wow angry...That is not cool of her- wants sex from you? What are you, a toy?! Screw that sh*t.

Listen to your gut instinct here...Are you happy when you are with her or annoyed? Please.. Have pride for yourself. Dont' let her use you in this way! That's wrong- and hurtful of her. I have been in a verbal relationship.. Actually currently getting rid of the second verbal abuser at this moment I suggest going to a therapist. Who gives you the right to be abusive.. Even if it just is verbal- does anyone diserve that? It has to be bothering you as well. You don't sound too pleased.. Not only with your relationship.. But yourself as well.

I am sorry this is happening to you, angry. It can get better- but only if you want it to be. I am here to talk any time. get a third out opinion in-person. If you are truely unhappy.. And she wants to sleep around? That's not healthy for anyone to go through...And if she loved you- she would never put you in that position. Would you?

Don't let this eat away at your spirit. You did a good step, by coming on here- and talking about it. You should seek some additional help, with the verbal abuse.. And I am proud of you- that you can admit you have that problem. It is a fixable thing. That took balls! Thank god someone on here finally has some!

you've got to put yourself first for once. Take care of things on your end.. It will get better!

I am here-

-=rebecca=-

Wow sorry your going through that pain right now! Seems like your wife ready to get out and live a marriage free lifestyle! Thats so upseting to hear that she wanted to sleep with another man. How long have you all been married.?? When someone is ready to be free, and explore, theres really nothing you can do but give them time! I would say do what your heart is saying, because no mattter what we advise in the end you are going to do what makes you happy, if you feel you have to give her chance to come around do that, if you feel that you should get a divorce do that! Good luck.


Hugs.

Babydance143

Miss depressed - angry said that his wife wants to sleep with other people, not him.

Angry - I am so sorry to hear what you are going through! Listen to what your heart says, if you still love her and want to be with her, could you sit down with her and say, we have both made mistakes, I love you, I want to give it another go. I cant sit here and watch you sleeping with other people, if you dont want me im going to move on??? So it will then put the ball in her court and she will realise that your not just going to sit back and wait for her to decide what she wants in life.

I agree with one of the previous posters when they said she seems like she wants to live the marriage free lifestyle, it would have been better if she decided that before she was married though!

I wish you all the best and I hope things work out the way that you want them too!

Love,

mel