Anyone who know or had experience before
please help me, the pain is killing me
badly.
I had been dating this guy for 2months and
had a weekend getaway last
weekend.(thur-sun). This is the 1st time
we had sex with each other (we both had
partners before). He was very rough and
I felt bruised at my clit, rectrum,
gential areas. I also felt sore(well, we
had 10times in 3days). Intial 1-3times,
condoms are used because i'm still having
my period(about 4th day of period) and no
condoms was used after that. The topic
of whether he has herpes or not was never
brought up. I'm not sure when's his last
sex is but mine is about 1 year ago.
On sunday, I felt really sore in my
gential areas, alittle itching starts to
occur around my vulva area. I didn't
really care much and of cos starts
scratching. On monday, I realise there's
alot of discharge, like starchy yellowish
and they harden up on my underwear. I
didn't sleep well on sunday nite and catch
a cold, feeling feverish when I walk up.
Itching increases on monday, the discharge
is frequent with the same color and I find
it difficult to walk cos its sore around
the vulva area. I must have
subconsciouly scratch very hard while
sleeping on monday night.
On tue morning, when I walk up and pee, I
felt like 10000knives slashing my gential
area. The discharge is still as much and
freqently. I cant even sit, stand walk
normally, every single moment I make
hurts. I decided to see a doctor. She
said it could be thrust or herpes. She
took some swab test. Results will only
come on friday for thrust and next week
for herpes. She prescribe canesten
cream+ 1 day treatment, which I use on
tueday nite. She said she noticed no
blisters or uclers but there is redness
and sore on the vulva. She also noticed
some redness around the rectum area and
clit area. She took test for herpes just
in case and ask me to monitor my
situation. On tue night, I noticed a
little white bump on my vulva area.
There's no more itching on tuesday. I
did intensive searching for yeast
infection and herpes on the internet and
found my symptons match the yeast
infection quite closely. Except for the
discharge, i'm not sure whats cottage
cheese like but my discharge is yellowish
and hardens when it drys up. Its starchy
like. One of the cause of yeast
infection is caused by antibodies, and I
had been taking antibodies since last nov
for my face(outbreaks), so this could
cause the yeast infection.
On wed morning, I noticed more white bumps
appearing, peeing still hurts alot when
the urine touches the sore areas. I took
alot of cranberry juice and yoghurt as it
was recommended on websites that it may
help. No itching was experience today,
only soreness. The feeling is like
rubbing salt on open wounds. Out of no
where, I had dirreaor in the afternoon and
that hurts like hell. Everytime urine
touches the valua, when I walk, sit,
stand, move alittle, it hurts badly.
Towards the evening time, I felt sorness
at my rectum. The feeling is like I just
had constipation. This became to worry
me alot. I could see red bumps like
ucles around my rectum area and white
bumps like big pimples on my valva area.
When I run my finger on it, it felt
uneven, so its definately bumps. I'm
still continueing to use the canesten
cream on my valva area. No itching
anymore.
Thursday morning. The pain did not ease,
it is still as painful as wednesday., one
thing I noticed is that if I shower in
warm water, when the water passes my valva
it doesn't hurt, no pain. But when I pee
it stings alot. For the 1st 1-3secs it
doesn't hurt, but when the urine touches
the sores, it hurts badly. This is very
worrying because of these bumps, its a
symptoms for herpes. Until now, I didn't
confront my bf because I do not want to
jump into conclusion, it could be very
serious yeast infection and those bumps
could be boils. I can't tell the
difference anyway by looking. I rang my
doctor but she's not working today. I
can only wait till tomorrow to know the
thrust results.
I tried to be as detailed as possible in
my description hoping someone here with
the experience or medicial background can
provide me some information. This is the
1st time I ever experience such pain.
Please help if you can. Thanks alot.
Very much appreciated.
Joan
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 01-31-07 19:13pm
Yikes. That sounds awful. Well, you
certainly have something. Even your
doctor had to perform tests, however.
So, sadly, we can't diagnose you over the
internet, medical backgrounds or not.
You'll have to wait for those tests.
Good for you for getting right on it and
going to the doctor. Too many women are
afraid to go and just sit at home and
wait.
