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danneedshelp
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today me and my girlfriend whom im deeply in love with, we had sex.
Her parents are very abusive and unforgiving. Me and her were caught with the used condom. I was thrown outside the house and my girlfriend was left crying. I dont know what to do.Even thoughts of suicide crossed my mind! Im desperate. Her parents are furious!! I might never see the true love of my life again! They might send her away. Im begging people for any advice on what I should do. Please my life depends on it.
I love her too much, more than her parents can ever understand and we made a mature decision together. Please anyone. What should I do with her parents?
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RedDelight
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today me and my girlfriend whom im deeply in love with, we had sex. Her parents are very abusive and unforgiving. Me and her were caught with the used condom. I was thrown outside the house and my girlfriend was left crying. I dont know what to do.Even thoughts of suicide crossed my mind! Im desperate. Her parents are furious!! I might never see the true love of my life again! They might send her away. Im begging people for any advice on what I should do. Please my life depends on it. I love her too much, more than her parents can ever understand and we made a mature decision together. Please anyone. What should I do with her parents? |
hi dan....
Breathhhhhhh! Alright.. That does suck. If I was the parents.. I'd be wondering why you aren't explaining yourself. Ever think of talking to them about what happened? Yes it's embrassing..But it proves you care for their daughter- more than just a sexual thing- her well being, and their trust.
At least try. Yes- they may be difficult people..And if they are hurting her physically.. I would report it! But, you never know- unless you at least try. Suicide won't help you...Don't you dare even thinking of that! Just because this happened= doesn't mean you won't get through this!
I would try and set up a time to talk about what happened. If they do lash out- please remember- this is their daughter... And they caught her doing something they didn't expect. How long ago did this happen? I would give them a few days to collect themselves.. Then try and talk things out with them. I think they are mad because you disrespected their home, by doing the "deed" with their daughter under their roof. Tell them how you feel about their daughter and you are sorry you gave that impression.
Please be careful.. If you feel threatened or if you think she is... I would advise someone outside of the family.
Good luck- i'm here if you need me!
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Llewellyn
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