Follow-up on my whole problem boyfriend
situation. He's history for now , I didnt
even talk to him , we got our number
changed, we were just gonna block his
number but there is always cellphones and
payphones etc.
But it sucks because i've lived here for
11 years and always had the same number ,
it will take some getting used to but it's
worth it.
I hate myself for still loving him but
after going to the pregnancy resource
center I got a nice kick in the face. She
asked me if I willing to have me or my
baby become a headline in a newspaper
because of his irate unpredictable
psychotic behavior. Maybe it was a little
drastic but it still made me wonder.
They told me as far as my custody battle
concerns he has nothing to stand on right
now. When the baby is born , the best
thing I could do is not put his name on
the birth certificate, that way if he
decides he has cleaned up his act enough
and wants to fight me for the baby , he
would have to pay for dna and it would be
a long expensive court battle. This guy
can't even keep a job for a week so I
doubt he could afford any of it , or have
the patience and willpower to stick with
it. That eased my mind a lot.
I start another job on monday as well ,
answering phones at a real estate office
nearby its not much but its much better
then cleaning toilets and scrubbing floors
everyday.
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mamaTT
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2007 Posts: 2010 Location: Illinois, USA
Thanks: 15
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Posted: 01-26-07 12:26pm
So sorry to hear of your struggles. Hope
all goes well.
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terpamber
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Nov 2006 Posts: 430
Posted: 01-26-07 12:33pm
Y.E.A! Good for you I know it can be
hard, and it will be for a while, but you
are much better off.
*heres to your new life*
amber nicole
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lil_blaze2004
Supporter
Joined: 29 Oct 2004 Posts: 6492 Location: ,
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Posted: 01-26-07 13:19pm
I'm glad you made that decision. A lot
of women let themsleves and their children
become victims.
Congrats on the new job. Answering a
phone at a desk will be much easier than
cleaning!
