Help!! Im Facing the Biggest Problem of My Life!! Please!!! Posted: 01-23-07 22:27pm
today me and my girlfriend whom im deeply
in love with, we had sex.
Her parents are very abusive and
unforgiving. Me and her were caught with
the used condom. I was thrown outside the
house and my girlfriend was left crying.
I dont know what to do.Even thoughts of
suicide crossed my mind! Im desperate.
Her parents are furious!! I might never
see the true love of my life again! They
might send her away. Im begging people
for any advice on what I should do.
Please my life depends on it.
I love her too much, more than her parents
can ever understand and we made a mature
decision together. Please anyone. What
should I do with her parents?
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RedDelight
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2006 Posts: 131 Location: I'm a Yettie!
Re: Help!! Im Facing the Biggest Problem of My Life!! Please Posted: 02-01-07 09:58am
danneedshelp
wrote:
today me and my girlfriend whom im deeply
in love with, we had sex.
Her parents are very abusive and
unforgiving. Me and her were caught with
the used condom. I was thrown outside
the house and my girlfriend was left
crying. I dont know what to do.Even
thoughts of suicide crossed my mind! Im
desperate. Her parents are furious!! I
might never see the true love of my life
again! They might send her away. Im
begging people for any advice on what I
should do. Please my life depends on
it.
I love her too much, more than her parents
can ever understand and we made a mature
decision together. Please anyone. What
should I do with her
parents?
hi dan....
Breathhhhhhh! Alright.. That does suck.
If I was the parents.. I'd be wondering
why you aren't explaining yourself. Ever
think of talking to them about what
happened? Yes it's embrassing..But it
proves you care for their daughter- more
than just a sexual thing- her well being,
and their trust.
At least try. Yes- they may be difficult
people..And if they are hurting her
physically.. I would report it! But,
you never know- unless you at least try.
Suicide won't help you...Don't you dare
even thinking of that! Just because this
happened= doesn't mean you won't get
through this!
I would try and set up a time to talk
about what happened. If they do lash
out- please remember- this is their
daughter... And they caught her doing
something they didn't expect. How long
ago did this happen? I would give them a
few days to collect themselves.. Then try
and talk things out with them. I think
they are mad because you disrespected
their home, by doing the "deed" with their
daughter under their roof. Tell them how
you feel about their daughter and you are
sorry you gave that impression.
Please be careful.. If you feel
threatened or if you think she is... I
would advise someone outside of the
family.
Good luck- i'm here if you need me!
-=red=-
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 02-02-07 18:43pm
I think miss gave you some good advice.
Suicide certainly won't solve anything.
It'll only make things harder for her.
That's not fair to her, and I doubt you
would want to put her through that.
If her parents are really abusive, then
she needs to get out of there.
