Jill I understand how upset you are, but your not going through it alone! He is still there for you, but is trying to give you and your children a better life. Him going to school is great for both of you! Its gonna be hard for a while, but you will do great! I go to school from 9:30-12 everyday, pick up christina at 1pm and go to work from 5 to 10pm mon-fri 10am-5pm sat and 9am-3pm sunday, its very hard being away from christina, but when I graduate it will be worth it because I can provide her with things I wouldn't be able to if I dropped out!

Kel

Yeah I understand that but I just feel like there are certain things that he should be there for and it is really hard for me to take care of newborns. I get frustrated easy-i'm better with a little bit older kids-and he always said that he would be there and now he will only be home like 5 hrs a day and he is going to have to sleep then. I told him that I couldn't handle another baby, but he assured me he would be there to help me. I'm just so mad I dont know what to do. I'm a real drama queen too so right now I feel like just packing up and leaving.

Your pregnant, your emotions are running very highly right now, so I would say go take a walk right now, think everything through, not just what he will miss but everything! You can do this, wow I have alot more words of encouragment but right now I am gonna go throw up! Lol be back in a bit!

Kel

It sounds as though he just wants to do the right thing, you are not alone in this situation, many young mums go through it, my partner is in the navy and 'cause of all the caca thats been happening ( befor and after sep 11) paul hasn't been here with me, when I was pregnant with cailey he was away for 8 of the 9 months and then went streight back out to sea when she was 12 days old for another 6 months, I was lucky with amber cause he was mostly shore posted but he is leaving for the golf soon and wont be home for months again, amber will only be 16 weeks old when he goes, she will be almost a year old befor he holds her again.... If I can do it so can u, cause im not the strongest person, atleast your man will be at home at night..............

Well you made me feel a little better. thanks. But i'm just the type of person that needs to spend quality time with my bf or I start to get really sad, even more while i'm pregnant.

Yeah they give us a picture but I just want him to be there. We are not allowed to record the heartbeat or the ultrasound here.

Im so sorry-some of u guys have it really tough.Im sure all the stress and upset will be worth it 2 give ur little uns the best start in life
good luck & best wishes
liz x

Same thing is happening with larry and I , you just have to keep saying to yourself that the summer is coming and that things will get better. Well that is what I am saying anyways. Yes it will be a stress on your relationship and sometimes you will be going to appts. By yourself, but why dont you have a friend go with. You need to realize he is doing the best he can, you cant exspect anything more. I hope that I was of some help. I wish I could be there to go with you. Good luck!!

Stacie

Thanks alot girl!! Your great!!