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Q: Insubordination
asked by: tigresacanela24 on January 24th, 2007
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Okay the corporate spy is at it again. I had to call him yest to notify him of the other employee's death. So he accuses me of basically trying to kill him and playing a rotten joke on him and hangs up that phone on me. That had me boiling but I let it go. It's better for all involved if we can still work together. I don't want anyone to get fired. I don't want to quit. I just want us all to get along and dwell together in peace and harmony. Laughing but that just isn't to be. He's called a gazillion times under the guise of giving orders to the temp that we have here. That was okay with me at first. Then he started bypassing me and going directly to the temp. That ticked me off but again, I let it go. Now today he tells the temp not to check in with me at all because I don't know anything. Now that's just too effing much. I may not know how to actually perform maintenance tasks like repairs and such, but i'm ultimately responsible for everything in this building and there is nothing, and I mean nothing that can happen without my express written approval. So now the gloves are off and it's on... Twisted Evil
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lil_blaze2004 replied on January 24th, 2007
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What an ass. Seriously. what is wrong with him??
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tigresacanela24 replied on January 24th, 2007
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I have no idea girl...
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lil_blaze2004 replied on January 24th, 2007
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Are you his boss??
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Melissa_20 replied on January 24th, 2007
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what?!?! Does he think he's in control now because someone died? What an effin freak! I would knock his a$s out girl,go for it!

If I were you I would tell him off,in a semi nice tone so he can't say you were a health forum and then if he doesn't listen maybe you could go to your boss and she should have a talk with him.Or you could *threaten* him with getting fired,if you are allowed to do that of course.Men. . .
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hopefulmjz replied on January 24th, 2007
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Is there anyone you can report him to, or talk to about this? Sadly .I walked off my job .Sunday because of idiots like this. Different story completely, but it was still because of idiots that never seem to get caught for being stupid. I hope things work out and things can be settled.
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tigresacanela24 replied on January 24th, 2007
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Yes, jess. I am his boss. But with the way that he acts you wouldn't think that I was.... Rolling Eyes

i just get sooooooo pissed......... I reported him when he jumped in my face. Fat lot of good that did me, he's still here.
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Jules replied on January 24th, 2007
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hopefulmjz wrote:
is there anyone you can report him to, or talk to about this? Sadly .I walked off my job .Sunday because of idiots like this. Different story completely, but it was still because of idiots that never seem to get caught for being stupid. I hope things work out and things can be settled.


what happened? Every workplace has its suckers but it's sad when they're so bad that they drive people away. They seem to get away with it all the bloody time!
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lil_blaze2004 replied on January 24th, 2007
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Can you put him on a "probabtionary period" tell him he has {however long] to get his sh*t together or else your canadian friends will come down and kick his ass. Lol

or something along those lines. Laughing
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AyaMiyaki replied on January 24th, 2007
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tigresacanela24 wrote:
i had to call him yest to notify him of the other employee's death. So he accuses me of basically trying to kill him and playing a rotten joke on him and hangs up that phone on me.


does he have mental health problems? I think you've mentioned before that he's somewhat paranoid? Shocked
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Eyes Wide Shut replied on January 24th, 2007
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What a nut job!!! Shocked

sarah
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tigresacanela24 replied on January 24th, 2007
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I can't discipline. All disciplinary action has to come from hr headquarters. Apparently they think it's okay to have employees that jump in their bosses' faces. He actually came in here today walked right past me and started giving orders to the temp! I told my boss and she's said that he can't be here when he's on leave, but I don't know if she wants me to tell him that or is it's better if she should do it. I asked her but she hasn't gotten back to me yet.

Laura, i'm not a psychiatrist but if I had to give a diagnosis i'd say that he's a grade a certified nut!
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Melissa_20 replied on January 24th, 2007
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tigresacanela24 wrote:
i can't discipline. All disciplinary action has to come from hr headquarters. Apparently they think it's okay to have employees that jump in their bosses' faces. He actually came in here today walked right past me and started giving orders to the temp! I told my boss and she's said that he can't be here when he's on leave, but I don't know if she wants me to tell him that or is it's better if she should do it. I asked her but she hasn't gotten back to me yet.

Laura, i'm not a psychiatrist but if I had to give a diagnosis i'd say that he's a grade a certified nut!
f*ck waiting for the boss.I would warn his a$s.Tell him strait out that he is not suppose to be ther while he is on leave and he is not permitted to be in the building.If your his boss btu you can't do anything,what the hell are you there for?(nothing against you,only your dumb boss)
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AyaMiyaki replied on January 24th, 2007
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He's walking around after heart surgery?

I would have been like "can I help you?" all loud and stuff Laughing but .I'm a bit confrontational lately.
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tigresacanela24 replied on January 24th, 2007
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I'm trying not to be because i've been feeling particularly rowdy lately. Me + rowdy = severe trouble. I'll do and say some foul things so I think it's better for all concerned (especially) me if I have her call. I don't want to snap out.
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Melissa_20 replied on January 24th, 2007
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tigresacanela24 wrote:
i'm trying not to be because i've been feeling particularly rowdy lately. Me + rowdy = severe trouble. I'll do and say some foul things so I think it's better for all concerned (especially) me if I have her call. I don't want to snap out.
well you have yourself under better control than I would,shiiit.He would get an earful.If they don't do anything about him getting up in your face they shouldn't do much to you for yelling.
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lil_blaze2004 replied on January 24th, 2007
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Haha I was just telling kia yesterday we must all be pms-ing (even the preggos-lol) we some b*tchy girls lately. Thank .God i'm a mod, cause a lot of not nice things would have come out of my mouth lately.
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AyaMiyaki replied on January 24th, 2007
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melissa_20 wrote:
tigresacanela24 wrote:
i'm trying not to be because i've been feeling particularly rowdy lately. Me + rowdy = severe trouble. I'll do and say some foul things so I think it's better for all concerned (especially) me if I have her call. I don't want to snap out.
well you have yourself under better control than I would,shiiit.He would get an earful.If they don't do anything about him getting up in your face they shouldn't do much to you for yelling.


ha, .I'm the same way. I probably would have told that woman "if you don't deal with it, I will. One way or another, this needs to stop." and might have asked her exactly what .I'm allowed to say to him and not allowed to say to him. So if he got in my face with a hissy saying he was going to report me, I could say ".I'm allowed to say this to you. Go ahead."

whiney little sh|t. Ugh.
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AyaMiyaki replied on January 24th, 2007
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lil_blaze2004 wrote:
haha I was just telling kia yesterday we must all be pms-ing (even the preggos-lol) we some b*tchy girls lately. Thank .God i'm a mod, cause a lot of not nice things would have come out of my mouth lately.


no kidding, right?? We're all been kind of Evil or
Very Mad lately! It must be this weather!
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Eyes Wide Shut replied on January 24th, 2007
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Hell, it must be the water...

Sarah
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