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Eyes Wide Shut
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...In the family.
I'm not sure if yall remember me talking about the .Uncle that .Oni shares a birthday with. Her .Uncle .Marty. And how their birthday's are gonna fall on .Easter in 2018?(maybe I was just talkin to .K, but I can't remember)
well, yesterday, when I was taking the pics to post on here, .Oni would *not* stop staring at something. I didn't know what it was, but I snapped a pic of her staring...
now this is me getting her attention back...
little did I know that her .Uncle .Marty had *just* died.
I'm not one to jump to say "it was him! It was him!" but I just can't shake the overwhelming feeling of him being there while she slept.
He was pressure washing the side of a church when he had a massive heart attack. Or cardiac arrest. We're thinking he had a mino heart attack the other night at church, because he was rubbin his chest, but never said anything to us.
It's sad...I think it could have been prevented if he would have said his chest hurt a couple days ago...Men...
He was alone when he died...Thank .God he had the strength to walk into the street before he collapsed...
when I heard the news, I immedietly started crying. Oni is at the stage, where if I cry, she cries. So I have to hold my composure and it sooo effin hard.
This year & every year for .Oni's birthday, we're going to visit the cemetary before we celebrate.
We had *just* talked about a month ago about how fun the birthday was gonna be...
Soooo... My car won't start now. Baron's dad is gonna come over and see what's up with it.
I'll keep yall posted on the service and everything.
Please keep us in yalls prayers. This is really hard for the entire family.
Sarah
I'm not sure if yall remember me talking about the .Uncle that .Oni shares a birthday with. Her .Uncle .Marty. And how their birthday's are gonna fall on .Easter in 2018?(maybe I was just talkin to .K, but I can't remember)
well, yesterday, when I was taking the pics to post on here, .Oni would *not* stop staring at something. I didn't know what it was, but I snapped a pic of her staring...
now this is me getting her attention back...
little did I know that her .Uncle .Marty had *just* died.
I'm not one to jump to say "it was him! It was him!" but I just can't shake the overwhelming feeling of him being there while she slept.
He was pressure washing the side of a church when he had a massive heart attack. Or cardiac arrest. We're thinking he had a mino heart attack the other night at church, because he was rubbin his chest, but never said anything to us.
It's sad...I think it could have been prevented if he would have said his chest hurt a couple days ago...Men...
He was alone when he died...Thank .God he had the strength to walk into the street before he collapsed...
when I heard the news, I immedietly started crying. Oni is at the stage, where if I cry, she cries. So I have to hold my composure and it sooo effin hard.
This year & every year for .Oni's birthday, we're going to visit the cemetary before we celebrate.
We had *just* talked about a month ago about how fun the birthday was gonna be...
Soooo... My car won't start now. Baron's dad is gonna come over and see what's up with it.
I'll keep yall posted on the service and everything.
Please keep us in yalls prayers. This is really hard for the entire family.
Sarah
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AyaMiyaki
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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
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lil_blaze2004
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Bridget
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Eyes Wide Shut
Especially EHEALTHy
Thanks ladies...Everytime he saw .Oni he
would just gawk over her!! Talk about how
georgous she is, and how beautiful she's
going to be when she's older.
I was feeding the baby and .Baron's phone was in our room, ringing. My phone was dead.
Baron was sprawled out on the sofa and said "i ain't worried about that damn phone, i'm tryin to relax!"
i told him "but my phone's dead. Heaven forbid .Ga.Ga (his grandmaw) died!" I was totally joking and he was like "it's prob just your mom callin to tell us some sh't we already know..." and it was *his* mom.
When he got up to get it he called his mom back and was like "oh my god!What?!?!?!?!?!" and I freaked! I was like "what? What? What? What?!?!?!"
and he said it..."uncle marty died!"
sucks.... He was only 60 years old!!
Sarah
I was feeding the baby and .Baron's phone was in our room, ringing. My phone was dead.
Baron was sprawled out on the sofa and said "i ain't worried about that damn phone, i'm tryin to relax!"
i told him "but my phone's dead. Heaven forbid .Ga.Ga (his grandmaw) died!" I was totally joking and he was like "it's prob just your mom callin to tell us some sh't we already know..." and it was *his* mom.
When he got up to get it he called his mom back and was like "oh my god!What?!?!?!?!?!" and I freaked! I was like "what? What? What? What?!?!?!"
and he said it..."uncle marty died!"
sucks.... He was only 60 years old!!
Sarah
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Melissa_20
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hopefulmjz
Extremely EHEALTHy
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ANGELOS MAMA
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michelle1981
Supporter
I'm so sorry .Sarah for you & your
family's loss.
I do believe kids can see much more then we we can/do. Maybe he came to say good-bye
I do believe kids can see much more then we we can/do. Maybe he came to say good-bye
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Sunflower_pie81
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Eyes Wide Shut
Especially EHEALTHy
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ThriftyGal
Extremely EHEALTHy
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Eyes Wide Shut
Especially EHEALTHy
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Jules
Moderator
| babymajic0506 wrote: |
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do you realize that death happens in a *instant*? I mean, who would think that a perfectly "heathy" person could just drop? Like that. Sarah |
.When a person is old, I think that is a merciful way to go but when it someone who should have had years ahead of them, it's tragic.
My .Nan died when she was 60 from breast cancer and it was a long and painful experience that no-one deserves. You're right, 60 is still young by today's standards and i'm really sorry about your uncle.
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lil_blaze2004
Supporter
I have an enormous fear of death. Like
huge to the point where I think I have
problems sometimes. 
There's nights I lie awake thinking about it for hours and it sucks!!! I need help!
There's nights I lie awake thinking about it for hours and it sucks!!! I need help!
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Jules
Moderator
| lil_blaze2004 wrote: |
| i have an enormous fear of
death. Like huge to the point where I
think I have problems sometimes.
There's nights I lie awake thinking about it for hours and it sucks!!! I need help! |
i know what you mean. Sometimes I can be doing anything, just normal things, and it will suddenly hit me: "i'm going to die one day. I'm actually going to feel myself dying and know I am dying and then i'm going to be gone and gone forever." god, I wish I was religious
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tigresacanela24
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lil_blaze2004
Supporter
| purestgreen wrote: | ||
i know what you mean. Sometimes I can be doing anything, just normal things, and it will suddenly hit me: "i'm going to die one day. I'm actually going to feel myself dying and know I am dying and then i'm going to be gone and gone forever." god, I wish I was religious |
ahhhhhh me too!! We're so morbid. I hate thinking of it!
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