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Q: I Love My Best Friend
asked by: Poetry_Writter on January 22nd, 2007
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Yea well it's true I love my best friend. I admit it. He is my best friend and we have only been friends for a few monthes now but I love him. He as told me that he likes me but he has a girlfriend who happens to be one of my good friends. I luv her to but only as a friend. He also says that we will probly never go out becuase he doesn't want to risk our friend ship. I completly understand that but I can't support it. I love him and I want to be with him but now I find out that I can't. It really hurts and I really don't know what to do. This hurts so bad i've considered going back to my usual method of fixing things and cutting myself. But I really don't want to do that. It's completly worth it. I would do anything for him even cut myself but I don't want to do it. Please help me tell what to do. I need help dealing with this. Please!!!
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s_kalb
replied on January 22nd, 2007
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Oh yeah I understand you completely, I think i'm having the same issue. I don't have much of an answer myself, unfortunately.


At any case you are not doing him any favor by cutting yourself. So when you say "i'd even cut myself for him", you won't even have to Smile

i guess the best thing to do is what everyone does when they have love blues: keep busy and meet new people.


On the other hand I understand you don't want to and that it's even more difficult to face someone you love "just as a friend".

As I say i'm having the same situation here and I feel like i'm lying to myself.

But still, neither of you or me can control their feelings, so we have to accept their choices. If they want us "only" as friend, so be it. Let's move on and seek for other people.


Just don't concentrate yourself on this, we don't want you to get hurt Smile


i have no idea if this post helped you, but the topic practically summed up my own situation so I thought I could say a little sth...
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Poetry_Writter
replied on January 22nd, 2007
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s_kalb wrote:
oh yeah I understand you completely, I think i'm having the same issue. I don't have much of an answer myself, unfortunately.



At any case you are not doing him any favor by cutting yourself. So when you say "i'd even cut myself for him", you won't even have to Smile

i guess the best thing to do is what everyone does when they have love blues: keep busy and meet new people.



On the other hand I understand you don't want to and that it's even more difficult to face someone you love "just as a friend".


As I say i'm having the same situation here and I feel like i'm lying to myself.

But still, neither of you or me can control their feelings, so we have to accept their choices. If they want us "only" as friend, so be it. Let's move on and seek for other people.



Just don't concentrate yourself on this, we don't want you to get hurt Smile


i have no idea if this post helped you, but the topic practically summed up my own situation so I thought I could say a little sth...


thanks sooo much it did help...I really appreciate you tkaing the time to try and help becuase you did and now I have a lot more to think about but in a good way so yayyayyayay thank you
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s_kalb
replied on January 22nd, 2007
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Aahh you can't believe how cute it is to see a girl jump around so joyfully!

I'm here for you any time you know, I have too much spare time on my hands Smile but I gotta sleep now though... Wink see ya around
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