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Q: Stressed --- Plz Help Som1
asked by: fullofstress on January 26th, 2007
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Hi,
i goto see my gf once every 2 mnths. We have sex regular althoug I never ever penetrated her, not even with a condom. We decided not to risk it. Last time I met her was 31dec. We made love for only half hour. I did not penetrate or ejaculate at all. She had her last period on 24thdec. We are now awaiting her periods for this month but nothing yet. She had pains in lower back but nothing else. She is not nauseating, nor vomiting nor gained any weight.


Recently she shifted house and had an argument with her landlord. Her landlord is and old male who was arguing about not receiving her notice. She gets easily stressed out. And the shifting has caused lots to her.


Can she be pregnant. I will wait till monday and then suggest a test.


Riht now we are under extreme pressure and sleep only a few hours.


By the above description do you think she is pregnant.


Plz help
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fullofstress replied on January 26th, 2007
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Plz some1 reply.
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AyaMiyaki replied on January 26th, 2007
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Umm, how do you make love without penetration? Do you mean you two were making out? You can't get pregnant from kissing.
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fullofstress replied on January 26th, 2007
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We hug and kiss naked. I never ejaculated. Until today she had had regular periods as I said her last was around 24-26 dec.
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AyaMiyaki replied on January 26th, 2007
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She's not pregnant. In order for her to become pregnant, your sperm needs to be inside of her vagina. That could happen if you fingered her with sperm on your hands, if you had sex with her without a condom (whether you ejaculated or not) or if you did use a condom but it broke or came off. There is a helpful sticky called "read this: information about pregnancy" that you should probably read. It has great info on how pregnancy is caused, as well as what could delay a period besides pregnancy.

Good luck.
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fullofstress replied on January 26th, 2007
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Thanks a lot. I jus spoke to her clearly about it. Until now we would avoid it but I decided that if we avoid it it might be too late to talk later. So I just asked her about symptons and she refused. She said she is not nauseating, vomiting, dizzi nor her stomach feels weird.

I love her a lot and this would ruin her career and mine. I hope she gets her periods as soon as possible. Pray for me.
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Tylanas replied on January 26th, 2007
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fullofstress wrote:
thanks a lot. I jus spoke to her clearly about it. Until now we would avoid it but I decided that if we avoid it it might be too late to talk later. So I just asked her about symptons and she refused. She said she is not nauseating, vomiting, dizzi nor her stomach feels weird.

I love her a lot and this would ruin her career and mine. I hope she gets her periods as soon as possible. Pray for me.


is keeping a pregnancy the only option in your mind? I bet she's not pregnant, as you guys didnt actualy have vaginal sex, but this is still a good time for you guys to discuss your options regarding pregnancy.

There is adoption and abortion, so just remember that a pregnancy is not the end of the world. Even with keeping the baby, she'd be able to take maternity leave; and she would be able to go to work until she was very close to giving birth too. If you both are employed then you probably could care for a child.

Just remember your options!

Seriously though, she's almost certainly not pregnant.
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fullofstress replied on January 26th, 2007
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Thanks eiri,
your advice is very personal and touches my heart.

We are both students. Both doing our phd. She is exceptionally brilliant. She scored a distinction and had full scholarship for her masters and phd. From the kinda families we come from, if they come to know about any such thing then they would call her back home and nevr allow her to get back to studies and marry her somwhere else. That leaves me feeling guilty coz my stupidity resulted in devastating her career and life. I would never forgive myself.

Am going to see her tomorrow, she is not answering my phone. She is stressed and in absolute fear right now.

Thanks a lot everyone.
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