I would probably be honest with the
boyfriend, and say something like, "i have
something. I am not sure what it is yet,
but we should refrain from having sex, at
least until I get my test results." he
could have something without knowing it.
A lot of people are walking around with
stuff that they don't even know about
because they don't have any symptoms.
I do not know if there is anything that
you can do to ease your pain in the
meantime. Be careful of over the counter
yeast infection products. Most doctors
do not recommend that women use them
unless they have been diagnosed with a
yeast infection by a doctor. A lot of
women try to self-diagnose and take the
otc yeast infection meds, but not all of
them have yeast infections. Symptoms of
yeast infections can also be symptoms of
other things, as you know.
In the future with other relationships,
use condoms until you both get tested.
If you have herpes, it will be with you
for the rest of your life, and there are
stds that are a lot more serious than
herpes. So be safe and careful. Good
luck to you.
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bkeme
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jan 2007 Posts: 29
Posted: 01-31-07 21:43pm
Hello llewellyn
thanks for replying. I do understand that
the test results is always the source of
answer rather than forums like this. This
is just a channel for me to ease my
worries, its worth a try, someone may have
the same experience as well. Seeking some
help online is better than sitting around
waiting for results. But thanks again,
for your kind reply.Appreciate it.
New discovery for the afternoon- one of
the red pimples/blisters/ucles (i can't
tell the difference!!!) is bleeding, so it
got stuck to my pantyliners, I had to pull
it off and it hurts damn bad. So one
bleeding case found. Also, I noticed the
discharge now is slightly different. Its
like yellowish egg-white. No more itch
for now. Discharge is still frequent.
And of cos I still had heaps of difficult
sitting, standing, walking, basically any
movement that involves the lower half.
Think I walk the same speed as a grandma.
Can confirm now that it doesn't hurt when
I pee (so that rules out that urine
infection) but when the pee touches the
sores.
I was wondering should I put those tiny
plasters on the bleeding sore to prevent
it from been stuck to my pantyliners all
the time.
I really hate wearing underwear at this
time, but if I don't wear, the discharge
will just drip, but if I wear, it will
keep rubbing against those sores. No body
should go to work at times like this.
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bkeme
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jan 2007 Posts: 29
Update #2 Posted: 01-31-07 23:49pm
I think there's something not right here.
Yesterday I had banana, cranberry
juice(500ml) and small tub youghurt, after
a while, I had diarrhoea.
Today I had the same just without the
bananas and I also had diarrhoea. I read
from net that these 2 food is good for
yeast infection, but how come its giving
me diarrhoea...............
Its no fun at all!!! Adding to the
existence pain I already had!
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bkeme
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jan 2007 Posts: 29
Update #3 Posted: 02-01-07 06:47am
Evening observation
the discharged has lessen. And there's
slight bleeding from the sores, sticking
to my pantyliner. No visible blood stains
but pinkish stains on pantyliner.
At nite when I check in the mirror, I
noticed alot of alot of sores, red and
white color all over my valvu and on my
clits and 2 on my rectrum. I do feel
giddy once in a while, seems like its
cause from the painful sores and though I
have no temperature, I feel warm. Please
advice whether I have herpes.
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stevensjordon
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Joined: 29 Jan 2007 Posts: 10 Location: bristol uk
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a Little Info For You Posted: 02-01-07 07:12am
What happens when you first get herpes?
Symptoms of herpes usually develop within
2 to 20 days after contact with the virus,
although it could take longer. These
symptoms may last up to several weeks,
varying from one person to the next. In
many people, the first infection is so
mild that it goes unnoticed. In others,
the first attack causes visible sores.
Even so, subsequent recurrences of the
disease may cause lesions. When the sores
are completely healed, the active phase of
infection is over. Healing of the skin
usually leaves no scars. In either case,
the virus retreats into the nervous system
and lies dormant.
Typical symptoms
the virus starts to multiply when it gets
into the skin cells. The skin becomes red
and sensitive, and soon afterward, one or
more blisters or bumps appear. The
blisters first open, and then heal as new
skin tissue forms. During a first
outbreak, the area is usually painful and
may itch, burn or tingle. Flu-like
symptoms are also common. These include
swollen glands, headache, muscle ache or
fever. Herpes may also infect the
urethra, and urinating may cause a burning
sensation.
