I just got diagnosed with chlamydia and I truely dont know where or how I got it. First of all I am in a long term relationshipwith my wife and we are very faithful. I stake my life on her fidelity and I know where I have been. I just dont understand it. I am really crushed right now, not because I beleive she cheated on me, but because I know she will think I cheated on her. Is there any other way to contract this, such as through liquid excretions touching the penis, or could it have laid dorment for a long peroid of time only to come forward now? I am so scared that this will destroy my relationship it has set me into a very deep depression. I just need to know from a medical stand point that this may have come across another way. I have read on various other sites that it can be left in say ejactualant of urine and if mated with the penis/vagina qickly it may become contracted, is this true? I am utterly depressed right now. Don't anyone accusse her of cheating either, I know she hasn't. Trust me I know. Can I please get some medical advice on this. Please someone out there help me. I am so lost and depressed right now, I need some serious help, also for my childrens sake, I am so concerned.