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Q: Baby Shower And Other Things
asked by: kezia333 on January 28th, 2007
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Well yesterday (sat.27th) I had my baby shower. My step sister threw it for me and it was really fun! We played a couple games and ate tons of food and of course my favoirte part....Opened presents. I got a ton of clothes for him, he is going to have a outfit for everyday for a few months. I got a pack n play and a baby bath tub, tons of blankets and crib sheets and other stuff like baby shampoo and bottles. It was a really big help to get all that stuff b/c I could never afford all of it at once on my own, it would take me several more months and he is due in 8 weeks.

I have been having major relationship problems lately but I tried to be in a good mood for the shower yesterday. I don't know what is going on with my fiance(although I dont know if he still is). I am so scared I am going to end up having to go to a lawyer and getting child support which I dont want to do b/c I love him and want it to work but it isn't looking that way. Does anyone know how long it takes from thetime you go to a lawyer until you start getting support checks? Im going to need them pretty soon after he is born and I didn't know if I should wait to go to a lawyer until after he is born?

I have totally gotten to the point where I can't sleep good at night, it takes me at least a hour if not more to go to sleep. I get hot flashes and have crazy dreams.

I will be 32 weeks on tuesday and I go see my midwife on thursday. He has gotten really big already and they don't think I will make it to march 27th, they are thinking he might come by the 37th week. I am so worried about that, I mean its kind of weird to pretty much be expecting him for all of march but I dont want him to get too big cause if he gains much more then by the first or 2nd week in march I will have to have a c-section.
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Becky
replied on January 29th, 2007
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Congratulations on the baby shower. I'm glad it went wel for you. Unfortuantely I live in the uk so i'm not too up on texas laws on child support but this site looks like it might be useful:

http://www.Supportguidelines.Com/links.Htm l


this one is an online calculator:

http://www.Alllaw.Com/calculators/childsup port/texas/
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Becky
replied on January 29th, 2007
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This is a bit of info I found online. It is meant for the person playing the child support but it gives you a good idea:



how is child support determined?
The vast majority of child support is paid according to the child support guidelines. According to the texas family code, child support is calculated by multiplying the proper percentage by the paying parent's net income.

Net income is calculated by subtracting only 5 items from the parent's gross income (gross income includes commissions, overtime pay, tips, bonuses, interest, dividends, rental income, royalty income, trust income, retirement income, disability income, etc.):
social security taxes, federal income tax (based on the tax rate for a single person claiming one exemption), state income tax (for individuals who reside in states that collect state income tax), union dues, and
health insurance premiums for the child(ren).

The proper applicable percentage is calculated by determining how many children the paying parent has an obligation to support. For example, a parent who only has an obligation to support one child will pay 20% of net earnings. A father who has an obligation to support two children with the same mother will pay 25% of net earnings. However, a father who has an obligation to support two children with different mothers will pay 17.5% of net earnings to each child.

There is a cap on child support of $6000 of net earnings. In other words, if the paying parent earns more than $6000 per month (net), the percentage applied will only apply to the first $6000. The only exception to this is if the court finds that the child or children have additional or exceptional "needs" that require additional support.
If a child is disabled and has extraordinary needs, the court may and often will deviate from the guidelines to ensure that the child gets the additional services s/he needs.

How long is child support owed?
Child support is owed until the child becomes 18, unless the child has not graduated from high school, in which case the child support continues until the child has graduated from high school, as long as the child is fully enrolled in school. Presently, the law doe s not give judges the power to make a parent support a child beyond that, unless the child is physically or mentally disabled, in which case, support can be continued indefinitely.

Parents can agree that child support is to continue into the college years, or that one parent will be solely responsible for college expenses, and they can include such agreement as part of a decree of divorce. Such an agreement is not enforceable by contempt, but can be enforced as a contract, by either the parent who should be receiving the support or by the child, if that child is over the age of 18.

How is child support supposed to be paid?
The courts will almost always order that child support must be paid through either the local registry (in travis county that is the domestic relations office and in williamson county that is the district clerk's office) or the state disbursement unit (the san antonio office of the state attorney general). Any payments not made according the court's order are not counted and are generally considered "gifts".

This protects both the paying parent and the receiving parent because these registries keep an accounting of what payments have been made and on what date. This way the receiving parent can easily prove that certain payments were not made, or the paying parent can easily prove that such payments were made. The moral of this story: don't make informal payments to the receiving parent and expect to get credit for it!
Additionally, most child support orders are made with a wage withholding order. That means that the paying parent's employer will be ordered to withhold the child support amount from the paying parent's paycheck and send the child support directly to the registry.

This works best when the paying parent is with a large employer for a long period of time, but can work in other situations. Unfortunately, this doesn't work in every case. Parents who are self-employed or who work on commission generally have to be responsible for their own payments.


If I am being denied access to my children, do I still have to pay my child support?
Absolutely, yes. Texas law is very clear that even if you are being denied visitation with your children, you are still required to pay your support and you can still be held in contempt for failure to pay. If you are being denied access to your children, you should pursue an enforcement action against the parent denying you access.


Am I required to guarantee my child support with a life insurance policy?
You are not required, under texas law, to guarantee your child support with a life insurance policy. However, many receiving parents will request that you have a policy for that purpose and if you have an existing policy, the courts may require that you name your children as beneficiaries for the term of your child support obligation.


Hope this is helpful! Hopefully you won't need it if you get back on track with you fiance. Wish you all the best Wink
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kezia333
replied on January 30th, 2007
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Thank you sooo much for the info. It was really helpful!!!
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