Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 1611 Location: virginia beach, va usa
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Hes Quitting Posted: 01-22-07 09:46am
Or at least hes trying to quit
im so proud of him, anyone have any ideas
on how I can help him? He was eating like
a mad man yesterday, so instead of running
out of food im gonna get him a bunch of
gum and lollipops today, I just want it to
really stick, I hate his smoking (even
though he goes outside, I can still smell
it, and I know how bad it is for him) and
he knows how much I dont like it, he
doesnt like it eaither cause he knows its
bad for the baby (and me) and its bad for
him too...So I really hope he stays with
it and doesnt give in
he had 3 ciggarettes yesterday, those were
his last 3, he told me he wouldnt buy more
today
only annoying thing is that he throws them
out yesterday after a friend of his online
started health forum at him for
smoking...Bleh, whatever, at least his
quitting
Eh I dont really know other then dont
keep alot of junk food around, my dad quit
for like a year and packed on 40 lbs and
then started up smoking again rather then
gaining more weight lol. I think
lollipops are a good idea so he has
something with the hand to mouth thing
going on instead of smoking ya know. I
guess if ya find you get the urge to smoke
try and find something to keep ya busy
like something hands on more so, rather
then tryin to read a book or something I
dont think that would help keep you
occupied. Like er do laundry etc lol.
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sexymomma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2006 Posts: 123 Location: ,
Posted: 01-22-07 10:00am
Do what I did buy some smoking patches if
you get the exact brand they are like
twenty dollars and you get seven in box.
They worked really good for me I started
on the 14 mg then whenever I got use to it
it I went down to 7mg within three weeks I
didn't smoke anymore. And the good thing
about smoking patches is that you don't
just quit cold turkey so your not really
putting stress on your body.
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Makoto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jul 2006 Posts: 276 Location: Japan
Posted: 01-22-07 10:03am
I made some comments in the quit smoking
section of these forums. I highly
recommend you visit that section. If you
can get your husband to read my comments
as well.
All I can say now, is get the book easy
way to quit smoking. Check it out on the
net, and in yahoo questions. It worked
wonders for me to quit.
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Sophie585
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jun 2006 Posts: 141 Location: Canada
Posted: 01-22-07 10:14am
Just try your best to be supportive... I
used to smoke between 5 and ten cigarettes
a day begore .I got pregnant, but as soon
as .I founf out .I quit. My bf used to
smoke more than me, but he's cut back a
lot. I try not to nag him about it,
because he knows he needs to quit too.
Just focus on his successes, and not his
failures. Hope everything works out!!!
<3 .Sophie
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anttm04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Feb 2006 Posts: 121
Posted: 01-22-07 10:21am
Try to get some tart, fruity type
lollipops..Pesonal experience...A smoker's
sense of tast is usually somewhat dulled
and the fruity type (i used jolly
ranchers) helped...The stick helped with
the psychological feeling, as well as
something to do with the hands,
part....Good luck to your bf....The patch
also helped quite a bit with the physical
cravings...
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Idony
Supporter
Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 1611 Location: virginia beach, va usa
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Posted: 01-22-07 12:40pm
Thanks everyone
i know I have to support him and focus on
the positive, im trying
as for the patches, he can get a
perscription for that from medical for
free, so im gonna try to get him to do
that
ill try to find something bitter fruitty
that he will eat, hes a very picky eater,
I think I might try some jolly rancher
something, he likes jolly ranchers, well
some flavors
~alicia~
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sexymomma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2006 Posts: 123 Location: ,
Posted: 01-22-07 13:00pm
If hes going to start taking the patch
just make sure that he gets the right
one there 7 mg ,14 mg then I think theres
a 20 but anyway it says on the box which
one you should take depending on how much
you smoke a day. Whenever I first tried
the patch I bought the 20 mg and it was
way too much it made me feel dizzy and
really sick then I tried the 7 mg and that
worked a way better for me then I had no
problems from there aside from my arm
being itchy all the time but thats normal
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Mommy35
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 01-22-07 18:51pm
Great advice from sophie585. If he has a
slip up, don't be mad, just encourage him
to keep trying.
Quitting is hard. I used lollipops and
sugarless gum. It is important to find
something to do to occupy the hands and
mind when a craving comes on.
If he likes to have a drink I don't
suggest it. For many people a drink and
a smoke go together, and it's easy to say
"i'm only going to have a couple tonight
because i'm drinking". I've tried to
quit and started again using this
excuse.
The patch works well, but you do have to
get the right dose. There is a company
called cigarest, and they are a rip off.
Just an fyi.
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New DAD
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Jan 2007 Posts: 16 Location: Norfolk VA
Posted: 01-22-07 19:52pm
Thank you its nice to see you are proud of
me even when u wont tell me I know u love
me and I love u too and I will stick with
it cause I want to make u happy
New dad, I really suggest you get the book
easy way to quit smoking. It is cheaper
than the patches, and nicorette gum. Not
only that it works sooooo much better. I
also suggest you get it on amazon.Com for
second hand.
I say this as an exsmoker, I gain nothing
if you buy the book or not. I have had
many friends read the book, while I
laughed at the idea of the whole thing. I
thought it was stupid. I wasted two years
until I decided to give the book a try. I
was like magic. I tried it all first,
patches, gum, will power, the whole thing.
I wish I had of read the book two years
ago.
People who read the book have close to a
90% success rate in quitting. The gum and
patches are only 20%, and they cost
more.
Think about it, you are going to use
nicotene to get off nicotene. How much
sense is that??? You need to change your
thinking about cigarettes. Until that
happens chances are you are going to be
craving them for a long time, and if you
use the patches, it just draws the whole
withdrawl suffering thing out. What
should take 3-5 days, takes weeks on the
gum and patches. Ouch.
Trust me, get the book. This is not a
sales gimmick.