Laundry

you are correct! I used to do 2 loads (whites and darks) once a week, now most of the dirty laundry is finn's. I have to change his onesie and jammies on average 3 times a day. He pees all over himself when he's sleeping, we call him mr. Peebody.

do a "rupaul", tuck his doodle as far down as it will go. It helps, it took me almost a yr to figure it out and that's when he finally stopped waking up sopping wet.

well it mostly happens when I put on his belly to nap, it's like his diaper gets so wet it overflows. I just read a really scare sids article though so I won't be doing that anymore.

Also, there's nothing to tuck down. Most of the time his penis is like retracted back in like he's cold, does that make sense? Is that not normal? I'm terrified of his foreskin reattaching so I pull it back like once a day just to make the head pop out. His doctor said all his equipment looked good but this seems to happen a lot, it's rarely out and about like it should be.