
Most people use an enema to clear their
system. You should also buy lubrication
from the store. You'll probably need to
use kind of lot. Make sure you
communicate, and make sure that your
partner goes at your pace, not his. It
can be painful if the partner enters too
quickly. Many people also use a finger
or two before putting an entire penis in.
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Moo
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Posted: 02-02-07 06:58am
I would honestly just say to make sure you
have lots of lube and a condom!
(the reason men (according to friends)
enjoy it is because it's 'tighter' than
the vagina)
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dannyboygirl
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Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 192 Location: ,
Re: Anal Sex Posted: 02-02-07 23:33pm
kinky_cia
wrote:
this is relle relle
embarrasing... But apart from using
condoms, are there any other precautions
that a couple shoud take before having
anal sex?
And how can it be made more pleasant?
My bf wants to try it... And so do i...
But we both have few insecurities...
A friend of mine also tried it, and she
sed tht she had to clear her system (
ummm... Down thr !!) before she had anal
sex...
How do u clear ur system? im
relle confused...
Any advie would help
!!!!!
i would suggest trying anal-ease you have
to get that from a sex shop though. Also
there's this gangin lube called jlo or
something. Its not sticky it feels very
smooth. Start in the spooning position
1st and be very relaxed or you can tear
something easily. It heals very slow in
there. I hope I helped some good luck..
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Jaky-Lynn
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Feb 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 02-09-07 21:08pm
Deffinetly using a finger works better
than not using a finger b4 the penis..
Bucha gotta let him know cos not all guys
know this.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 02-10-07 22:00pm
Lube is good.
As far as "cleaning" goes, you can do
something as simple as making sure you've
gone number 2 recently, and you know
there's nothing in there.
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Trisha Gates
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 5 Location: Oregon
Posted: 02-11-07 15:01pm
I love anal sex but only when my clit is
being stimulated as well. Anal ease is
great if your just starting out and make
sure theres a lot of forplay first, it
helps to be really turned on. I suggest a
pocket rocket for clitoral stimulation.
Found at any sex store and usually only
about $10, anal ease is about $5. I
would deffinately have him work a few
fingers in there first as well. Good
luck and remember, it gets better with
time.
im
relle confused...
